Hi Guys,
I have been reading through the other threads and have a confession to make, seeing that everyone is so open, here we go:
When we have sex, the more my wife enjoys it the more I do, meaning I don't stop until I get the reaction from her I'm intending to. My wife is one of those lucky ladies that have 3 or more orgasms every time we have sex, I mean foreplay normally has her cumming already.
So what gets me off is seeing / feeling her get off, so I have been thinking of introducing another guy into the mix, a MMF session if you will. Now I know most guys fantasize about a MFF, and I do to, but I'm not against the other.
Here is my reasoning, how great would it be to fill her up from both sides, she might reach new heights in pleasure and loss complete control in the moment, and that will in fact give me great pleasure.
One of the greatest turn ons is seeing your other half in their normal day to day "mode", then when you are giving them immense pleasure watching them transform into a sex hungry nimph.
This is just my thoughts, if there is another couple out there who have considered or done the same thing, I would love to hear what experience you had etc.
PS: This is not an open invitation to all single guys to start contacting us, as always, we will contact you.
Nick
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Quote by NickTan
Hi Guys,
I have been reading through the other threads and have a confession to make, seeing that everyone is so open, here we go:
When we have sex, the more my wife enjoys it the more I do, meaning I don't stop until I get the reaction from her I'm intending to. My wife is one of those lucky ladies that have 3 or more orgasms every time we have sex, I mean foreplay normally has her cumming already.
So what gets me off is seeing / feeling her get off, so I have been thinking of introducing another guy into the mix, a MMF session if you will. Now I know most guys fantasize about a MFF, and I do to, but I'm not against the other.
Here is my reasoning, how great would it be to fill her up from both sides, she might reach new heights in pleasure and loss complete control in the moment, and that will in fact give me great pleasure.
One of the greatest turn ons is seeing your other half in their normal day to day "mode", then when you are giving them immense pleasure watching them transform into a sex hungry nimph.
This is just my thoughts, if there is another couple out there who have considered or done the same thing, I would love to hear what experience you had etc.
PS: This is not an open invitation to all single guys to start contacting us, as always, we will contact you.
Nick
My first suggestion would be, make sure your wife is ok with the concept of another man first.
I agree that it is high on enjoyment scale watching your partner get off. And I think most guy's want to see their partner reaching new highs all the time.
Only thing is it can go wrong in the blink of an eye, so make sure she is fully on board, and try make sure you choose the right assistant.
I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.
Having said that... About 3 years ago, I had the pleasure of a joining a couple (not through this site). The rules were no penetration, no kissing. Oral and hand "play" only. It was a 4 hour session and when all was over, the couple asked to please leave as they now need to do their thing. So I deduced that they needed a male to arouse them for a steamy session. I did not mind and was happy to oblige. Felt good to have been able to assist in spicing up their sex life and my pleasure was of minimum importance to me. They moved to the Cape soon after so sadly, it never happened again. I was however informed that they would have me over again anytime. I was actually complimented by the wife on my "oral skills" to such an extent that hubby was slightly jealous.
I am sorry that I can not give you any info from a couples point of view but what I experienced was amazing. I would do it again in a heart beat. I do know that the couple loved every second of it. So from what I saw, a mmf can every bit as exciting as ffm... I would just be careful as to who gets chosen. Many single males will promise you that they want in on the action for your sake but actually want to score a shag. There are those types here that truly get their kicks out of pleasuring a couple rather than their own pleasure being top of the list.
Sex God
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I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.
you make it too easy man . . .
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I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.
you make it too easy man . . .
What did I say this time?
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.
you make it too easy man . . .
What did I say this time?
she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me) . . . . . . . . . :doh:
Quote by SDMR
I am a single male on this site but I am involved. As you said, mff is obviously the way to go for most guys and I have also dabbled with the idea of a male for my girl. Problem is that she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me). She will not want another with us as she is not into that.
you make it too easy man . . .
What did I say this time? :lol:
she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me) . . . . . . . . . :doh:
:lol: Must be my charm... Bwa haaa haa haaa!!!
Don't laugh at me dude! My life confuses me enough as it is...
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
you make it too easy man . . .
What did I say this time? :lol:
she really prefers girls to guys (I sometimes wonder how she is with me) . . . . . . . . . :doh:
:lol: Must be my charm... Bwa haaa haa haaa!!!
Don't laugh at me dude! My life confuses me enough as it is...
No no no, I am not laughing at you, I am . . oh hell, who am I kidding I am laughing at you . . . but thank you, you have brightened up an otherwise dreary Monday morning on SH . . . (hey pssst , do you think we have started to entertain anyone else yet?)
Sex God
Quote by NickTan
This is what is referred to as a Thread Hi-Jack...
Yes it is indeed, Stamina behave yourself now.
ok, but seriously, like I said with my first response, my two cents worth, would be to make sure the lady is on board with the possibility.
