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Name and shame 😠

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We should have a name and shame group.

As a single guy mostly, it takes alot of time and effort to differentiate and market myself as there are so many other guys on here. There's so many couples and females that complain about fakes and time wasters, yet they do the same.

In the last 5 days I've been stood up 3 times. This is after sending face, body etc pictures and chatting for some time. Some give excuses and others don't, some try to blame it on you like what happened now which i guess is the reason of my rant. Apparently "we could meet at 11" and me saying, see you there was not a confirmation that we are meeting 😀. Then you get blocked and reported even before you can let them know your thoughts.

Driving a distance or sitting in a restaurant waiting is not on. In hindsight I do think that 2/3 profiles were guys pretending to be women/couples just wanting cock pictures.

I'm wondering if this is just me or are others experiencing the same recently

It's not "just lately" . . .

But, take a second if you will, and think about life/the world in general. This kind of behavior is fairly common practice, not only in this kind of scenario.

Take a breath, it is what it is.

I understand your point however naming and shaming is not allowed on this site.

I don't wont to name and shame but mainly men, you make a place and time and they don't come, They chat to the wife and all they want to do is meet than don't show, probably because they married

I feel your pain. Last year I was stood up for the first time in about 30 odd years (lifestyle/social/dating).... its rough considering I am the type to hold onto grudges well beyond the extinction of the cockroach.