I remember my young days - my masturbating days is it were... It would start off as normal, just the "standard" stroking. The more you stroke the hornier you become. You start to think of new and different ways, even while busy. The standard stroking is just not enough... But there is not much more you can do at that moment so you just carry on until you finish - the end result was the same as if you had done it in any different way.
The same thing when sex finally started happening. You start off with the foreplay, get hornier, penetration begins, get even hornier and finally you are folding your poor partner like a pretzel in an attempt to get " more" out of the session than what you are already getting. Get adventurous and go for the bum with a finger, pinch nipples, spank the ass, etc. Funny thing is that the in and out motion of your penis stays the same, no matter how creative you get. All that build up an effort and after both partners have climaxed, the getting wilder made no difference... The best is to rub your partners clit while thrusting and keep a set rhythm and pace with both the clit stimulating and thrusting. that way she is bound to come and so will you. From experience: When going down on a girl and she starts climaxing, don't speed up or go harder or change motion in an attempt to get her off, just keep doing what are doing... It is working is it not? Changing the action, speed or motion might ruin it...
Or am I wrong?
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Never been comfortable about talking about masturbating but here goes.
What I describe here may be different if you are circumcised but I found that stroking the bottom middle or head gives different sensations and can be alternated as long as you don't stop the motions. Also not stroking but just rubbing just your thumb and first finger in a pinching (Not to hard) motion over the foreskin over the head can cause climax. Just rubbing the Frenum (where the foreskin attaches to the back of the head) when well lubed can cause climax. Again this is sometimes lost during circumcision. Hope the ladies are taking note.
Nimfie does not lose her Mojo if there is a change in rhythm or a short break, so sometimes I'll withdraw and slap her clit a while with the back of my shaft and head and then go back inside. This causes her to make a big mess. I can also cum from this slapping action.
Another method is to go half stroke but move your hips slowly forward and backwards so the stimulation moves slowly in and out.
She also gets off if I withdraw and insert about 2 inches (50mm) continuously, as it stimulates the lips and G spot more.
When I go deep a constant rhythm works best for both of us. Of course this is all based on the "Boarding" Missionary style. When using constant deep stokes while lying on her, I love feeling all her mussels contract with each orgasm.
In other positions constant rhythm generally works best.
When licking her clit a constant action works best.
Lady Curious is more like you describe and a few time she has given me the WTF look when I change something at the wrong time.
So now I have to concentrate on my rhythm much more. Strange how you get use to someone over time and not realise it is not the norm.
Thumper, you are spot on, I like telling and asking the lady all kinds of sexy things while things are happening and then seeing how it gets there mind going while they tingle inside.
Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
Never been comfortable about talking about masturbating but here goes.
What I describe here may be different if you are circumcised but I found that stroking the bottom middle or head gives different sensations and can be alternated as long as you don't stop the motions. Also not stroking but just rubbing just your thumb and first finger in a pinching (Not to hard) motion over the foreskin over the head can cause climax. Just rubbing the Frenum (where the foreskin attaches to the back of the head) when well lubed can cause climax. Again this is sometimes lost during circumcision. Hope the ladies are taking note.
Nimfie does not lose her Mojo if there is a change in rhythm or a short break, so sometimes I'll withdraw and slap her clit a while with the back of my shaft and head and then go back inside. This causes her to make a big mess. I can also cum from this slapping action.
Another method is to go half stroke but move your hips slowly forward and backwards so the stimulation moves slowly in and out.
She also gets off if I withdraw and insert about 2 inches (50mm) continuously, as it stimulates the lips and G spot more.
When I go deep a constant rhythm works best for both of us. Of course this is all based on the "Boarding" Missionary style. When using constant deep stokes while lying on her, I love feeling all her mussels contract with each orgasm.
In other positions constant rhythm generally works best.
When licking her clit a constant action works best.
Lady Curious is more like you describe and a few time she has given me the WTF look when I change something at the wrong time.
So now I have to concentrate on my rhythm much more. Strange how you get use to someone over time and not realise it is not the norm.
Thumper, you are spot on, I like telling and asking the lady all kinds of sexy things while things are happening and then seeing how it gets there mind going while they tingle inside.
Erm... Now I need a shag!!!!!!
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I again find changing your strokes and rhythm prolongs and teases the heck out of someone...
So, I am all for that!!!!!
As for masturbation does OLD ladies like me still masturbate, SURE I do...and I am not ashamed in saying so!!!
Tell us more. .. . .please :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
About what SDMR??? the different teasing when active??? or the masturbation part????:jagsatwork:
Yes please . . . but more focus on Masturbation :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
Focus on the masturbation part HUH??
OOOkay...
I huff and I puff and I squeal and I roll around...and I climax.......:evil2::wave2::giggle::giveup::giveup::giveup::giveup:
prove it :rotflmao: 