This one is for the ladies to answer and for the men that think they know the answer.
We men think we know how to make women go WOW during sex and after sex. We think we know all the moves and the correct way of giving a muff.
Now ladies please give us MEN some insight in how to get you to go WOW.
Joyrider
Always willing to learn.
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How to get her to say WOW
Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow,wow............ LMAO sounds like a dog barking to me.......
Just teasing Joyrider, Just teasing....
Hmm Muff diving huh???
now muff diving is not just for lying down and start licking and sucking on the ladies clit.
You need to really really get her withering and slithering around so excited she just wants you to really *give it to her*
finger play,tongue play and hand play, and nose play comes to mind here....
I am on my way out......but I will come finish this later.....yeee.... haaaaw.
Sex God
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This one is for the ladies to answer and for the men that think they know the answer.
We men think we know how to make women go WOW during sex and after sex. We think we know all the moves and the correct way of giving a muff.
Now ladies please give us MEN some insight in how to get you to go WOW.
Joyrider
Always willing to learn.
@Joyrider, I look forward to hearing what the ladies have to say here. Personally I think it's the single most enjoyable part of sex, so if they can tell us men how to anything better, I'm all ears . . .
For the most part, I am on the receiving end of the muff dives...
I have only gone down on one other lady (only happened once 
) and I was so busy enjoying myself down there, I couldn't tell you what I was doing. The only way I know that I was doing an OK job: when I asked her if she wanted more, she moaned and lifted her hips towards my face...
I guess what I am trying to say is that I am unsure of what happens when I am getting muffed, only that I am loving what is happening...
;)
C
) and I was so busy enjoying myself down there, I couldn't tell you what I was doing. The only way I know that I was doing an OK job: when I asked her if she wanted more, she moaned and lifted her hips towards my face...
I guess what I am trying to say is that I am unsure of what happens when I am getting muffed, only that I am loving what is happening...
;)
C 
Master of Sex
Well everyones different, some like clit play some dont etc.
Anyhoo, for me a good muff is when a guy seems to be loving it and holds and lifts my ass off the bed and goes at it like its the best dessert he has ever tasted in his life lol. Im not a lover of any clit play but being penetrated(fingers and tongue) then i am in 7th heaven. I like to be kissed after(on my mouth) to lol but thats the freak in me hehe :twisted:. Cant tell all cos just now people think im weird.
But bad is when a guy pokes at it like its gonna hurt him. Licks it like its going to eat him like a venus fly trap hahahaha. Oh and when he stops abruptly cos u moaning and wants to get in there cos he too excited. Total mood killer and ends things way too quickly.
I know that this was for ladies to answer, but I want to share my way. Ladies, tell me if this would do it for you?
With delicate fingertips, I pinch the arched lips of her vagina very slowly together, and kiss them as though I kissed her lower lip.
This is a rather strange technique, but if done correctly, it can be a good way to initiate cunnilingus. I Pinch together the labia of my partner's vagina to imitate lips, and gently kiss the region.
Now I spread. I Circle the archway of her lady bits with my nose and let my tongue gently probe her vagina, with my nose, lips and chin slowly circling.
Remember, that the vagina is an very sensitive area, even more so than the penis, and when engaging in cunnilingus, make sure to always be gentle.
I let my tongue rest for a moment in the entrance to the vagina while softly caressing her breasts before entering deeper causing her fluids to flow. Now at a steady pace, not too fast - not too slow, I probe my tongue in and out (as deep as I can).
Rhythm is just as important for women as it is for men. I change the rhythms, speed and pressure of my tongue, and don't focus on one area. I use the tip softly and the flat part with more pressure. I always throw a hand into the mix aswell. Always caressing and tickling a part with my hand while my tongue is busy in a different area. Gently pinching the inside of her thighs (where the tendon runs).
I fasten my lips to hers (labia) and take deep sucking, nibbling motions at her and sucking hard at her clitoris for short bursts and longer intervals.
The clitoris is the most sensitive area of the vagina, and is the easiest place to stimulate a woman to orgasm. I talk to my partner, and ask her what techniques she prefers, slow or fast, circles or licking – I always find out what she wants, I don't just guess.
I like to cup and lift her buttocks, let my tongue-tip probe her navel, I slowly slither down to rotate skilfully at the start of her labia, where the lips meet at the top, while caressing the labia lower down with two fingers.
The entrance to the vagina is also an incredibly sensitive area that if stimulated correctly can give a woman immense pleasure. Moving in circles and changing direction sporadically is a good technique for stimulating this area.
I place my partner on a couch or something, put her feet on my shoulders, grasp her waist, suck hard and let my tongue stir her clitoris.
Remember that sex does not have to be limited to the bedroom. High tables are excellent for oral sex, as they allow for different styles of oral pleasure other than lying down.
When I am finished going down on a lady, and that tiny skin under my tongue in the centre is not torn by my bottom teeth, then I did not work hard enough!
That is how I do it... Never had a complaint. But maybe the ladies are just to polite to tell me that I don't know what I am doing? 
