Kinky stuff...who is brave enough to even read this, then to go try it out???
No one is to young or to old, you need not be sexy or a Barbie dol or Ken doll...you can just be who you are to enjoy this kind of play.....
I hear so many women tell me that they, don`t go in for all that bondage stuff.
When I ask them if they at least tie their lovers hands when they do some cock teasing or some role play, most tell me they don`t.
When I ask if they at least blindfold him during a tease session, again the answer is *no'*
Shame on you Ladies!
There is a reason that I advocate the use of blindfolds and bondage when teasing your lover.
Your objective usually is (or at least should be) to get him as aroused,and hard as you possibly can.
Isn`t it?
If you do not answer *Yes'*to that, you may as well skip this post.
In fact, you may as well forget about teasing your man altogether.
I mean, if you are going to do it, do it right.
A blindfold serves as an aid to increasing your partner's arousal because it forces him to use his imagination.
His fantasies live in his imagination.
Think about it.
A blindfold can also eliminate the need for you to put on some kind of fantasy enhancing attire (sexy outfit) in order to tease him.
If he can not see you, he will imagine you. In other words, you can be dressed in an old pair of jeans and T-shirt,or butt naked,
but he will imagine the leather teddy, high-heeled boots, and whatever else he would like you to wear.
You can even feed his imagination by describing what you want him to see.
Even if he tells you he is visual.....just blind fold him and let his imagination free!!
As for the bondage part, again, you need to feed his imagination.
By simply tying his hands so that he is unable to use them, he will feel more vulnerable.
More vulnerable equals more arousal.
Wait... Is that not the point of this forum?
It does not matter that you are lousy at tying knots.
It does not matter that if he really wanted to he could get loose.
All that matters is that feeling of vulnerability, of having no control (because you have all the control).
That alone will increase his arousal.
You can bind his wrists behind his back.
His arms to the arms of a chair,and if so inclined his legs wide open to the legs of the chair.
You can tie him to the headboard of your bed , you can even tie them to the top of a door.
It does not matter how you bind his hands as long as you do it.
I hope you get my point.
Two simple items, a blindfold and piece of rope, can make your play time so much more fun.
Why go kinky when teasing your partner, when there are so many things you can do to get him to new heights of arousal without the kinky play.
Don`t believe me?
Try tying his hands to a chair and blindfolding him while he is naked.
Then sit down and start reading a book (to yourself).
Every now and then, ask him if he would like you to touch his cock.
Or ask him to describe what he would like you to be wearing when you touch him.
You'll see I'm right.
Have fun with teasing... ..TRY NEW things.
It is going to be fun,
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Pib glad nie iets wat ons gaan probeer, sal die spasie dophou vir nog kinky idees
Orgasminator
Glo ook nie ek hou van die lees gedeelte nie
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My response to follow . ..
I would love to know how it went if and when you have tried this.
Now the reading part is to just prove that any man also has imagination....we Ladies know we do have LOTS of imagination...but men always claim to be more visual...well the reading part is just to prove that your man will get aroused just by thinking and Wondering when you going to start and already visualizing how it is going to go down...
Now, on the HOW to tease, I really do not have to spell out do I...but I could if asked!!!
This kind of KINK has nothing to do with any pain or toys....it can be a sensual and on hands and lips feet and what ever as you would want to make it.
I am really hoping to see some feedback afterwards.....
And yeah, men can most certainly do the very same to their ladies!!
This is great fun and I highly recommend it to any couple.
And I'll happily volunteer to be a nostalgic test subject for you PIB ;)
You can be as creative as you like
Orgasminator
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Stull waiting for SDMR`s LATE comment!!! as he has to think on this one!!!
Ermm guys I will be posting some little titbits on how I *do tease*.....to whom ever is interested.
I'm very interested
I love doing what I found out is actually considered part of 'sub/dom' play or so Wikipedia describes it. Tease and denial, but I can think of many ways to make that more interesting if including blindfolding the Mr....
We have done the blindfold part and I then actually used a feather duster to tickle him a bit 
But love to hear more ideas, and if he's willing will surely try some!
But love to hear more ideas, and if he's willing will surely try some! 