When going to meet someone for the very very first time....We all know that we tend sit our best foot forward.
As we get to know the other person we sort of relax...and let things slip..
What do you notice when meeting for the first time??
And the then following meetings???
I look at someone`s hands and fingernails....then I move down to the feet if they wear sandals I have a nice view..
As everyone by now know, I have a BIG foot and hand issue...renders on a fetish has to be well cared for. NO chipped nail polish no dirty nails...no chapped heels.
I tend to over look a persons car, clothes (except to see if they are clean) I look at their eyes and teeth, I dislike to strong perfume or aftershave, but they have to have a whiff of it present.
I really do not mind if someone is overweight and not a pretty boy/girl....have NO hair ...as Long as he/she has a nice open smile.
On a follow up meeting, I will remain to check out their hands and feet....but they can now relax a bit, The moment I agree to a second meeting, that person should know I like him or her.
What is a deal maker or breaker for you guys??
Heck how do you also feel about people who has a prosthesis...could be leg and foot or arm or even just false teeth....wears glasses and has an hearing aid??
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Sex God
I agree 100% on hands and fingernails.
Teeth must be clean and hair must be clean.
I am also not fond of strong perfumes.
i (we) tend to just look at the person , they have to be clean , we do insist on everybody having a shower before anything happens , its just how we are , fingernails are important , need to be clean and nicely filed , girls have quite thin skin down there and a hook nail can hurt when playing .
and (she) does prefer uncut guys , just her thing i guess
Master of Sex
I get put off by short or shorter than me guys also skinny framed men. I tend to be more attracted to bald or really short hair dark skinned men and i always look for tattoos love them.
I look at fingernails and teeth. Nice thighs n bum and i prefer fresh smelling (soap, cologne) its a hell of a turn on. Oh and fuller or kissable suckable lips I noticed that i am more drawn to sturdy built men or men that look like they can handle me dunno how else to explain it.
Also a talkative person or atleast attentive as i am very bubbly and friendly. But sometimes its a "vibe" between me and the person that attracts me.
I have a hand fetish .. unfortunately it's nothing anyone can help. Besides the obvious cleanliness, neat fingernails etc If I don't think you have nice hands the meeting is pretty much over.. you will never touch me with them.
I tend to lean towards men who are in charge, my height or taller when I'm in heels and I shy away from petite men.
Well when we go to meet people we are always on time clean and neat.
But during the meet with the people the question always cames up what work do you do. And every time I laugh and lie about my work. I tell the people I work as a communication specialist. Then they think I work for Vodacom or some think like that.
But if I want the meet to end every quick then I tell them I am a Debt Collector/brake peoples legs for a living. O boy then you dont hear from those people again. And I can find that so funny sometimes.
Joyrider
A little white lie now and then helps. 
:lol:
:lol: Sex God
Quote by Sofistikitty
I get put off by short or shorter than me guys also skinny framed men. I tend to be more attracted to bald or really short hair dark skinned men and i always look for tattoos love them.
I look at fingernails and teeth. Nice thighs n bum and i prefer fresh smelling (soap, cologne) its a hell of a turn on. Oh and fuller or kissable suckable lips I noticed that i am more drawn to sturdy built men or men that look like they can handle me dunno how else to explain it.
Also a talkative person or atleast attentive as i am very bubbly and friendly. But sometimes its a "vibe" between me and the person that attracts me.
Oh well, four out of seven aint bad . . .
Sex God
Quote by Prezzie2120
I have a hand fetish .. unfortunately it's nothing anyone can help. Besides the obvious cleanliness, neat fingernails etc If I don't think you have nice hands the meeting is pretty much over.. you will never touch me with them.
I tend to lean towards men who are in charge, my height or taller when I'm in heels and I shy away from petite men.
Oh well, 4 out of 5 aint bad
Sex God
Quote by joyrider
Well when we go to meet people we are always on time clean and neat.
But during the meet with the people the question always cames up what work do you do. And every time I laugh and lie about my work. I tell the people I work as a communication specialist. Then they think I work for Vodacom or some think like that.
