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Is it better to watch or be watched....that is the question!

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Only now managed to join the site again, so i'm back and looking for more fun times Yet this time i've decided to change my perspective a little and focus more on voyeurism then actual swinging. Please don't get me wrong, i'd still love to be a part of the action if invited to do so, but i'd also like to experience voyeurism or dogging for that matter a little more. I've been watched on the rare occasion during sex, but lately it seems that it's more of a turn on to watch rather than being watched myself. Odd maybe, and some may argue that a porn movie should suffice, but yet i suppose the thrill of being right there, the smell of sex the sounds the mere thought of being able to reach out and touch them makes one more turned on than normal, maybe it's just me, who knows, all i'm hoping for is some more voyeurism or dogging in the near future. All comments will be appreciated
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Only now managed to join the site again, so i'm back and looking for more fun times
Yet this time i've decided to change my perspective a little and focus more on voyeurism then actual swinging. Please don't get me wrong, i'd still love to be a part of the action if invited to do so, but i'd also like to experience voyeurism or dogging for that matter a little more. I've been watched on the rare occasion during sex, but lately it seems that it's more of a turn on to watch rather than being watched myself. Odd maybe, and some may argue that a porn movie should suffice, but yet i suppose the thrill of being right there, the smell of sex the sounds the mere thought of being able to reach out and touch them makes one more turned on than normal, maybe it's just me, who knows, all i'm hoping for is some more voyeurism or dogging in the near future.
All comments will be appreciated

While it may seem odd to some, and while some may say things like a porn movie should suffice, at least you know what it is you are looking to experience, and that ultimately is all that matters.
I have been in a room where a bunch of people have been making those sounds and smells you mention, but always as one who was helping to make them, now I am wondering if I would enjoy sitting back and only watching . . ..
Being watched is the more pleasurable part for me...just knowing that someone else is getting turned on by what you are doing makes me cum even more. Watching is fun too, its visa versa with the pleasure. Either way, being turned on by sex in general is what makes it fun.
I think both watching and being watched has it's turn on's and I guess a "time and place". But then again, I really enjoy sex, so being watched gives me best of both? wink :twisted:
For me, it's definitely mostly about the watching!!! I'm happy to watch, anywhere, any time I can manage! Anyone who would like to just be watched, give me a shout!
Watching especially if it is my wife being pleasured
I agree wouldnt mind watching the Mrs have some fun.
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Watching especially if it is my wife being pleasured
that is true