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I am also in a relationship for the last 30 years, although gay,I also played ,now in hibernation but still active in the kinky department, with my partner knowing.
She also knows whom I play with and when and where I play.
She also met and knows a lot of my swinger *friends* and goes to Meetings with me.
Warming the Bed
Having been married for more than 20 years, it came as a shock to my wife to learn that I was bisexual.
She has accepted it however, as she suspected me of being either gay or bisexual since before we were married.
Finding me watching gay porn was the clincher though.
She confronted me, and I confessed that I had been interested in sex with other people, whether men or women, since as far back as I can remember.
I have never been unfaithful to her in all the time we have been together, unless you classify watching porn as cheating.
She gave me her express consent to investigate an alternative lifestyle, where I am able to live out my sexuality.
For 22 years she has been my best friend, lover, confidante, supporter and BFF. The alternative would be to throw away a lifetime spent together.
She is not interested in joining the swinging scene, but is quite happy to see me happy living a life I have always dreamt of.
We have talked many nights (and days) away, and have come to a happy compromise.
She has laid down a few basic rules, that I am happy to live by.
1. I never bring anyone home. Ever.
2. There is no financial impact on our budget.
3. I don't try and convince her to join me in any of my adventures.
4. I keep us safe.
5. It doesn't disrupt our lives together.
She has gone so far as to say that anyone doubting the fact that she has given me her permission to play, can contact her, and she will confirm that I do have her permission.
I suppose there are guys that abuse the system, or play on the side without their partners' consent.
They will in all probability be caught out sooner rather than later.
I am probably lucky, as I can't be caught out, as my wife already knows.
Warming the Bed
Quote by FCups
'I have her permission...'
'My assets get no complaints...' Well if there were really no complaints you wouldn't be here trying to cheat.
(waits for possible backlash)
Sounds like you are quoting from my profile
Quote by mymail069
'I have her permission...'
'My assets get no complaints...' Well if there were really no complaints you wouldn't be here trying to cheat.
(waits for possible backlash)
Sounds like you are quoting from my profile
I never saw your profile.
To everyone else....that's fan-friggin-tastic and my ultimate 'perfect relationship'. How did you find broaching the subject with your other half, unless you met in the lifestyle.
I'm specifically referring to the creeps though. Those who use sites such as this to cheat on their partners- particularly those that lie- it comes out eventually. I'm the chatty kind. Asks lots of questions, probes, seeks clarification. The charade hardly ever holds up. Then there's the trusty internet :-)
Jeez, a gal has to be careful these days.
Orgasminator
Quote by FCups
I never saw your profile.
To everyone else....that's fan-friggin-tastic and my ultimate 'perfect relationship'. How did you find broaching the subject with your other half, unless you met in the lifestyle.
I'm specifically referring to the creeps though. Those who use sites such as this to cheat on their partners- particularly those that lie- it comes out eventually. I'm the chatty kind. Asks lots of questions, probes, seeks clarification. The charade hardly ever holds up. Then there's the trusty internet :-)
Jeez, a gal has to be careful these days.
Girls, guys, couples, parents, cats, pretty much everyone has to be careful out their, girls just attract more attention. Biggest issue I find is that people that believe their anonymous they can be asses online.
Still I love to laugh at those guys who say their married and then ask for discretion, if you don't want the world to know your a cheating bastard then don't project it across the web.
Warming the Bed
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ mymail069...
You are so damn cute, you made sure we go and read your profile yeah??
LMAO sitting here and laughing at myself for being so gullible.....and yeah, a Perv and nosy and all the rest.
Don't make me blush like a school boy kissed for the first time
