Can it realy be this hard to meet up with a Older women, over 50?
Hi Trx, Well no one answered you so here goes my thoughts on the subject.....
I am just talking about myself here, that was from when I was still playing.... I was careful meeting younger men that was 10 years younger than myself, some was looking for a sugar mommy...some was insecure with their performance, some really got *OVER involved* after meeting up, some thought I was desperate for sex...and let me tell you that was certainly NOT an issue. Mostly older ladies have already formed their circle of friends with benefits already. Some older ladies like to go out for a drink/meal/ before jumping in a bed...MOST younger guys shy away from that for how do you explain if you accidentally meet up with someone you know??? I met numerous younger gents than myself....but it was mostly for KINKY meet ups. Once again I have to mention that KINK and regular sexual meet ups differ vastly, for me that is!!! And I for one dislike being seen as a cougar...I know a few ladies who loves being thought of as an cougar, well I am Not one. I also like not to young to older men who Knows what he does and what I would like. I dislike instructing someone in sex when I am there just to enjoy sex just as he is.
BUT remember this is only ME...other ladies might now take up the Fora and disagree with me and they are way way welcome to do so.
I do hope you find a lady who invites you to meet up.
Trx, you must be looking in the wrong places, or maybe you are not patient enough. I am currently seeing 3 women who are between 11 and 18 years older than me. I can tell you honestly it is the best sex that I have ever had.
Maybe you will have to take off your swinging hat, and just find older women to have relationships with.