One view and then blocked!!!!

Why do some people stalk and view your profile and the block you without you even interacting with them?

why do you let it bother you....lots of people like to look at various profiles...we dont care who or why people might block us...

@Slowvelder69 - I am as confused as you are. A view, a message, an invite to view an album - and then blocked within minutes, before I even have a chance to look or reply  - what's that all about??

It happens and I accept that I might just not be there cup of tea but we are human and we have feelings

could be someone you know or knows you. 

Our profile specifically says no winks and no friend requests unless we have met. Any person or persons that didn't even bother reading the opening line of our profile and sends us a wink or a friend request - gets blocked. If they cant be bothered to read...  how much are they going to suck in bed? I mean the wink feature is just such a confirmation at how lazy you are. Or that you are so desperate to cast as many nets as broadly and as quickly as possible. Blacklist sitting at over 500 and climbing. Our journey. Our rules. FIFO

People just don't read the Profiles which means they are BS. If they were sincere about the site and really interested in meeting like minded people, they would take the trouble to read it to if they fit. Simple. 

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Our profile specifically says no winks and no friend requests unless we have met. Any person or persons that didn't even bother reading the opening line of our profile and sends us a wink or a friend request - gets blocked. If they cant be bothered to read...  how much are they going to suck in bed? I mean the wink feature is just such a confirmation at how lazy you are. Or that you are so desperate to cast as many nets as broadly and as quickly as possible. Blacklist sitting at over 500 and journey. Our rules. 

 Our profile is very accurate as to what we looking for.

Its obvious many either have not read it or believe they have a right to interact with you as those who are not what's asked for we send a polite no thanks.

Then they start indirectly insisting on meeting, continuing to ask after having been politely declined which then brings the block option into play.

Then you have the crude replies, just because we play does not make us cheap and nasty, a first reply that's extremely rude and crude says that is what you are, disrespectful and we block rubbish like that in an instant.

The initial feeling of seeing you are blocked sucks but i do understand why it has been done , it a message from the couple/lady that they choose not to interact with me and if thats how they feel then i welcome it. This saves me writing a message introducing myself and then being if dark and sweet is not how you like your tea, feel free to block me 

It's their choice to block you.  But it's bad for your ego if you view a profile for the first time, and realize they've allready blocked you.

Why do people get blocked, often for stupid replies............. " Hi I saw your advert and think we pretty well matched and can blah blah blah, oh only thing is I am nota bi male and do not partake in any bi activities................."

The above was a reply to a bi male advert we posted yesterday.

Just had one again. Profile I've never seen before view mine,  and block me immediately. That's even worse than getting ghosted.

In your settings you can select who can contact you M, F or CPL, I assume it blocks the ones you do not want contact with, which is most likely why so many people think they blocked, where it is that gender is blocked, if you want only cpls then you click on CPL which wont allow either a M or F to contact you.

I started chatting with the female of a couple in the chat room. After which she gave me her number and asked me to her. 

Following day I her, hi I am so and so.  I been blocked ever since. 

I don't think its possible to look at a profile a person has blocked, unless there is a delay in the system where for a time a blocked profile can be still be viewed. Perhaps there will be other comments about this phenomenon.

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I started chatting with the female of a couple in the chat room. After which she gave me her number and asked me to her. 

Following day I her, hi I am so and so.  I been blocked ever since. 

Second thoughts.

Maybe she had second thoughts about making contact and giving out her number. A lot of folks on the internet can be quite rude by not politely declining if they change their mind and I am sure they wouldn't behave that way if they met you in person. I think that when people are rude on the web it actually saves you from meeting such people and having a - not so pleasant experience. And yes one's ego gets knocked when folks are rude If I can chose I would prefer a couple making a poor impression first here on our SH platform.

Couples

Another thing to remember is that couples with decent pictures and well thought out profile descriptions get absolutely bombarded by the literally hundreds of single men out there who simply do not read or respect the requirements laid out in front of them. This I would imagine could wear down a couples patients severely. And then there are couples that in spite of this irritation are still very polite and respectful!

As for single males, we can only imagine how things are from a couples perspective. I get the feeling that the frustrations a single male has, can be multiplied a hundred or two if you are a couple with an amazing profile and gallery. I am a single male and I can say that as much as 95% of the time, couples who contact me or send winks or friend requests have not read a word of my profile :) I don't believe that not reading is just a single male pain in the neck but rather just a phenomenon that applies to humans as a collective. But then again I could be wrong about that!

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Just had one again. Profile I've never seen before view mine,  and block me immediately. That's even worse than getting ghosted.

You never know! Maybe they know you from work or are members of your family and are making sure your cyber paths never cross

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My pet peeve is people who block our profile from seeing them, but continue to come to our profile to look at us 🤔🤔.

Don't think that's possible as if you block a profile it becomes non readable and non contactable.

But maybe there is a loophole in the system.

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My pet peeve is people who block our profile from seeing them, but continue to come to our profile to look at us 🤔🤔.

We see this often. A hand full of couples profiles have done this to us. Then also liking our pics 🙄