I think that there are a number of ladies who would like to experience things like this, but due to the simplistic immature minds of men, they are mostly not able to. What I mean is men want women to be like this, but the moment they are they lable them and get nasty to them.
I suppose we would fall into that category... but I'm the female partner and my husband asks me to hook up with other guys for his viewing pleasure. I think we've only ever had a proper tiresome twice though.... ha ha a "tiresome"... how ironic predictive text gets sometimes.... threesome I mean...
So you should probably be aware of the unexpected by product of a tiresome and wanting to watch your partner... with a third person in the room, you're also being watched! Sometimes the feeling (as a voyeur) is more than one bargains for 
Another comment, we don't actively seek out single women to meet.... only guys... I don't really understand the idea that inviting a single woman into your bed is "safer" or easier... doesn't make sense to me... though that's not to say I don't have female playmates - they are just part of couples :)
It does wonders for our sex life and sometimes I've wanted to ask the guy to leave but I've always just held out and been polite, sometimes I think we wait too long and we lose the mood... maybe I should be more straight like your friends Stamina? You didn't seem to be offended ;)
Another comment, we don't actively seek out single women to meet.... only guys... I don't really understand the idea that inviting a single woman into your bed is "safer" or easier... doesn't make sense to me... though that's not to say I don't have female playmates - they are just part of couples :)
It does wonders for our sex life and sometimes I've wanted to ask the guy to leave but I've always just held out and been polite, sometimes I think we wait too long and we lose the mood... maybe I should be more straight like your friends Stamina? You didn't seem to be offended ;) maybe I should be more straight like your friends Stamina? You didn't seem to be offended ;)
I was not offended at all. I understood that it was not rudeness, but rather because they wanted to "continue" alone. I gathered that I was the "sex toy", they needed me there - not the other way around. So I was happy to leave and give them there "alone time" knowing that they were going to have earth shaking sex thanks to my efforts. I think many guys (those who understand the lifestyle) would not be offended if you politely asked them to leave. Just explain that it is not them but rather that you now want to be alone with hubby. Same concept as using sex toys for foreplay, you put them one side when you are done with them and the real deal begins...
I was not offended at all. I understood that it was not rudeness, but rather because they wanted to "continue" alone. I gathered that I was the "sex toy", they needed me there - not the other way around. So I was happy to leave and give them there "alone time" knowing that they were going to have earth shaking sex thanks to my efforts. I think many guys (those who understand the lifestyle) would not be offended if you politely asked them to leave. Just explain that it is not them but rather that you now want to be alone with hubby. Same concept as using sex toys for foreplay, you put them one side when you are done with them and the real deal begins...
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It's one of the sexiest things for me, me and my gf prefer mmf, ffm is great if the lady's enjoy each other, but mmf does it for us. As been said, she must be okay with it. In my experience it's mostly only the hubby's fantasy, and that is never a good thing, it just doesn't work.
I've been invited to a cpl before, where the hubby tried to convinced me that his wife prefer being so drunk that she would like me to do her, in front of her husband, while she is passed out
I didn't except the invite.
But seriously, it's 90% the husbands fantasy, as it is mine
Great seeing your girl enjoy, and can satisfy more than one guy.
I didn't except the invite.
But seriously, it's 90% the husbands fantasy, as it is mineGreat seeing your girl enjoy, and can satisfy more than one guy. Quote by Jagermeister
I've been invited to a cpl before, where the hubby tried to convinced me that his wife prefer being so drunk that she would like me to do her, in front of her husband, while she is passed out
That sounds like one freaky wierd fantasy. ...
She Is turned on by not remembering a Damn thing? Can someone say "coerced "? You dodged a bullet their friend.
Oh, and welcome to the forums!
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
I've been invited to a cpl before, where the hubby tried to convinced me that his wife prefer being so drunk that she would like me to do her, in front of her husband, while she is passed out
That sounds like one freaky wierd fantasy. ...
She Is turned on by not remembering a Damn thing? Can someone say "coerced "? You dodged a bullet their friend.
Oh, and welcome to the forums!
Really frightening thought indeed . . .
Letting another guy do his thing with your wife / Girlfriend is called, being Cuckold or Cuckolding from the old Shakespearean term. This refers mostly to the husband / BF just being a Voyeur and many men seek this out specifically for their lady.
It may not be the ladies first choice or like and just like any other activity it can have negative consequences if not approached correctly, as the others mentioned.
There are a few such (Cuckold, Cuckolding) groups you can join on this site if you wish.
We started this venture 18 months ago to find a soft swing couple or the elusive unicorn, mostly to excite my wife's Bi nature.
Just like any guy with an ego, there was no way I imagined having my wife give it up for another guy but as time went on the idea started to excite me too.
We are however more likely to go for a mfm encounter that involves a variety multiple stimulation scenarios, rather than pure cuckolding.
Then again we are getting everything we want from couple play but we do have periods where each person just watches the other two or three play, so that would also include cuckolding of sorts.