But if I want the meet to end every quick then I tell them I am a Debt Collector/brake peoples legs for a living. O boy then you dont hear from those people again. And I can find that so funny sometimes.
Joyrider
A little white lie now and then helps.
Can i have permission to use that line please? :lol:
I can fully understand where sofistikitty and Prezzie comes from..
We, and here I most certainly INCLUDE myself, if we are taller and larger of body... tend to feel like whales/elephants next to skinny and small men or pretty boys.
But as time went on and I grew older I now know that the not so tall, skinnier,men has a lot of hang-ups just like I have...and we both must look past all that to really LOOK at a person and see HIM or HER and what surprises awaited!!!!I was rewarded over and over many a time.
HA....and you guys know what.......
NONE of you took to comment on the questions of someone who has some sort of artificial limb ears or teeth....
Or does that not matter?? REALLY???
You not going to get freaked out...When
Getting onto a bed and that person starts unscrewing a artificial foot or arm cause just maybe you might get hurt!
Or removing a shirt and a pair of false boobies goes off at the same time as the bra?
Or the persons false teeth clicks when you kiss?
Or the persons hearing aid goes haywire and buzzed and needs resetting?
Sooooo what about this topic?? to sensitive for you guys???
Forgot.......about JOBS....
You think jobs would not matter BIG mistake.....
If you are in the police force...YOUR chances of getting laid is never good. UNTILL the people get to know the real you.
And then all the rest of jobs....man I can go on and on about jobs that will make people really paranoid towards you..
I was recently chatting to someone and as always he ended up asking what work I do,I told him,and HE then told me I am NOT meeting anyone BECAUSE I was busy spying on people here,busy sorta dissecting them to write my *Masters* on the behaviors of people here.
I NEARLY fell of my chair when reading that!!!
so yeah JOBS is also a ball and deal breaker.
Orgasminator
Het regtig nog nooit daaraan gedink nie, sal seker daardie hekkie oorgaan as dit hom voordoen. Maar het geen voor opgestede idees daaromtrent nie.
My vrou se dit sal seker snaaks wees as die man se wag so bietjie wil net eers my penis aanskroef LOL
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I can fully understand where sofistikitty and Prezzie comes from..
We, and here I most certainly INCLUDE myself, if we are taller and larger of body... tend to feel like whales/elephants next to skinny and small men or pretty boys.
But as time went on and I grew older I now know that the not so tall, skinnier,men has a lot of hang-ups just like I have...and we both must look past all that to really LOOK at a person and see HIM or HER and what surprises awaited!!!!I was rewarded over and over many a time.
HA....and you guys know what.......
NONE of you took to comment on the questions of someone who has some sort of artificial limb ears or teeth....
Or does that not matter?? REALLY???
You not going to get freaked out...When
Getting onto a bed and that person starts unscrewing a artificial foot or arm cause just maybe you might get hurt!
Or removing a shirt and a pair of false boobies goes off at the same time as the bra?
Or the persons false teeth clicks when you kiss?
Or the persons hearing aid goes haywire and buzzed and needs resetting?
Sooooo what about this topic?? to sensitive for you guys???
@PIB, challenge accepted . . .
Firstly, glasses, hearing aids & false teeth are day to day items as I see it.
Secondly, if I had a chance with a prospective encounter with somebody who had an artificial limb, I would probably put my best foot forward to try and ensure I actually got the opportunity to share an experience with that person. To me, any person who has a prostheses and is still "playing" in this arena, is going to easily be an absolutely wow experience.
What you said about taller / shorter and skinnier / fatter people having hang ups is very true. So if a person with an artificial limb is playing . . . . .
Casanova
Quote by Pussinboots1
I can fully understand where sofistikitty and Prezzie comes from..
We, and here I most certainly INCLUDE myself, if we are taller and larger of body... tend to feel like whales/elephants next to skinny and small men or pretty boys.
But as time went on and I grew older I now know that the not so tall, skinnier,men has a lot of hang-ups just like I have...and we both must look past all that to really LOOK at a person and see HIM or HER and what surprises awaited!!!!I was rewarded over and over many a time.
HA....and you guys know what.......
NONE of you took to comment on the questions of someone who has some sort of artificial limb ears or teeth....
