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22 single guys.

2 couples

1 single  female

Is this really a swinging site?

at the risk of diverting your post;

Me thinks that if it was 22 single females and 2 single males . . . somebody would still complain about the 2 single males 

Yeah...not trying to deviate off from the original post...but, here goes...

We get that there is room and space for single guys in the swinging world, same as single ladies. We even point out on our profile that we don't mind single guys approaching us...as long as that they do so in a respectful manner and a proper mail, not the lame/no effort wink...and we always reply back. 

That being said...it's not the quantity on new single guy profiles that's bothering (for lack of a better word, let's call it a observation) us, but the quality. Half completed, riddled with spelling mistakes (not that that's an issue...but first impressions and all that), no location, "about" section reading like something out of a D grade Bulgarian porn..."eks leke jags, ek geniet jou muff mcnckdkdshfjxyudhdfj"...and almost no pics at all, not just a simple avatar pic. 

Are these guys really, REALLY deluded enough into thinking a profile like that will get ANY attention? Profiles like that is just further f@cking it up for the single guys out there who puts in effort with profiles and mails. And yes...I personally think at least 50% of new profiles end up taking up dead space after a month...because the guys have no clue as to the idea of swinging, and quickly hammer together a profile to get laid...and (thank Thor) give up when they don't get the desired results.

But yes...this is still most definitely a swinging site. If we can manage to hold parties in Bloemfontein, and have a closely knit band of swingers whom actually participates in groups and discussions...yeah, proof the site still works.

I would agree with the above statement. If you really serious about meeting us or even entertaining someone to look at your profile put a bit of effort into it. As for spelling... I am dyslexic and rely on a spell checker just to get the right words out there. I am a professional and have suffered from this all my professional life. SO poor spelling is not on. 

Also dont just send us your Cell number and say . If we want to chat we will do it by mail first then if we feel comfortable you will get our number. we dont just hand out our number to anyone. 

Mavricsa501...same here with the spellchecker...but yeah, it's an easy fix to get the right message across. But unfortunately first appearances DOES count...and there is a few couples who are also guilty of this. Putting up a proper, thought out profile I think just has a better chance of actually attracting people. 

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Yeah...not trying to deviate off from the original post...but, here goes...
We get that there is room and space for single guys in the swinging world, same as single ladies. We even point out on our profile that we don't mind single guys approaching us...as long as that they do so in a respectful manner and a proper mail, not the lame/no effort wink...and we always reply back. 
That being said...it's not the quantity on new single guy profiles that's bothering (for lack of a better word, let's call it a observation) us, but the quality. Half completed, riddled with spelling mistakes (not that that's an issue...but first impressions and all that), no location, "about" section reading like something out of a D grade Bulgarian porn..."eks leke jags, ek geniet jou muff mcnckdkdshfjxyudhdfj"...and almost no pics at all, not just a simple avatar pic. 
Are these guys really, REALLY deluded enough into thinking a profile like that will get ANY attention? Profiles like that is just further f@cking it up for the single guys out there who puts in effort with profiles and mails. And yes...I personally think at least 50% of new profiles end up taking up dead space after a month...because the guys have no clue as to the idea of swinging, and quickly hammer together a profile to get laid...and (thank Thor) give up when they don't get the desired results.
But yes...this is still most definitely a swinging site. If we can manage to hold parties in Bloemfontein, and have a closely knit band of swingers whom actually participates in groups and discussions...yeah, proof the site still works.

 Well said!!!