Have you ever stopped and thought about how many ways you've groomed your pubis over the course of your life? If not, I'm sure you are now.
Lucky for you, I've done it for you today. I was sitting in the office few night ago and I started thinking how badly I need to wax the growing Bush again and one thought lead to another until I was thinking about the progression and development of my bush. It went something like this:
1. There's a hair! It's there! I FINALLY got one!
2. A few misguided years of au natural. Ahhhh, high/high school where it was straight-up seventies bush in desperate need of a weed whacker. I don't know how any one ever found anything down there. It's no wonder guys are so lost when they're young.
3. Late teens. I've seen some porn to know that they look much cuter, not to mention are much more accessible and manageable if they're groomed. Now, how to do it? Scissors, no. Razor,Nair oh gosh burns, enh. Clippers. Yes, definitely clippers.
4. A dabbling in the landing strip. After I became sexually didn't take long for me to start fearing my girlie bits might start opening concentration camps and attempting genocide. I don't know how you can have a landing strip and not realize it's a Hitler stache, man.
5. Ahhh, the later 1980. Bikini waxes. Now, these were far superior to the razor burn and possible cuts that came with shaving. They lasted longer, the growth was softer. It was of course a hundred-fifty-thousand times more painful, and of course cost money and meant I had to get my cooch-spread on with a waxer. Lucky for me, I sometimes had extra money from savings, and was good friends with a beautician,in the lifestyle, so that gave us a chance to gossip and giggle… Yes, while I was spread-eagle with hot wax on my pussy. But, whatever. my first tumor,Waxing was the furtherest from my mind,but I needed trims. I Couldn't Reach It. I tried. The growth making me seem were too scary,after nicking myself, I cut the shit out of myself with some using a mirror balanced on the bedside table. I can't even think about it without wanting to cry. I couldn't reach it, I couldn't see it, I couldn't end wouldn`t do ANYTHING with it. And by anything I mean masturbate,or have sex. It just went completely unkempt for a few months. It sucked. I only managed to wash it with the aid of a very large sponge and LOTS of soap. my lover and Working nearly 24/7 I am lucky to find time to shower. She does not like clean shaven pussies,I have very little spare money and couldn't get away from work if I wanted. No waxer wants a bush to start of on, up in the snatch wax. Waxing is clearly out. There is NO WAY I can maintain fully-shaved, *see no-time-to-do-anything above*. I still think landing strips make my pink-n-lovely look anti-Semitic, so I've made the half-of-my-life-time circle back to the trusty clippers. Yes, it looked a little militant with the buzz cut, but I think it's more Army Barbie (If that's not a real thing they should do it. Barbie would look hot in a uniform;) than G.I. Jane.
Sometimes my *friends with benefits* perfered a landing strip, or as one once said, a he wanted a when I *dated* them, well the obvious was given.
Re-entered the lifestyle if only to chat,re-started waxing full time,Lucky for me, I now have *my sister* salon handy to call on when the damn bush is bushy enough to wax.....clean,soft and cuddly,but alas it only last for one week then it is back to G.I the next waxing appointment.
Sigh. The things I do, to avoid seventies bush.
I will in due time,give you a full account on what happened at the *sister salon* the very first time......
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Reading your account of how the bushlook has changed thru the years to clean cut looking lady parts made me think of a pic I once saw. It was a washing line with underwear, starting in the 1800 with those long pants things ladies used to wear and ending with a g-string for recent times. The heading: Proof of global warming. :-)
I have never had the guts for the wax, so hat off to all ladies who does manage it. I used to shave, till hubbi sugested the clippers as well. These days however it is his job to do the shaving for me...normally leading to some hot fun afterwards! 
Sexlightened
Well I love your comments and writing
I am a shaven body parts man.... but still a man, so if it gets served on a platter I will not say no...but if I MUST choose baby smooooooth gets me on!!!
Warming the Bed
Smooth and soft as a babies bum for me thank you...no bushy affairs!
I salute all our clean waxed ladies! i am your fan!
Sexpert
veet is my friend :lol:
:lol: I love the shaven or better waxed look, so sensual and very erotic to see the lips exposed, especially when it has been filled with sperm by a lover then I can suck the whole lot into me mouth
For myself I also used to shave but as I dont wear under rammies my balls sweats and causes a red rash on my thigh tops, especially in the winter
I have tried waxing, clippers and shaving.
Shaving
Shaving is great....but having sex when it starts to grow back hurts me! When the movement goes against the grain, sex in certain positions is not enjoyable. So when K_ and I started dating, and sex became very regular, I stopped shaving.
When we had our first threesome, the lady was clean shaven. Both K_ and I spent a fair amount of time licking her. The next morning, both of our tongues were sensitive from licking the slight stuble from her shave...
At one point, K_ also started shaving. Playing with clean shaven balls was great fun, but the spiky regrowth tickled me so much that sex became almost impossible!
