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ash
Sexpert
Interacting with people from all corners of our country in an open and (and sometimes brutally ) honest manor has made me see things in a new exposed me to knew ideas and new ways of approaching example ,before SH I would never had thought I would be attracted to older ladies but since actually meeting and chatting to a few really sexy ,confident ladies who are more than ten years my senior things have changed.i have come to love their no non sense no bullshit anyone else had a similar experience?
Unknown User
It has definately allowed me to indulge in my guilty pleasure of talking about sex every day!
Unknown User
SH, allows me to remember all the *sexy glorious days* of yester year...
Vee1
Sexlightened
Yes it has. Got make lots of friends from all over. Love interacting and chatting about any topic. Very informative site. When I first came on to this site, I expected to just find a sex partner and carry on from there, but once I got used to the site and really started interacting, my whole purpose and perspective changed. I have not achieved my initial expectation on this site, but it is not of great concern to me. If it happens, it happens. What I appreciate is the friendship and love and respect from all. Glad to have friends and hope the same is felt about me.
mydream
Warming the Bed
Quote by LeeEC
It has definately allowed me to indulge in my guilty pleasure of talking about sex every day!

Lee, me too! its frustrating out there in the "normal" world to not being able to talk about sex and sexual matters openly.
So, SH is special in that sense and thank you for SH and you guys who work tirelessly to keep making the discussions interesting.
Voyer1105
Orgasminator
Came on this site to correspond with like minded people and view others kinks but actually found and met friends
voyeursa01
Forum Virgin
Getting on this site has allowed me like so many others here to talk about my sexual fantasies, share them and best of all meet like minded professional people like myself. Granted there are one or two weirdos that pop up now and then, but you even get them at the supermarket as well. i think the person that has benefited the most from me being sexually free here is my wife...lol... thanks guys and gals...awesome site..
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Quote by mydream
It has definately allowed me to indulge in my guilty pleasure of talking about sex every day!

Lee, me too! its frustrating out there in the "normal" world to not being able to talk about sex and sexual matters openly.
So, SH is special in that sense and thank you for SH and you guys who work tirelessly to keep making the discussions interesting.
Ditto!! Before finding SH I used to think I was "different" in thinking about sex so much, and particularly in wanting to watch. Now I have realised that there are a lot folks out there with similar interests - I am not alone! And being able to read and "talk" about these ideas on forum, and in PMs, provides the opportunity to explore ideas further, and see what else is happening out there in the world that I never realised existed locally (in RSA). My horizons have definitely been broadened!!
Thanks to ALL of you who have helped in the broadening! But to single out one in particular, LeeEC, we LOVE that you talk about sex every day! Thanks for all your contributions, and the sometimes fascinating insights!!
KC_
Master of Sex
I agree with redbruce, LeeEC and mydream. SH has provided a platform for me to read and "talk" about sex on a daily basis, with like-minded people. It has normalised my sexual thoughts and desires, as well as the fact that I think about sex as much as I do! Being able to interact on the forums with men and women who are just as horny, and sexually open-minded has been very liberating for me. ;) C
Vee1
Sexlightened
Don't forget PIB. Thanks for everything. You are a great friend and I consider you a valuable asset to our world on SH. I love you for all your contributions.
skinnyup
Warming the Bed
The site has allowed me to express the thrills i enjoy. I have met many open minded people who accept the fantasies I endulge, many are now very good friends. The change in my life is a confident acceptance of who I am, what I enjoy and an openess to enjoy these little fetishes.
Unknown User
I have definately also found people and friends who won't go *swallowing their tounges* when I talk about sex or our fantasies that Mr E and me have. For him it was an eye opener that I actually get turned on by the idea of waching him have sex with another lady....weird ya I know wink
Unknown User
I am just popping in to say a hearty Welcome to ,skinnyup, here in forums.....
Unknown User
Since I joined, I enjoy the vibe and the openness! Especially when I started participating on the Forum (and chat room - just trawling with the odd whisper!) - the platform that SH presents opened my mind (my eyes!) and I can actually relate to the idea to get more involved in the life style as a couple. The "looking for sex" atmosphere are less charged (but still important ;-) ) and are now highlighted by real people talking about real things!! Yummy! :twisted:
Unknown User
Before I joint SH i was curious and felt "bad" because i was highly sexual. Now I have met other people that are open minded and do not judge. Now i feel free and free to explore, and enjoy and just let go because I have met people who are similiar to me. wink Since im on the site i have learnt that its okay to orgasm lol. I know it sounds weird but I didnt before redface
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@ Sofistikitty You go girl !!!!! High time you have real orgasms , enjoy each and every time !!! @ Vee awe...thanks Hun....;-)