I am a qualified and experienced Massage Therapist, based in Fish Hoek, Cape Town. If you're ever around here, contact me and see what it feels like...
Quote by Indiasa68
Hi.
Any couples here had a good experience with male maussues?
Keen to explore this but have not decided to fo ahead.
1. How do you find a legit one?
2. Security, example hidden camera's, being robbed etc.
3. Respecting boundaries.
Advise will appreciated.
Some points (from a Male Massage Therapist)
1. Check if they have a website with pics and what it says and doesn't say. Google them. Google reviews do help too. Check if they have qualifications. Courses certificates should be displayed in plain view. Ask them questions (maybe not a full-on police interrogation), but you are entitled to find out who you're dealing with. If they're not happy answering questions, walk away.
If they are in the lifestyle, ask around how long have they been here and for recommendations.
2. Do they work from home or from a centre/commercial place? Look around their massage therapy room carefully but discretely for cameras before undressing. As for being robbed, never heard of that happening, but keeping your valuables where you can see them should take care of that.
3. You're the paying client. State your boundaries and stick to them. The moment any of your boundary get crossed, get up, get dressed and leave. You are allowed to change your boundaries if you want to during the session.
It's also advisable to let someone know where you're going and for how long you're going to be there. Give 15 mins leeway, just in case.
Feel free to contact me directly if you have more questions.
