Ladies what do you prefer: A good long muff OR to have a finger play with your clit and love hole Or just plan sex.
Remember now ladies here is you chance to help us guys to give you what you like the most
Joyrider
I prefer tongues and dicks over fingers because the largest majority of guys have zero skills with fingers, if the skills are there however.... well then we'll renegotiate...
I should say at this point, that the specific skill most lacking is the ability to LISTEN and act on my desires as verbalised and not the formula they have in their head which says "how to play with a clit"... like all of them are the same.
PIB and LEE have it spot on. It's about the skills each person has, the situation and the mood.
It's about being able to listen to what the person receiving wants.
Some ladies like direct clit play, others don't. I like my whole vulva to be given attention during head, that includes the lips and vaginal entrance, not just clit play. Which for me, has to be indirect or you get a knee in the face ;)