married or single guys better

Quote by BethandWill
My wife sleeps with other men and I love it. she fucks my brains out later.

 Wow..... He is a lucky guy... Would love to be him... With a hot wife that is so unselfish!!!!! 

Quote by Dazza_81
I am a married man in a conservative and sexually uninspired relationship. I love my wife dearly but hey the sex is boring. We are so often villainised on this site, if my wife was open to swinging, I guarantee you I’d be happy to swap. She isn’t, so here I am. All we want is a bit of excitement in our sex lives again. Sadly very misunderstood. 

Dazza, Snap(If I can use the term)  How ever it is funny that we as married men more than often get told "Sorry, we dont do cheaters" even if you up front and open about the fact. The other problem is that the Single guys or Married ones pretending to be single, often are pic collectors and time wasters and that makes live difficult for us genuine guys.  

Soo True Bro!!! I am one of those like you.... I actually think that we are miss understood.... But Jaaaa.... It's Okooo

I think with a married guy there might be a touch of bad karma.  Just choose a single guy that can't get attached and likes his own space. 

Oh,  thought I could mention I'm a single guy,  loves my own space.  Also new on these sites.  And where this morning I was intrigued... Now I am horny and intrigued.  As for the vote? 

JAY For single guys!!  (divorced) 

Yea all couples say if you married and want to join them you must have your wifes consent well this won' t happen, we looking for discreet NSA fun not a divorce, a lot of wifes lost interests in bed and have all kinds of excuses why not to have sex, but they not prepared to let you stray somewhere else its a catch 22 situation. What the eye don't see the heart don't feel.

That is just judging a Single guy?

Not all the same,as for me,i to have to be discreet although i am single 

That guy who go around opening his mouth about his experience with a couple or what what is an idiot

To gain respect and been trustworthy is what this lifestyle is all about 

Quote by Dazza_81
I am a married man in a conservative and sexually uninspired relationship. I love my wife dearly but hey the sex is boring. We are so often villainised on this site, if my wife was open to swinging, I guarantee you I’d be happy to swap. She isn’t, so here I am. All we want is a bit of excitement in our sex lives again. Sadly very misunderstood. 

 Hi Daza. Have you had an open discussion with your wife about things that excite you. Perhaps she would share with you her fantasies or maybe she needs a bit of encouragement. Maybe you could say to her one day. "Honey, the next time we are intimate can we have a discussion about the things we fantasies about?" 

This way, you each have time to think about what you will say with out being put on the spot. Also she can really put some thought into it and prepare herself in advance for such sexual openness which she may not be used to. and may need to pluck up the courage to do with you.

Glad to read this thread. Key is respect all around. 

i am a married man playing alone. my wife is just not interested in the lifestyle. as you all know life needs some excitement and after many years of marriage, its sad to say that the excitement leaves the bedroom.i am here to make myself a better man by enjoying,experiencing and appreciating the good things life has to offer. i have fun in private and never discuss anything i do with anyone.

I'm married madly in love with my wife but medical reasons she is not into sex anymore and als would love to include her in play as I see how much fun couples I have played with have

Married guys single guys no thanks. 

Quote by Dazza_81

I am a married man in a conservative and sexually uninspired relationship. I love my wife dearly but hey the sex is boring. We are so often villainised on this site, if my wife was open to swinging, I guarantee you I’d be happy to swap. She isn’t, so here I am. All we want is a bit of excitement in our sex lives again. Sadly very misunderstood. 

Quote by BethandWill

My wife sleeps with other men and I love it. she fucks my brains out later.

Wow what a topic!! 

My opinion we prefer married men dey more discreet more respectful and alot of the times perform to satisfy the women 

Look not talking bad about single guys Der is a few good ones we have met but then you have those few bad apples 

Yes there will always be those not so awesome folks, be hey singles or couples. They are part and parcel of this culture.

Its an old post but we can also weigh in here .

Nine out of ten "single"  guys is married . For us a truly single guy is best . Someone that can be available and rise to the occasion when duty calls . 

Married guys is never available and you always have the risk of an angry tannie showing up on your doorstep . 

Single guys ! You always complain this game is hard , it's not really.  Get in touch and we'll show you lol

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Its an old post but we can also weigh in here .

Nine out of ten "single"  guys is married . For us a truly single guy is best . Someone that can be available and rise to the occasion when duty calls . 

Married guys is never available and you always have the risk of an angry tannie showing up on your doorstep . 

Single guys ! You always complain this game is hard , it's not really.  Get in touch and we'll show you lol

boohoo my wife not into sex frigid etc ...so why did u marry in first place? did u maybe portray urself as an altar boy instead of the horn dog u r?

Apart from the fact that a couple can legally be sued by the offended party, cheating speaks volumes about ur character did or did u not take an oath ?

So for us its single all the way if u have girlfriend thats ok u not married but some of us take our vows seriously no quick daytime hookups while u away on business ...how would u feel if the wife doing the same to u ?

There is an option for members to choose what status they are on their profiles. One of the options that appear is "having an affair".

I am a married man that plays alone, but quite tough 2 find couples that are keen on playing with me alone as my wife is so sexy

For nsa married men better. For flexibility in time to meet single men better.

Married are better. Safer and more relaxed.

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The thread seems to sway towards married men, far from true, as soon as you say you are married, even when playing with consent you get branded a cheater. I never lie about my status as you can never be caught out when telling the truth. 

Married men playing with consent are always welcome, don't need a crazy wife at our gate. Lol

well i have an altercation with a married guy and he is getting a bit dangerouse for me as he now get clingy nd im a free solo spirite with nothing holding me down. but then again single guys is like the wind nd try out too much to fit so where do u draw the line

I prefer married guys. They are more confident and take their time. Also my husband gets very turned on when he watches me get laid.

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Baie goeie bespreking ons sukkel om ouens te kry vir aande en naweke, en dus sad daar is so baie nice getroude ouens en glo my ons het al daai roete ook gevat, maar ongetroude ouens net meer tyd en glo my ons het baie tyd so ja dag speel not so much, anyway sal maar soek hopenlik kry ons waarna ons soek.

Smag so na so openlike verhouding met my vrou. Ek is hier sonder haar wete. Sal julle graag wil ontmoet vir 'n drankie. enige plek in Centurion.

Quote by daphil

Its an old post but we can also weigh in here .

Nine out of ten "single"  guys is married . For us a truly single guy is best . Someone that can be available and rise to the occasion when duty calls . 

Married guys is never available and you always have the risk of an angry tannie showing up on your doorstep . 

Single guys ! You always complain this game is hard , it's not really.  Get in touch and we'll show you lol

I will be in touch.

This thread makes me laugh. There's so much cope. Cheating is not cool whichever way you look at it. If you're willing to cheat, lie and sneak around behind your wife's back you're not a trustworthy individual.

Lovely topic. We prefer single men, because they are more available when you want them, married men are full of excuses because more than likely it is because they have to lie and cheat around the wife, I often wonder if they make love to their wives the way they do to other woman, the wife may want to enjoy another man, then there is the jealous type that just want to misbehave and don't want the wife to have any pleasure of another man. Met a few of them. Stick to couples it is much better that way.

Don't' know what all the fuss is about most single guys on here are actually married 🤐

I have to say it is not just single men that can have loose tongues. I have met couples where they were also not discrete and openly discussed other playmates with me on first meeting. Needles to say I walked away. Play between people be it couples or singles should remain private.