Or does that not matter?? REALLY???
You not going to get freaked out...When
Getting onto a bed and that person starts unscrewing a artificial foot or arm cause just maybe you might get hurt!
Or removing a shirt and a pair of false boobies goes off at the same time as the bra?
Or the persons false teeth clicks when you kiss?
Or the persons hearing aid goes haywire and buzzed and needs resetting?
Sooooo what about this topic?? to sensitive for you guys???
Not sensitive at all.
I don't have any hangups. As SDMR has said if they are willing to be on a site like this then all the better for them. Would love to have an encounter with someone that is short a limb, and a midget. Don't know why.
Master of Sex
I was seeing a guy in wheelchair, he had no mobility from below waist. And i also saw a guy that had false teeth in the front lol
My dad makes artificial limbs, mainly legs. So most of my childhood was spent hanging around people with prostheses.
No biggie for me.
If given the chance, I would probably want to play with them just out of curiosity, to see how/if there is any difference in play because of it...
;)
C
Aside from the obvious cleanliness issues, what I look for most is simple.
A personality I click with, character and most importantly confidence.
Aside from meeting potential play mates, just in general when meeting people, for me, there is nothing more uncomfortable than when the conversation fizzles out and when someone is closed off, and just not engaging.
I have enough confidence in my self, and I believe 100% that is the reason I generate attention.
I heard that a person with out teeth gives the best BJ ever...do not know if that is true or I must take out my own falsies and give BJ`s/Cunninlingus and see what the comments are.
@ Prezzie I promise not to bite......and smile at you with a gummy mouth,in stead of my pearly whites.
@ E_N do you still kiss you play friend???
@ gorgeous....a midget?? . Must admit I saw a very short person(midget) once he WAS HUGE,But then on the other hand he was so sort that his normal genitals was seemingly huge !!!!
Now is there any short midgets on site??? Gorgeous would like to meet you!!
@ KC_ would love to meet your Dad, I think I might ask him to make me a few TOYS!!!!
@ SDMR Me, I think it also is great if anyone is confident in themselves to play here with all the hangups people seem to have.
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I heard that a person with out teeth gives the best BJ ever...do not know if that is true or I must take out my own falsies and give BJ`s/Cunninlingus and see what the comments are.
@ Prezzie I promise not to bite......and smile at you with a gummy mouth,in stead of my pearly whites.
@ E_N do you still kiss you play friend???
@ gorgeous....a midget?? . Must admit I saw a very short person(midget) once he WAS HUGE,But then on the other hand he was so sort that his normal genitals was seemingly huge !!!!
Now is there any short midgets on site??? Gorgeous would like to meet you!!
@ KC_ would love to meet your Dad, I think I might ask him to make me a few TOYS!!!!
@ SDMR Me, I think it also is great if anyone is confident in themselves to play here with all the hangups people seem to have.
That's all very nice and all . . . . @Stamina, @Georgeous & @Gerrie did you read what @PIB said???? She is taking her falsies out and giving blowjobs . . . . . . . @Stamina I know you are closest to the Airport, but be a team player and wait for the rest of us to arrive . . .
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR Sadly it seems it is only you and me for that TOOTHLESS experiment!!!!
but come line up, I am waiting to start....LMAO...that is if Daddy is also coming(with his lovey) hope he does not fart.....
Works for me . .. :mrgreen:
Have only rejected someone once, my wife knows how to judge men's genitalia
He advertised his willy as huge, with a pic, and when we got naked it was the size of my pinkie and he could not get erect so my wife gor out of bed and left
He had the guts to call again wanting to meet evan though nothing had happened at the previous meeting
So I can say that most our meetings have been good and we prefer to meet in the comfort of our home
These days we do not meet so quick anymore but first get to know him
Warming the Bed
I love kissing, possibly more than the act of sex itself, I find it so intimate. When I kiss you I am not doing anything else. You're my whole universe..and the moment is eternal because I don't have any plans and am not going anywhere. Just kissing you...it's overwhelming.
A couple of years ago I joined the ranks of the toothless ones....
I would love to be able to kiss again.....
