What I find unfortunate is the increase in people on this site that are taking a stance of "this is allowed and that is not" and "just remember I am not a swinger and I only fuck my husband /wife" Guys this is a swingers site and not a chat site for bored mother grundies passing time instead of working
Just my feelings use it don't use it
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Sexlightened
Lots of them pic humters
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Whst l meen lots of them wana meet but they want picks when tou chat and after rhe pics you dont here from then
Sex God
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Whst l meen lots of them wana meet but they want picks when tou chat and after rhe pics you dont here from then
Stay off the
and post when sober my motto - then you'll make sense 
and if one of the so called "forum regulars" made a post like this, we would be hammered for attacking people and used as an example to explain why so few people comment on the forums . . . . . .
@SaHedonist and @Nerowp, I have also noticed what you have commented on here. I think that it is an unfortunate result of the way "peoples rights" have been so badly twisted to make sure everyone is happy. No more is the simple "follow the rules" a way of life.
I just feel I need to repeat once more.
Single people can not say they are swingers, we are NOT swingers as we are NOT part of a couple. Anyone who is here playing alone is also NOT a swinger even if you are here as part of a couple and play alone. Swinging is for couples only!!!
But we singles can say we have a Swingers MINDSET and like what the lifestyle offers.
As for being on this site....it really is for everyone,NO ONE has the right to say we who do NOT MEET anyone for a sexual interlude should not be here.
Just saying.....................
Sexlightened
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@ SaHedonist and @Nerowp .........but my husband is.. so do I let him come here alone ? lie on my profile and say I am a swinger ? or be honest?
Mr Nawty here,
Amazon: No, NO, and YES! The lifestyle is first and foremost a 'mindset' which means that if you are open minded enough to frequent this kind of web site and discuss all measures of topics openly and honestly with your spouse then you are at least 98% of the way there and therefore have every right to be here and be thoroughly honest about who you are and what you are looking for etc.
Swingers aka lifestylers come in many varying degrees INCLUDING many who simply love communicating with other adults openly and honestly about absolutely anything and everything ...
blah blah blah ... I hope you get the gist of what I am trying to get across?
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I just feel I need to repeat once more.
Single people can not say they are swingers, we are NOT swingers as we are NOT part of a couple. Anyone who is here playing alone is also NOT a swinger even if you are here as part of a couple and play alone. Swinging is for couples only!!!
But we singles can say we have a Swingers MINDSET and like what the lifestyle offers.
As for being on this site....it really is for everyone,NO ONE has the right to say we who do NOT MEET anyone for a sexual interlude should not be here.
Just saying.....................
A big MEOW here!!
Single people swing and may swing with others!! - what a load of Horseshit post Puss - Im horrified !!
>>>>>>>> Awaits a reply from guess who
LMAO @ ya Irish
Now please do go read my post again!!!!!
I STAND with what I am saying there. Swinging is a COUPLES thing....We, the singles only have a SWINGERS mindset and we like what the lifestyle offers fact we can not say we are swingers per se.....we are single!!!!
You can of course disagree with what I am saying, but please do elaborate and explain on HOW we single`s can be swingers????
WE do not have a partner to swop and play with other if you thinking of taking a play partner with to swinging events where couples are, you go through as a COUPLE.
I have never said we do not enjoy what the lifestyle offers, of course we do......or else why are we here?? or I should say the majority is here for the playing part,but still we can not call ourselves just enjoy what the lifestyle offers.
sooooo put your money where your mouth is and explain to me...
Master of Sex
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I just feel I need to repeat once more.
Single people can not say they are swingers, we are NOT swingers as we are NOT part of a couple. Anyone who is here playing alone is also NOT a swinger even if you are here as part of a couple and play alone. Swinging is for couples only!!!
But we singles can say we have a Swingers MINDSET and like what the lifestyle offers.
As for being on this site....it really is for everyone,NO ONE has the right to say we who do NOT MEET anyone for a sexual interlude should not be here.
Just saying.....................
I agree, I'm part of a couple now but we prefer watching. Does that mean we not meant to be here
