I like to peruse and am often amused with some of the profiles, some even allowing this little brain to discover new things. Admittedly I do like blunt, but surely there is space for a little bit of leg pulling. Whoahh and behold another discovery on my part has been made ………..I am not decent.
Now I might be a bit slow on the uptake but I have a thought process that needs to be followed, too many times have I put this rather small foot in my mouth.
So off to dictionary dot com……..yeah I know anally retentive.
Decent: Conforming to the recognised standard of good taste, propriety, modesty in behaviour and speech. And the synonyms go on about kindness, generosity yada yada yada.
Now I am seriously confused, to be decent or indecent ? It seems the choice has been made for me and when I say me I include my rather rebellious partner. We are BOTH indecent because we smoke, and yes I do smoke after sex. Only on the odd occasion have we had to put out a fire and that includes our NON smoking playmates.
After much consideration we have decide to remain in the indecent 'box', so from now on NO non smokers need apply to our profile. 'Cough, choke ,splutter'
Join the most popular community of South African swingers now
Login
Indecent habits
Orgasminator
Indecent is a relative term, you need to decide for yourself really. However I will say that for me indecent behaviour is embarrassing behaviour like getting drunk and making a fool of yourself or anything that you can't talk to other people about without feeling foolish. But that's just me and with swinging I see no indecency since I have friends I can chat with about my playdates. Like when couples ask about experiences and preferences, not a review. Purely subjective and about myself not the couple I was with.
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Indecent is a relative term, you need to decide for yourself really. However I will say that for me indecent behaviour is embarrassing behaviour like getting drunk and making a fool of yourself or anything that you can't talk to other people about without feeling foolish. But that's just me and with swinging I see no indecency since I have friends I can chat with about my playdates
Dude, you have friends you can chat with about your playdates ? ? ? ?
Firstly: good for you I suppose
Secondly: ANY couple / single person etc who reads that, and is not openly free as you appear to be, will most probably look straight past your profile now they have this knowledge. . . . . . just a thought . . .
But on a slightly different note:
I'm listening . . . . . . . .
Orgasminator
Quote by SDMR
Dude, you have friends you can chat with about your playdates ? ? ? ?
Firstly: good for you I suppose
Secondly: ANY couple / single person etc who reads that, and is not openly free as you appear to be, will most probably look straight past your profile now they have this knowledge. . . . . . just a thought . . .
But on a slightly different note:
I'm listening . . . . . . . .
Jip, people I meet through the site here. I don't do one nights stands so I chill with couples over a drink first before we organise a date on another nights. Plus if people want to judge then fine, it's not like I discuss names etc, instead I use him and her since I still respect discretion.
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Dude, you have friends you can chat with about your playdates ? ? ? ?
Firstly: good for you I suppose
Secondly: ANY couple / single person etc who reads that, and is not openly free as you appear to be, will most probably look straight past your profile now they have this knowledge. . . . . . just a thought . . .
But on a slightly different note:
I'm listening . . . . . . . .
Jip, people I meet through the site here. I don't do one nights stands so I chill with couples over a drink first before we organise a date on another nights. Plus if people want to judge then fine, it's not like I discuss names etc, instead I use him and her since I still respect discretion.
Ok, so it seemed like at first to me that you were saying you talk about what had happened on play dates with other (non involved) people. But I now see what you were saying.
Orgasminator
Quote by SDMR
Ok, so it seemed like at first to me that you were saying you talk about what had happened on play dates with other (non involved) people. But I now see what you were saying.
Well I edited it, seems I'm being misinterpreted as judgemental or so when I said talking about my playdates even though I meant no breach in confidentiality or trust.
Sex God
Quote by CarnalPercept
Is it just me or do people tend to go off in a tangent............oh well never mind I will just go sit in a corner and pick my nose. Just by the way Ranger64 in my case it would be ........... If I am filled up and filled deep, then call me "indecent"
Why would you and sit in a corner and pick your nose? there are so many more fun things you could do while sitting in the corner . . . .
@ CarnalPercept
I think smoking is now in a faze where people over react to it. Just a few years ago it was high fashion to smoke, if you did not smoke it made you boring!!!
Everyone around me smoked!! Heck, I even tried *smoking* you should have seen my lighter collection,Still have a cigaret holder I use in kinky play, but smoking is something that I did not take too.I just can not smoke.....But I did get big doses of second degree smoke all the time,still do,as everyone around me smokes.
Since my GF stopped smoking, I somehow NOW can smell the smoke on our clothes when we were in contact with smoke where people are smoking, or I can smell it immediately if they light a cigaret in our that does not make me anal as to sent anyone who smokes, to go smoke outside.
I can say anyone who drinks is indecent...if smoking is indecent. I think most people *relaxes* with wine or something stronger before playing. As a non drinker I am more anal about that. I say Non drinker but I like liqueurs but dislike the taste of anything else, that is the reason I do not drink alcohol does not taste nice enough to drink.
I am however a VERY indecent kind of person!!!!!!!People have to take or leave me as I am. I am not going to change for anyone....I love being indecent!!!!! heck, I even like farting !!!!!! It is so indecent and satisfactory to let one rip and it stinks to high heaven!!!!! As you look around to spot the *guilty*one you can actually smile and think* Well people, that is what I think of ya!!!!
As for us forum bunnies , we do LIKE some leg pulling,hench the constant derailing of the topic at hand, but sometimes people do not read the funny side of things,and they take it personally.
@ SDMR *snot-bolletjies rol*Now this just sounds more yucky and I love it.....than nose picking.
Snot-bolletjies rol is a great art you just have to know just how deep to dig and what to do with the gems you find!!!! LMAO........
