but seriously, NO, I have fortunately never had that issue.
My guess with people wanting to be at a hotel is that they feel more of a sense of security, as in if they had to call for help someone would hear them. Also, if the encounter was not pleasant they don't want the visitor to know where they live. i am sure there are a number of different reasons.
Going to someones own house always makes me wonder where the cameras are hidden . . . . 
:banghead::banghead: Now I will not be able to invite you sheesh.....
Topic of discussion....
I tend to only invite people over that I trust
No one has ever taken something when they were at my home!
I do have a video camera but have only use IT WHEN ASKED TO.
I am also very fortunate that some of the sites profile people sometimes help me out with things...like when I had problems with my internet connection, someone I ONLY chat to organized that his friends who works for Telcom came to my house and sorted things out for in case someone thinks I repay them with my bod...go jump in the lake...I am always very clear on that No help if they want *favors*They are just great people!!!And that means I never met that gent ever...but we do is a young guy and very very nice.
Once someone WHO I never met or even chatted with, organized that some TOYS(private sale) that was to big for postal services be couriered to me via his own courier a great person this is.
I can go on telling people that some of our sites profiles are just great people!!! some are total jerks but mostly MOST is great people.
but I also heard horror stories......
1) A GENT invited a young lady over to his home....they played and he was robbed and battered by her friends.
2) A gent was blackmailed (married guy) by a young couple!!!!!
3)A lady was whilst out on a *date*
But I have to stress I only heard these things NOTHING of above happened to me ,ever.
And I hope nothing ever happens to one of you guys!!
That is why safety measures should always be in place
1) public meeting
2) tell someone who knows about your lifestyle.
3) phone someone when you arrive and phone when there and phone when leaving.
4) ask who you can phone in case a medical problem arises (mostly this is standard in BDSM plays, or for me it is).
5) Let someone go with you when meeting new people even if they do not meet the couple ,man or woman.
I also do not think people who wants to interact and CONTINUE to play would, ever take something from some one...
Except if it is your panty!!!! Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR...and I so LIKE to invite people to my home.......
But on serious note, I think PiB's advice is good to use, and also if one can to have at least one public coffee meet and greet before even considering *play date*.
As for us our home we use since it is bit more convenient than a hotel room, especially in this small town with lots of lose tongues! But then it is limited to certain area's of the house. 