Oh I think everyone is different - completely individual...
The best advice I can give which will be applicable to everyone here...
Start very slowly, just "feel" around and note her responses, it's gonna be quite apparent what spots are the most important quite quickly, quite early on and you will know where to focus her attention... Also give her permission to direct you... :twisted:
I suspect this also might be quite standard:
* if she arches towards you, that's the spot that needs attention right now,
* if she moans it's good but the spot will be more intense as she gets more turned on
* if she gasps /sucks her breath in that's a very intense feeling - keep going back there but not for too long or too much or you'll make it sore!
NB - always ask permission to use teeth or bite - this is one of those love or hate things 
Ladies! Am I close? I don't know, I think about it a lot (my body language feedback) and I seem to have observed the same in most women. What do you say?
Ladies! Am I close? I don't know, I think about it a lot (my body language feedback) and I seem to have observed the same in most women. What do you say? Ahhhhhh I think Stamina has it down to par.....no need for me then to go sit down and re write what he so nice described...he even has the *nose* play .....
Look and listen and feel your lady....her body will tell you where you are needed the most.
Just to add to stamina:-
I just do a lot of massaging and kneading of her abdomen thighs breast and buttocks as well when I have both hands slip my hands down to her calf's and feet as well...play her body like a fiddle really.
Also Pop into her vagina, a few ice cube with my mouth.
I also sometimes use a tingling item to give more sensation( I suck on a peppermint) or you can use a peppermint mouthwash
Or I will let a tongue full of *eno`s* slowly fizz on her clit while my tongue is pressed down flat on it, soon she is begging for either a good fisting or some serious dildo play. But I always nearly end up fisting and muffing at the same time.
but Stamina has written it down so well I can not do better on that.
Sex God
Also Pop into her vagina, a few ice cube with my mouth.
I also sometimes use a tingling item to give more sensation( I suck on a peppermint) or you can use a peppermint mouthwash
Or I will let a tongue full of *eno`s* slowly fizz on her clit while my tongue is pressed down flat on it, soon she is begging for either a good fisting or some serious dildo play. But I always nearly end up fisting and muffing at the same time.
@PIB do you even realise what you have done for the majority of the males and the images in their heads ???? I thank you on behalf of all males
LMAO @ SDMR...man oh man...you are soooooo easy!!!!! I was just adding a few details...LOL
BUT now to get you thinking .....HAVE you ever had a lady pop her mouth full of eno`s over your penis head??? hold it there while it is fizzing and popping ??? I have done that many a time and MEN loves that...I dislike the eno taste, sure...but it is worth it when I see the shock and then delight on the males/females faces...I always sorta sneak that kinda stuff in, so it is unexpected.
On the shoe lace thing cannot find a pic clear enough for you to see the PINK lace properly....will try and take a better pic next time and then post it.
Sex God
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LMAO @ SDMR...man oh man...you are soooooo easy!!!!! I was just adding a few details...LOL
BUT now to get you thinking .....HAVE you ever had a lady pop her mouth full of eno`s over your penis head??? hold it there while it is fizzing and popping ??? I have done that many a time and MEN loves that...I dislike the eno taste, sure...but it is worth it when I see the shock and then delight on the males/females faces...I always sorta sneak that kinda stuff in, so it is unexpected.
On the shoe lace thing cannot find a pic clear enough for you to see the PINK lace properly....will try and take a better pic next time and then post it.
Pop Rocks (candy) I am well familiar with . . . .Eno's is new.
Send the pic of the shoelace anyway, I will pretend i am looking to what colour it is . .
Master of Sex
Crap Stamina when can i come over? Lol i feel like i just read a page outta fifty shades.
PIB u make me wanna try the bi thing. I have always been uncomfy with a woman wanting to go down on me but hell...
Meow... Wet Kitty 
Sex God
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Crap Stamina when can i come over? Lol i feel like i just read a page outta fifty shades.
PIB u make me wanna try the bi thing. I have always been uncomfy with a woman wanting to go down on me but hell...
Meow... Wet Kitty
oh dear @Stamina, that copy paste technique never worked. . . . .
:rotflmao::rotflmao: Sex God
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Copy / Paste?? That is 100% my own! Much research and dissapointed looks on womens faces went into my currently used tecnique!
Good old trial and error . . . :thumbup:
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This one is for the ladies to answer and for the men that think they know the answer.
We men think we know how to make women go WOW during sex and after sex. We think we know all the moves and the correct way of giving a muff.
Now ladies please give us MEN some insight in how to get you to go WOW.
Joyrider
Always willing to learn.
Every single woman is different. What works for one may turn another off completely. Yet there is no "right" or "wrong" as far as cunnilingus is concerned. The best advise we can give is to pay careful attention to how she responds. Of course, this is assuming that she doesn't voice her thoughts on the how, what and where. If she voices her opinion it makes things a lot easier but discovering a woman's body is a treat in itself.
As for how to make her go "Wow!"? Once you find something she truly enjoys, keep at it with slight variations on speed and/or intensity
