As a girl sitting on the sidelines, due to hubby not interested in being active at the moment, I'm getting a lot of advice form people on how to convince him. And a general trend is justification through religion... OMW guys why ? Why do people feel the need to take that approach? If you make a list of things people do every day that is not biblical it will be a long very long list. We just feel the need for justification because we know it's "wrong". Fact is who decides what's right and wrong in your life? The basis of this lifestyle is sexual , and if you have a moral conflict based on any reason, the don't do it. When you have to go that route to convince your spouse it starts bordering on manipulation. And that's a fast track to failure.
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