Are there any experienced mistresses willing and able to teach a curious relatively inexperienced couple the ropes so to speak and preferably has an equipped dungeon.
If you join a Kink site, you may find that there is many BDSM get togethers from Moots to Play Parties in every Province in South Africa,where you guys can go and meet Kinky people who will gladly help your journey into the Kink world. You may mail me and ask a reference to kink sites available that caters to us in SA,or just google.
Also Starting out trying your hands at any Kink....google and read up on it, you really do not always need expensive toys and BDSM furniture to be able to play.