Woman do not need sites like this or any other to get "good" regular sex . . . . . once the male of the species can come to terms and deal with this fact, they will probably find themselves getting "lucky' way more often, but instead our little insecure ego's make us brand ladies as sluts etc . . . . Guy's, if there were not woman who wanted occasional random sex partners you would have to get married or buy very big tubs of Vaseline, so grow up already they are doing exactly what you are wanting them to do . . . .
Well it seems last night (or rather this morning) got quite exciting. Good words though longjohn.
However for some strange reason my profile got like 200 views last night as opposed to my normal one or two views a week, I wonder how that happened.
Mike...
Told you, I read here that you have a good profile and even I went to perv it!!!
No wonder you got such a lot of views of your profile.
There are way more readers than contributors in the Forums even from the Unicorns.
Lee has it wrong, there are way more than me here, If you think of Kawaicouple who was both singles and hooked up here in SH to become a lady herself was an active participant as a single and is also now active as a part of a couple.
There was way more in the past as well,but if things get a little off balance sometimes, we Forumbunnies sometimes prefer staying quiet.
As to anyone reading the Forums
Take note guys here in the Forums is the best way we *single* ladies read and decide whom to make contact with and who to ignore or send/blow off with a polite little note.
I PERSONALLY know a few single ladies who does read here, be assured of that.
Way to go guys!!!!!!
Pib I knew some ladies who been active in the forum as you said but they rather not active anymore of reasons we all knew, and the same happened in the pool a lot off active single women but also a lot that disappear also for reasons we all knew.
As they said in the pool this morning perhaps a paid up site will help, but a few had there doubts because on other paid up site you also had people with no manners at all.
By that I not said I did not except the apology of longjohn89, he for one try to clear the air.
I'd just like to butt in here, when I was single and looking ,couples and men that approached me also had no manners - came across like I would be a sex prop or a masturbation aid. Anyway, that's why I just stopped looking and replying clearly some people don't know how or what real swingers are. Glad I'm part of a couple now if we don't hook up with anyone I still get to have amazing sex so I still win haha. And Longjohn ur apology seems sincere but that rant came from somewhere I still am wary.
Couples play with couples and singles, live ups to your profile and be a decent guy and yoy will get referred around, if you want it that is
Hey Longjohn69....wtf dude....you have just made the worst mistake any male could make on this earth....You apologized....NEVER EVER FOR EVER AND EVER apologize, nature will unapologetically rule you out of existence. What is now is going to happen is that these woman(unicorns) is going to see you as the vanilla nice guy,and is just going to do what they want to with you....But I have hope for you.A second chance...Come back with a new profile and just tick all the nice and straight stuff and in the description box you describe yourself as a guy who loves daisy' unicorns are all looking for sensitive can even proof to them how sensitive you are by inviting them to come along to any funeral and show them how load you can will slowly be lured by your sensitive you make the choice of the one's who you like the most.....You give them all individual compliments .Say you give them 2 to 3 compliments above the shoulders make them feel good....and BANG !!!...BANG !!!...You insult them....You flip the power tables and let them know you here to play.
I also acknowledge those who took offense on my word uses.I know words can become I had no such insidious Bacardi and folding arms was just a metaphor for a bully.I dont like if I have to be given a black eye by you LeeEC,I will turn and give you the other eye than everybody knows I have been warned twice....LeeEC.....look at my fingers...not the thumb,not the index finger,not the pinky,neither the ring finger...
I am also going to erase the word Slutwife from my vocabulary and replace it with Hotwife (same meaning diffrent version).But a cuckold stays a (Joan of Arch) I am giving you props for your explanatory and persuasive skills you must be a conscientious can hold court and a good research itch was woken up and I went to Google the words cuckold and swinger.I found that one of our local kings King Mswati III was cuckolded by his wife...eish !!!...I ended up in England ,in the 1440's during the War of the Roses there was another king I was taken to the Vatican and there they had a huge orgy/swinging party at the Banquet of the then in turn lead me to the conclusion that cuckoldry is a royal act and swinging is for the humble and poor.
And you the hating dude....And get out of that fish might suffer a cardiac arrest and drop dead....then we all throw a party after that.
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Cuckoo, cuckoo: O, word of fear,
Unpleasing to a married ear! __William Shakespeare
It seems in my senseless rant I have created a topic in which everyone has found a valid reason to "rant and rave" about something lol, but Andre' 3000 as far as my apology goes it is NOT to show any form of weakness. It is purely to show that I was in the wrong in what I said and all comment made about it were right, yes every one has there right to an opinion. But what I said was wrong of me to say in the sense that this is not a "slut pick up site" but a community of people that enjoy the nawty side of life, and as such this site was created to express that and meet other couples and individuals who feel the same way.