Clippers
So after I decided to stop shaving, I had to prevent what PIB calls 70s bush! Waxing was a very scary idea. So i took out the clippers, and tried awkward positions to trim the bush. More than once, a lip got snipped. PAINFUL!!!
Waxing
I did a whole bunch of reading on how to make bikini waxing less painful. The most common advice I found was to trim before the wax, but not to close too the skin, else the wax does not work... So I trimmed, and went for my first bikini wax.
The application of the hot wax I found more painful than the pulling! My word! Once the hair had been removed, it felt amazing! Softer and smoother than *just shaved*. Also, the effects last much longer than shaving. The only issue with waxing, is that it has to grow out a bit before it can be repeated.
Another issue with waxing is that, it takes loads of courage to actually get it all waxed off at once. It took a few years of "lets take a little bit more off" to get to a point where my body is now accustomed to the pain of the hot wax closer to the lips...
For years, K_ has said that one day I can get him waxed, but finding a beautician who is comfortable working on men's genital areas has been a challenge. (The ones I have found have quoted nearly 4 times what my beautician charges!!)
Another issue with this is, I KNOW HOW MUCH IT HURTS, and I have difficulty putting him into a situation where I know how painful the first wax is!
C_
Shaving
Shaving is great....but having sex when it starts to grow back hurts me! When the movement goes against the grain, sex in certain positions is not enjoyable. So when K_ and I started dating, and sex became very regular, I stopped shaving.
When we had our first threesome, the lady was clean shaven. Both K_ and I spent a fair amount of time licking her. The next morning, both of our tongues were sensitive from licking the slight stuble from her shave...
At one point, K_ also started shaving. Playing with clean shaven balls was great fun, but the spiky regrowth tickled me so much that sex became almost impossible!
Clippers
So after I decided to stop shaving, I had to prevent what PIB calls 70s bush! Waxing was a very scary idea. So i took out the clippers, and tried awkward positions to trim the bush. More than once, a lip got snipped. PAINFUL!!!
Waxing
I did a whole bunch of reading on how to make bikini waxing less painful. The most common advice I found was to trim before the wax, but not to close too the skin, else the wax does not work... So I trimmed, and went for my first bikini wax.
The application of the hot wax I found more painful than the pulling! My word! Once the hair had been removed, it felt amazing! Softer and smoother than *just shaved*. Also, the effects last much longer than shaving. The only issue with waxing, is that it has to grow out a bit before it can be repeated.
Another issue with waxing is that, it takes loads of courage to actually get it all waxed off at once. It took a few years of "lets take a little bit more off" to get to a point where my body is now accustomed to the pain of the hot wax closer to the lips...
For years, K_ has said that one day I can get him waxed, but finding a beautician who is comfortable working on men's genital areas has been a challenge. (The ones I have found have quoted nearly 4 times what my beautician charges!!)
Another issue with this is, I KNOW HOW MUCH IT HURTS, and I have difficulty putting him into a situation where I know how painful the first wax is!
C_
Theres nothing worse than going down and then trying to tongue wrestle a pube outta my mouth before i go for a kiss. Lol all this while trying to look sexy and not offend. I HATE FLOSSING during sex!
Anyway coming back the hygiene thing, hairs there to catch perspiration. So figure that out...
Trimming's good to easier to maintain, we dont live in the 60's or 70's where u only trimmed the outsides of ur bikini area so ppl dont see ur pubes peeking out of the swim suit. I think its hotter to be shaved or trimmed plus guys ur member looks more attractive(heard some guys say it makes it look bigger too cos no cushioning).
P.S- if u dont wanna itch use vaseline or baby powder rite after u shave and shave with the grain not against. Also just after u shave massage skin cos it helps avoid sore regrowth
my 2
KC_
Your hubby may try what most men use...*Veet*
Waxing is difficult for men and most can not handle the pain.
BUT if he is not eager to have a waxing..... well send him to me I will STRAIGHT Razor, shave himJust teasing ,just teasing....
I am an old waxer and have to wax inside the soft areas of the labia majora and on the anal area, If I could use Veet and it would work for me I would(but it burns)
Where my armpits and leg hair are not growing back excessively, due to the waxing,my private area seems to say *bull sherbet* with this and grows back two hairs in stead of diminishing...so what,I am asking , am I to do?????
I give the blame to *old Age* as I am also nowadays sporting a mustache , excessive nose hair , and ear hair....and lo and behold some chin hair!!!!!
Anyone who has advice on that....PLEASE do give.
Just teasing ,just teasing....
I am an old waxer and have to wax inside the soft areas of the labia majora and on the anal area, If I could use Veet and it would work for me I would(but it burns)
Where my armpits and leg hair are not growing back excessively, due to the waxing,my private area seems to say *bull sherbet* with this and grows back two hairs in stead of diminishing...so what,I am asking , am I to do?????
