I find intelligence attractive, I just do. The inability to have a conversation, a debate or a discussion on a variety of issues... well it doesn't do it for me.
So sue me, if you're not in that category, I just am not going to enjoy your company. I am certainly not going to bonk you, that's for damn sure. No way Hosé!
So for me, good spelling, grammar, punctuation... these are all tell-tale signs...
The ability to read the WHOLE post someone makes and intelligently respond to the actual message, rather than the assumption another might have made, after reading only the first line... that for me indicates some intelligence... that is sexy...
So if I'm honest when I post on these forums, I am most certainly fishing...
Those who speak (or in this case write) before they think (if they are indeed on the same page) often lose out, because I immediately think (possibly in error, I admit)...
"Tosser!"
And that's me .. completely turned off.
And truly there is no way to more quickly cause disinterest to engulf my mind than a well timed "mwah!"
Man, those irritate me. What am I? Twelve?
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Intelligence is attractive...
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I agree with you!
Quote by MattLeeEC
I find intelligence attractive .......
And that's me .. completely turned off.
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Jeeesh! LeeEC, what happened? I deduct from your smart posting that you had a brush with intelligence, but it was not laaikable?
(Must agree that Intelligence has an attraction for me as well)
Come on guys, I was referring to me,myself by being amused with small things ,like the change of avatars and words like *Mwah*..:-) But then ,I am beginning to go into my senile years...;-)
And I was just teasing Lee a little bit about the *am I 12 years old* remark.
Was not saying you guys are immature or unintelligent.
I fully understand why MattLeeEC was blowing of a little I agree with her.
I just had the (In my eyes that is) the stupidest remarks to one of my odes to myself, that I posted under stories that I commented on.
And I fully understand that person has the right to say how they felt about my I do accept that,but then....
That same person posted a *story* and guys I cringed when I read it,you should read the spelling and grammar mistakes.
Now that *story* would have been very sensual ,as it really had a good sensual line.
Should that person just have taken the time just to correct the badly spelling faults.
I also have a motto, if I cannot say something nice about a *story*I do not comment.
Now forums is altogether another is a debate. Here anyone can say how they feel, as long a no one attack the person who posted or commented on the posting.
Sorry Lee, just thought I would explain myself a little better.
Read an personal and emediately thought of Lee's forum, wanted to post his name but thought about it again
Not good to laugh at other people
Remember at school, very English, was laughed at by the other boys because I came from an area with a destinct accent
And then, this a site for sex.
My wife had a lover, thick as a brick, but knew what to do with his equipment so she dated him just for sex
Sexpert
Is poor spelling really a sign of lack of intelligence, if so then I am a retard, I can't spell and my grammar sucks but that's because we have has sure many moons ago scholars who only spoke Latin where all offended by this "English" to be honest one could argue that im i am typing the word you , i can express myself with far less effort by simply typing u .i do judge people by the content of their responses/comments though as oppossed to their grammer or spelling as english is not everyones first saying that english is my first language and mr reddy( high school english teacher) would cringe if he read how i butcher the queens english these days, but , i i want to say is my poor spelling is more a sign of my evolution/apathy/laziness rather than my intellegence .in conclusion thanks for the heads up i will start making an attempt to correct my grammer and spelling if thats how one can attract ladies like lee( as soon as i learn how to use this darn spell check what what :doh: )
I love you guys...
You make me laugh, so much... thanks!
See guys the fact that you KNOW that your spelling and grammar is bad is a distinct indication of your intelligence!
There are those who are simply clueless...
My mother always said.. "Better to be thought a fool than to open one's mouthing remove all doubt"
There are a lot of people out there just plain determined to advertise their personal lack of mental faculty.
As some one who has done a lot of editting, I should say though for the benefit of my brained fellows here, struggling with the spell check, (and I do know it is difficult to converse articulately with one hand, we do give you access to such yummy and distracting pictures) that it is very easy to separate the dof from the literary delinquent 
Ok so I do use big words which befuddle... but it brings out the intellectuals from the woodwork... and then I have someone to play with... for me sex starts in the brain ;)
Ok so I do use big words which befuddle... but it brings out the intellectuals from the woodwork... and then I have someone to play with... for me sex starts in the brain ;) Mmm, must admit this forum post has caught my attention, who doesn't love brains and of course some brawn.
I love to read, anything from fiction to the next- door- fellow's biography. I too believe "foreplay" does start on how we communicate on the site - oh and it can be so much fun. But also true looking at the grammar and spelling sometimes you wonder what conversation you might hold with that person - and i too believe we all have an immature mind(some
more that others).
The point, that is my heading, I don't even sms or text or whatever you want to call it nowadays like that? oops.
My mother tongue is afrikaans, but I do english deliciously or Italian or Spaniard or German - get my drift..........
Ah well, I understood and yes *high five* fully support your statement.
xo
Lee really started something
At school I was first in spelling and now dont care, important business letters get spell check and the others ?
Where is spell check on SH
As for big words, I love them, worked for an Afrikaner years ago and used big words in our office correspondence, he took up the challenge and I think all had dictionaries next to us
OF course there/here is a spell check !! HOW in the world would I seem to be intelligent enough IF NOT???
Just click on the right side of your mouse and walla, the computer asks you if you need a spell check.
then once you typed and something is not spelled right, it underlines the word with RED.
Damn, now the computer is way more intelligent them me!!!
I wanna nominate TADAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa...... *COMPUTER* for a Nobel prize!!!
