Inapropriate remarks

Have to say this...! There are guys that always have comments on peoples profile pics, this is fine but some...well quite a few are downright idiotic! Example...pics where only genitals can be seen...the remark goes like this..."very sexy woman". Or a face pic with the whole face blanked out and the comment is something like this..."very pretty lady". Another one would be..."what a hot bod"...when all that can be seen is a small portion of one buttock! Seriously...are these guys idiots? Or just plain desperate!

I would think it's a desperation thing - guys commenting for the sake of making a comment, hoping to get themselves noticed.  Maybe, just maybe, that "hot bod" will look at their profile, and then they can strike up a conversation...?  I believe it's all part of the "fishing" process, putting hooks in the water, even if often they are completely lacking in bait!!!!!!

The ratio of guys to couples/woman is so high that lots of guys just comment in a hope to get a response. Im not sure if they have had any success.

Just have a look at some older pucs and how many profiles no longer exist or have not been active in months.

The things is that most single guys and probably most of them in their 20's dont have any idea of what swinging is or what it entails. To them its a "hobby" much like vaping, cars, diy etc. The only difference here is that it involves  people that want sex and unfortunately all they see is "want sex" and i can get laid. 

To be fair to them there may be a very hot guy and he gets it right by couples purely based on his physical appearance and hence sticks to what he knows.

The other thing that people remark on is how beautiful or sexy somebody is, which in truth is fine but it seems as if some guys would bang just anything with a hole for the sake of it.

Or perhaps . . . . . the majority of the people who comment, really do mean what they say??????? 

Knocking what people say by saying something negative about them /  their comment is perhaps a little . . . . well, exactly the same? 

Perhaps it's time that the request for single straight males to be removed from the site is made by the couples who have an issue with it?

Or at least, a request that couple profiles cannot tick the straight male box! That should cut the "problem" in half at least? If course, that would also require the straight "single" female member get the same "treatment" because if MMF s not site appropriate, then MFF is surely not? 

What was meant in the post was.................That the comments were silly! That is all. Nothing more, nothing less!

Yip, lots of them are just totally inane, some are actually what I would call "rude", meant to be provocative...  I actually cringe when I read some of them..

Personally I rarely comment on pictures in the gallery. If I do find a couple whos pictures I find attractive, the first thing I do is look at their preferences. Should it state that they are interested in single guys, I would rather send them a private message, saying thanks for sharing the pics with us and that I enjoyed seeing them.

If they reply or not is up to them. A compliment should be paid in private (my opinion). If a guy hasn't even got the balls to pay a decent compliment to a couple or lady in private, why would anybody take notice of him and his public "compliments"? 

The best is to look at the amount of comments by guys on pictures of profiles specifically stating they are not interested in single men.....what a waste of time on the fiy's side!

As always here's my 2cents worth: pics posted on the gallery are "free for all" so the profile of whoever posted them is totally irrelevant !!!! On the other hand (Darren) I haveto say that I find the 'standard' comments that certain members feel compelled to post (fokken mooi poes, luf to lek dat etc ) ad nauseum, rather boring. I certainly feel that there are some really cool pics being posted and I will compliment those who posted them, and sometimes unfortunately I can't help myself from posting shit like "hey dude, can we PLEASE have another 20 closeups of your cheap tattoos ??? ......

Aaaand that being said, remember that the GALLERY is much like the FORUM, where FREEDOM reigns, anyone and everyone can post ANYTHING they want to, and anyone and everyone can comment thereon, no matter how much their views may clash with or offend others, they have the right to say their say, as do those who may feel offended, this is the essence of freedom of speech, this is the foundation of this site, FREEDOM from the narrowly defined stereotypes of 21st century society. So if all of this is too much of a mindfuck for you, best you go back to watching Ohh-praah and CNN, you'll be a much happier and 'well-adjusted' citizen, on the production line at the experimental muffin research kitchen, operating the nozzle of the icing anointment utensil............

hmmmmm, 

Fits right in with the posts heading!!!

Humblest apologies, misread the heading, thought it said "IRRELEVANT" remarks.....

Wolfman, I generally enjoy your irrelevant and frivolous comments as they add some life (and intelligence) to the postings here.  But irrelevance unfortunately can also kill the thread.  As does the absence of contributors....

There's nothing more really  to add regarding "inappropriate" remarks. From my viewpoint I look at the galleries from time to time and generally find most of the photos boring or unimaginative and not worth commenting on.  Some photos are so odd,  unattractive or (presumably) unintentionally amusing that I'm tempted to make a sarcastic comment, but also knowing how thin-skinned people tend to be, I never do. I do, however, make positive comments when I find a photo or video that is particularly sexy, arousing or interesting. I really do not think that a photo posted by someone who has no interest in a single male should preclude me from commenting if the photo has been made publicly visible.