I give the blame to *old Age* as I am also nowadays sporting a mustache , excessive nose hair , and ear hair....and lo and behold some chin hair!!!!!
Anyone who has advice on that....PLEASE do give. Quote by KC_
I have tried waxing, clippers and shaving.......... I KNOW HOW MUCH IT HURTS, and I have difficulty putting him into a situation where I know how painful the first wax is!
C_
It's about 2 years since I started shaving just around my balls and sort of shaped the upper hair (not a landing strip but rather moustachy! LOL!). My wife never liked it (although she always had a landing strip that just happened because of swimming etc.) until she felt the softness and during lovemaking it become a regular touching/playing area and I (off course!
) couldn't wait for those moments! Two months ago she followed suit and gave me a clean pussy which I ate immediately to her astonishment. Now she mentioned and bounced the idea of her willingness to wax ..... and I must do it!So I'm studying the finer art of 'sensitive area waxing' and what better place to get that knowledge here on SH!!
Thx to all the ladies for sharing their experiences and I'm even preparing myself mentally NOT TO REPEAT the experience PIB had with her ever so sensitive minor labia in her post about "Pussy pimping" (I feel for you, PIB!)
So, if you have more info / advise / suggestions / tips, etc. to help me with my first wax - I will awfully appreciate it!!
Gerrie, Please do share your story once you have tried waxing!
PIB, I am scared of Veet. Mainly because of the reviews I have found for Veet for Men here: As a teenager I once used Veet on my legs. The smell really turned me off using it ever again!
The way in which Veet and other hair removal creams work, is by using a chemical mixture which *dissolves* the hair. The idea of putting those chemicals anywhere my sensitive lips makes me cringe with fear!
C
Quote by KC_
Gerrie, Please do share your story once you have tried waxing!
C
Girls, I really enjoyed it - used about all the tips I got from you - and off course my lady (a very talented coach on the side of the field with many "I told you so's") was directing every move. The hair length was just right and everything right up the normal borders of the 'bikini wax' went well! My experience of the exercise was a really good hard on
The next 2 wax strips wasn't good and she let go with a scream (she did control it, but I knew it wasn't going well) as it was next the lips! :embarrased:
I immediately stopped and we decided to also do it in 'small steps' as some of you suggested. I did get the appointment to do it again next time - that must be my skillful hands!! :twisted:
Thanks to all the coaches
I Know of a few men who use Veet,and they are very happy with it!! and they are clean from their buttocks to the navel ;-)
I think Veet is easier for men to use as they can keep their *head* away from the Veet than us ladies who is rather sensitive in dark little nooks and crannies.
But if you test sensitive you are sensitive. Then shaving or waxing is the way to go..;-)
@ Gerrie,
I sometimes like order my subs to NOT shave or Veet.
So when they come around to play kinky games with me,I either use wax and the type of wax depends on how severe I want to play with them.
Water based wax is soft and easy and I can stop at any old time when they shout their safe word.
The waxy wax that hardens, weellllllll , that I NEED and Have to remove even if the safe words were given....then it is shut up and bite down,the hair is coming out.
OR a straight Razor to shave them ;-)
NOW anyone ever had a straight razor near your testicles?? he he he....evil grin.
the slipping of the oh so very sharp blade can happen so fast... and I have me evil old little ways to make them believe I did In fact CUT them...(even thought I did NOT)and never will.
and I have me evil old little ways to make them believe I did In fact CUT them...(even thought I did NOT)and never will. Last night K_ decided to Veet his balls and crack
Within 8 minutes he said the cream started to itch, and we removed it. (We were going on Just_a_lover's 13 minute mark ;) )
He wiped it all away and rinsed as soon as the itch started.
I was looking forward to playing with hairless balls - but sadly he was all red and tender and didn't want any tongue action 
Hopefully by tonight, the tenderness will have subsided, and I get to play...
We did do a sensitivity test on his scrotum, and the test was fine! The skin closer to his thighs and under his balls is where he is now tender....
Looks great though ;)
C
Within 8 minutes he said the cream started to itch, and we removed it. (We were going on Just_a_lover's 13 minute mark ;) )
He wiped it all away and rinsed as soon as the itch started.
I was looking forward to playing with hairless balls - but sadly he was all red and tender and didn't want any tongue action
Hopefully by tonight, the tenderness will have subsided, and I get to play...
We did do a sensitivity test on his scrotum, and the test was fine! The skin closer to his thighs and under his balls is where he is now tender....
Looks great though ;)
C K_C.
Seems, K_ is one gent who is overly sensitive to lucky the hair is all gone.
I found that after a waxing episode, just putting a COLD facecloth on the very painful red areas help nearly immediately with the burning sensations , and then I usually rub in a nice vitamin E cream.
and I am ready to play.
Hope you get to enjoy that hairless Joystick tonight.