My apology was made for those I offended and rightly so they deserve it. I was at fault with my post hens I corrected my mistake. It was to say that I am not a rude piggish douche who feels he is gods gift to woman, if anything I'm from it. I am here to explore and have fun. I am in no way "vanilla". It take a man to apologize for his mistakes and wrong doings, a coward on the other hand wouldn't take the time to correct it, instead would run and start again some were else or delete and make a new one. This is in no way a stab u Andre' but a statement to say who I am and what I will do to fix a mistake, I take my lashes I don't run.
dude"s I know to say what is on your mind is one thing but to make it a personal attack is NOT RIGHT. I mean there is a reason you are single. Not everyone likes a person that is trying to pull a domenatric stunt.
Joyrider
Learned to watch what i say
No F---- that you Single men think just like the single ladies. the single ladies are very picky in what they want which is there right. As they want to feel safe when meeting a cpl or a single guy. But you F---- idiots that join the site that think you are Gods gift or women and cpls. Have got the whole story wrong. It is 9 times out of 10 you guys that have SMALL DICKS and don't really know how to treat please a lady and then you try and compensate for it on another way, by being a really asshole. It is 9 times out of 10 you guys that give the act of having fun a bad name as you are the ones that cause shit in between the married cpl's and cause the unicorns to run like hell. If you are that hard up and really want sex, then just go to an escort agency where you pay to have sex. Then you can be that asshole as you are. As you are paying for it. Please Assholes grow up or go to an escort agency.
Joyrider
Oops I did it again
There are some real wankers on ill give u that joy, but I hope I'm not being thrown in the amoungst them just because I'm a single male?
Does anyone have any idea as to what on earth is actually going on in this thread? :small-print:
Wow,
So I will throw my 12 cents in (yes, twelve cents) . . . . .
If you are the type of person who is very easily offended, then maybe you should re-consider being on a public website, because sunshine people are rude, and even if they are not rude as such, people are over sensitive and more often than not interpret others as being rude. So it is actually just a viscous circle.
If you NEED to be treated a certain way without exceptions when it comes to Sex, then get married and try brainwash your spouse into doing things exactly the way you want them done (good luck with that)
Just like you have your wants and desires, so do other people and guess what? they ARE going to clash from time to time, so when they do, find a way around them and stop bloody moaning.
When the hell are people in South Africa going to stop being so bloody sensitive. (note: I did not say South Africans)
G T F U
By the behaviour of people on this forum it is always easy for me to tell the true caliber of people's characters. Longjohn your response with apology has impressed me... but your response to Andre3000 makes me want to buy you a drink. ... Please accept my friendship. You have well and truly proved yourself a decent and respectable human being, and a man with brass balls. .. coz this forum place is a rough town to ride into. .. and coming back and even responding was brave and commendable.
I look forward to more discussions with you.
Okay so far I see one guy on this topic that NOT getting any lol
Hi LJ your profile is better and I will keep an open mind when it comes to you ...stil wary
Hi there masters of swinging, im glad i read your forums. I am a newbie and i am looking for someone who can take me under her wing and guide me and nurture me on the rights and wrongs of swinging.
Im swinging alone, i would like to do it right and i want to do it for a long period of time.
Can anybody please guide me.
tx
LJ, just for the record: your post did not offend us in the least - we love a good subject to debate on! In light of the aforementioned: thanks for giving us exactly that. :twisted:
Sorry you did not get the reaction you were wishing for...
Hugz
Mrs Cat
xoxo
Well done LongJohn
You have come through the 'Baptism of Fire'
Us single males (and dogs) have to endure the harshest of abuse on this site, believe me.
Now chill and enjoy.
Hi, playcouple he is not,
He still sent me a private mail and just as I sent his answer the notification came he is GONE...
Who knows, maybe he will be back.
The primary reason, I believe, is because of the sad situation where a combination of factors (few being brave enough to venture into meeting strange men without back up, for sex, which could easily result in a , combined with the arrogant abusive and take-what-I- want type tone and content of messages they receive from ill mannered arseholes who think that because they are here they aren't entitled to some kind of standards and boundaries, and the social stigma that WE as a society have labled women who want and desire good regular sex, as sluts - underlined by the guys here who keep treating them as such, Nice and then we want to know what's wrong with them) - this all makes women who are enabled and confident enough to venture here in the first place bluddy rare. Then those who do, have to put up with attitude, rudeness and downright abuse. . .. and to top it, they have been handicappedin communication with no body language, facial expressions or nuances (so important to a woman's communication style) to help them figure out whether they can handle this kind of interaction. We have set people up for failure really. .. 
You have mail 
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