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wel ek het my vrou gevra of sy al ooit daaraan gedink het om deur 2 mans bevredig te word. haar antwoord was n skaam ja. ek het haar gevra of sy dit sal like om dit verder te vat en kyk wat gebeur. sy was oop vir dit. en nou is ons swingers.
julle moet ook maar net besef dat om oopkop te wees, want as jy oor so iets kan praat, kan jy oor enige iets praat.
as dit haar horny maak, kan jy verder gaan en haar dalk tydens seks vra of sy sal like om nou n ander ou te suig en so aan. as dit haar vreeslik warm maak. is die helfte van die problem opgelos.
net my 2 sent- dis hoe ons begin het.
Hi there... apologies... but the amount of Afrikaans is too much for me.. 
:lol: From what I can work out, you want to convince your wife to be a swinger.. No convincing is necessary.. speak to her about your interest and ask her to think about it before answering. It's tough, but someone needs to open the conversation. Swinging also does not equal full swop at the first meet or "hard swinging" . There is choice in the lifestyle and your lady would need to feel comfortable with the fact that your early forays into the lifestyle are totally dependent on her being happy. If she is not.. STOP!
:lol: From what I can work out, you want to convince your wife to be a swinger.. No convincing is necessary.. speak to her about your interest and ask her to think about it before answering. It's tough, but someone needs to open the conversation. Swinging also does not equal full swop at the first meet or "hard swinging" . There is choice in the lifestyle and your lady would need to feel comfortable with the fact that your early forays into the lifestyle are totally dependent on her being happy. If she is not.. STOP! ok, so my Afrikaans is not welcomed? lol. whatever. hehe
I think that camoo's biggest concern might be that his wife might think that he only wants her to swing for him to be able to sleep with other women. I know,, most women will think this. I don't know the real reason for him wanting his wife to swing, but for me its the biggest turn on to see my wife with another guy/girl/couple. so for me its not about me wanting to sleep around with consent. agg I don't know, the other swingers on the site will know what im talking about. its a mutual feeling between husband and wife that enjoys sex with other people. and at the end of the night/morning they go home together, more in love than the first time. and feeling stronger in their relationship (don't do this if you want to save your relationship - it has to be rock solid to try this)
Religion and upbringing often plays a major inhibiting factor in the whole equation. A couple who can rise above the (false) doctrine that man and women were meant to be monogamous and can delete old programs still running in their heads, placed there by well meaning parents and society in general, will be able to make a clear joint decision unfettered by populace rules and restrictive regulations.
A couple who clings unwaveringly to the concept that the promises made to god on their wedding day (as kids of 23) are all-sacred and to break them would be tantamount to committing spiritual suicide, had better just forget about swinging and continue going to church every Sunday and try to enjoy it. To mix the 2 concepts would just destroy one or the other or both partners, in time.
When societal Victorian and man-made religious type norms and standards clash with and restrict our innermost desires to live out the life experiences that we mapped out for ourselves in deciding to inhibit this plane, then we exist in perpetual mental conflict and anguish for our "3 score years and ten" and leave it without having achieved anything.
In our case, when we finally got down to it, it was a case of : "what took us so long?, we should have started 10 years earlier." and we have never looked back. We are in our 44th year together.
Here endeth the first lesson of the gospel according to Thumper. So Mote it be.
PS: Just do it - don't take life so seriously.
PS: Just do it - don't take life so seriously. Orgasminator
My stuiwer in die afrikaanse armbeurs, en ek is baie trots om afrikaans te praat. Ek stem saam daar moet baie en openlik gesels word, maar wees gewaarsku as daar enige jaloesie in die huwelik is, is dit 'n no go area, jyt genees nie jaloesie nie.
Dit is my beskeie mening en baie ondervinding net te veel huwelike ten gronde gaan oor die groen duiwel
