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I always read the forums about fake photos and fake profiles with interest. Now I have encountered a very funny phenomena ??????Fake verifications. Now there where many forums about verification and how it is done on Swing Heaven, and what it means to each of us. To me it only means that profile is not a FAKE but a real person. Most are verified via the webcam method which is not wrong, but it holds no real value to me as a person. To me it means the person is not a shy person, and is willing to show their face to the to those brave people I take my hat off. My own verifications is people whom I have met in PERSON and to me it means It shows I am real and willing to meet face to face. I hope that people who verified me also have the same value as me. As to verification...I verify people whom I have met,feel I trust and are willing to call my friend,and are willing to recommend to other people should they ask me about the person. Now my forum of today is just something I encountered today.... A couple who each has a single profile here, has verified each other and their combined couple profile. Thus they have verified themselves , or that is how I think about it. I myself think that is fake... Correct me if I am wrong in thinking this???
Pib ek moet ongelukkig met jou saamstem, en maak die stelling verifikasie per persoon is nie die effert werdig nie want dit is 'n klug
... don't be spooked.. hehe.. I know I'm never in the forums.. (I'm a chatter in the Pool) ... anywoo.. I read this what you've said PIB... ... I've had this same convo with someone before.. what does the verification really mean?? If I as mod verify them on cam.. it still does not make them trust worthy members.. There were a few in the past that cam for me so I can verify them.. but within a few days, sometimes weeks, they change DRASTICALLY!!! .... My point is that to be verified does not mean you always trustworthy .. lol but I hear what you saying PIB.. the fact that these 2 have verified each other, that is strange.. but in the end.. we as moderators/admin still have to approve the verification... so it brings us back to square 1.. If the mod's/admin have to approve the verification, how do we know that person is true??? It leave's me also in a grey area regarding this matter... (don't know if my opinion answered you? :lol: :lol: ) Yoga xxx
I usually don't put much faith in the verification, except maybe in the picture one which is done by taking a pic with your code and sending it to admin/mods to verify. But all this proves to me is that you are not a dude posing as a single lady or as a couple. It still does not rule out you and some other willing lady posing with you for the pic..... I too would only verify and prefer us to be verified by some we have actually met, maybe even played with before doing the verification thing with. Or then if with cam, at least a few times before verifying.... As for the situation of the two as singles and with a profile together, I don't really think that counts..... Yes you know both are for real, or should at least know that if you are living together in the same house, but it still does not really prove anything to me. So I kinda have to agree that's cheating the system...
That reminds me to ask one of the users from this forum to verify me ... I have done the pic with the ref no on piece of paper thing already. Yes P&B, I also do not feel that the couples verifying each-other is above board, one would expect that it would be a person outside of the relationship who would have to verify!
@ Adonis Ek dink nie verifiasie sou `n klug wees as dit net reg gedoen word,dan is dit iets van waarde. @ Yoga... Welcome to the comments part of the forums, I do sometimes see you browsing here. I think you moderators have a difficult job as it is. So I do understand if you guys verify someone via webcam. At least that person was willing to show his or her face. @ Nauty_Erotic At least they are quiet crafty in the way the did that, I only picked it up because I am so nosy. @ my mail069 Now I hope you are already verified.... Thanks for the replies guys!!!!!!