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This one is for the ladies to comment on... I understand that different women have different preferences when it comes to men. Horses for courses and all that. I would love to hear some different opinions though - for interest sake. There are guys that are hairy and stick to being men and there are guys that shave or wax to look like gleaming pink baby seal's. The "Hugh Jackmans" and the "Channing Tatum's". In my opinion, the men and pretty boys. I remember a time when women were attracted to the Sean Connery's of the world. Chiseled looks, gentleman, not too gym toned, unshaven chests... Now it seems that the unscarred, perfect girly skin, waxed all over, baby soft pretty boys are all the rage. What defines a "man" in your opinion? The mans man that will throw a punch without fear to protect his lady and could not care if his hair gets messed up, or the walking abs, smooth shiny male stripper that will die if the pretty face acquired a scar? Visits to the gallery prompted this post... If I see anymore guys in feminine poses showing off their baby oiled asses, I am gonna have an aneurism!!! But lets hear what the girls have to say...
There is one sort of man that fits right in between, lets just call him the metro male. The one that is stylish, well spoken and pays just enough attention to himself to be manly. So before I go into a 7 page essay, go and have a look at William Levy......sometimes us woman are also visual beings. Shit its rather damp in here!
I prefer men with broad shoulders, taller than me ofcos but not big boeps. I am a big chick but look after myself so the guy should to. Hairy isn't too bad but if the guys like really furry trim or groom or something, how must I kiss everywhere if I'm gonna start coughing up hair balls?? I loike a sturdy man that can "handle" me. Being a full figured chick I don't wanna break a guy you know. I'm not really one for pretty boys, although Mr K is not hairy, chiseled, caramel and delicious. He still has what I like, sturdy body and legs, broad shoulders,big hands etc. But I am very attracted to bald men and beards(box goatie). Rugby guys are a turn on , and nice buns and thighs... Love thighs. Oh and kissable mouth. A guy can't be prettier than me!
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There is one sort of man that fits right in between, lets just call him the metro male. The one that is stylish, well spoken and pays just enough attention to himself to be manly. So before I go into a 7 page essay, go and have a look at William Levy......sometimes us woman are also visual beings.
Shit its rather damp in here!

I like to consider myself somewhere in between. I have hair. My legs have hair but not Sasquatch style. I will not shave them. My arms have hair - light, thin, blonde. I will not shave my arms. I have a hairy chest and stomach - but not a forest. Does not stick out the collar of my shirt like a Columbian drug lord. I would Sean Connery in the seventies type chest.
I do trim ear hair (the little that tends to grow), I trim nose hair, I shave (sometimes). I tend to change my look occationally - sometimes clean shaven face, other times a thin chin curtain, other times a Tony Stark style, etc. Sometimes go a few days without shaving and have the stubble look. Goaties are not for me... I always have sideburns right down to my jaw line, have not shaved my sideburns since I started shaving. Just keep them thin.
I trim the southern region constantly, scrotum shaved and rest trimmed with a clipper - keep the hedges trimmed cos you never know when someone will inspect the front yard - lol...
So in short, I keep myself presentable and clean at all times. But I will not wax my chest or my legs for anyone. I will not "demasculate" myself. I keep in-shape and my efforts are visible through my chest hair. I do agree though that total neglect of basic grooming is unattractive and no one wants to look at the mustache you grew with your nose hair...
Send that Wolverine my way thanks smile
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Send that Wolverine my way thanks smile

Hey Stamina, hold that thought on the "sack; back & crack" waxing . . . .
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Send that Wolverine my way thanks smile

lol... I look like wolverine in the morning when I wake up.. My hair always takes the same pattern and exactly the same every morning and my sideburns spike out away from my face. Quite a laugh actually.. lol I wonder if other guys also brush there sideburns.. He he he..
No. Did you know that they invented this cool tool called "clippers"... you can just trim it all short. ... smile
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No. Did you know that they invented this cool tool called "clippers"... you can just trim it all short. ... smile

I do use such tools occasionally. But sometimes the beast needs be let out.. wink All I need to do now is use my engineering brain to come up with a device that shoots steel claws out from between my knuckles ( and buy a lifetime supply of anesthetic)..
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No. Did you know that they invented this cool tool called "clippers"... you can just trim it all short. ... smile

I do use such tools occasionally. But sometimes the beast needs be let out.. wink All I need to do now is use my engineering brain to come up with a device that shoots steel claws out from between my knuckles ( and buy a lifetime supply of anesthetic)..
you know what is most entertaining to me? the fact that you can talk such crap without any assistance from a fellow male . . . you come up with all this Sh!t by yourself . . . . :thumbup:
Ek wil die twee mans persone gelukwens, was dit nie vir hulle twee nie was daar nie meer 'n forum nie. Al is dit nikssegens wat julle gesels nie maar dit laat tenminste die counter klim. As daar 'n beker was vir die persone wat die meeste kommentaar in die forum lewer, gaan julle twee die beker deel, hou so aan. Aan die einde van die reenboog staan die pot goud, en iemand gaan dit kry Jammer dat ek nie in Engels antwoord nie, want dan gaan julle my nog minder verstaan
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No. Did you know that they invented this cool tool called "clippers"... you can just trim it all short. ... smile

I do use such tools occasionally. But sometimes the beast needs be let out.. wink All I need to do now is use my engineering brain to come up with a device that shoots steel claws out from between my knuckles ( and buy a lifetime supply of anesthetic)..
you know what is most entertaining to me? the fact that you can talk such crap without any assistance from a fellow male . . . you come up with all this Sh!t by yourself . . . . :thumbup:
Its a talent... What can I say? I am gifted.. He he he
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Ek wil die twee mans persone gelukwens, was dit nie vir hulle twee nie was daar nie meer 'n forum nie. Al is dit nikssegens wat julle gesels nie maar dit laat tenminste die counter klim.
As daar 'n beker was vir die persone wat die meeste kommentaar in die forum lewer, gaan julle twee die beker deel, hou so aan. Aan die einde van die reenboog staan die pot goud, en iemand gaan dit kry
Jammer dat ek nie in Engels antwoord nie, want dan gaan julle my nog minder verstaan

Ek verstaan baie goed and se vir jou baie dankie. Ek waardeur die kompliment. Kan goed Afrikaans praat maar spel voute Sal altyd daar wees...
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Ek wil die twee mans persone gelukwens, was dit nie vir hulle twee nie was daar nie meer 'n forum nie. Al is dit nikssegens wat julle gesels nie maar dit laat tenminste die counter klim.
As daar 'n beker was vir die persone wat die meeste kommentaar in die forum lewer, gaan julle twee die beker deel, hou so aan. Aan die einde van die reenboog staan die pot goud, en iemand gaan dit kry
Jammer dat ek nie in Engels antwoord nie, want dan gaan julle my nog minder verstaan

Baaie Dankie Adonis
And the Oscar goes to. ....
*Pistorius*..........
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*Pistorius*..........

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*Pistorius*..........

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lol :lol: Perfect day for that one Puss. He he he...