Fucking versus love making

Whatever happened to good old fashioned intense love making??Everyone seems to want to fuck!!! Am I alone in yearning for more love making less fucking? 

Don't think you will find that here......... 

Love making is something swingers reserve for their partners. If a swinging couple swap or invite an extra, then it's sex purely for pleasure. As swingers (ie a couple) it is important to know the difference and keep the two separate. 

Huggs and sloppy wet kisses 

Sam 

Exactly, fuck for fun and lovemaking are two different concepts although after a good fuck its nice to cuddle a bit. 

Swinger couples are looking for variety not new partners. 

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Don't think you will find that here......... 


Love making is something swingers reserve for their partners. If a swinging couple swap or invite an extra, then it's sex purely for pleasure. As swingers (ie a couple) it is important to know the difference and keep the two separate. 


Huggs and sloppy wet kisses 
Sam 

 Wise words. There is definitely a line to be drawn. Thanks gor the insight. 

i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

Funny enough no. 

Swingers are in stable relationships and this lifestyle is just an add on to what they have. Although you do "connect" with partners it's never at that level. 

However those "playing" swinger or unstable couples do fall for others. And thinking this would save a strained relationship.... Usually just ends it completely 

Being part of a cpl earlier before cancer took her, I can say that as a swinger cpl we made love to each other, but when playing with a cpl or a single lady it was plain old sex for fun.  Now a a single gent I have sex with a cpl and it is not making love. It is about pleasure hers, mine and his no love from my side, except to see the orgasmic bliss on my partner

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i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

 I think what Jimmy means is intense or passionate sex. I also prefer that. I hate being "fucked" it's not enjoyable and you don't have to be in love to have intense sex. For me it's about sexual chemistry. Some have it done don't. So I don't call it love making. 

Soofistikitty, i think I know now what you are saying. 

I had that experience today. Myself and a lady,  both with consenting partners, had pasionate and intense sex for 3hrs with almost no break. She had so many orgasms I lost count. I never thought it was possible, but it happened. The sexual chemistry was incredible. 

Jimmychoo, my eyes were opened today. I would rather take the time to make a connection than jump in and just fuck for fun. 

This experience was so much better!! 

I think the trick is in the wording. Lovemaking is what I do with my wife. Fucking is generally something we do when we are in the mood or alternatively with someone else. I think passionate sex is a better word for what you are describing. That can be had with anyone you connect with. 

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i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

 I think what Jimmy means is intense or passionate sex. I also prefer that. I hate being "fucked" it's not enjoyable and you don't have to be in love to have intense sex. For me it's about sexual chemistry. Some have it done don't. So I don't call it love making. 

Making love is overrated. Sorry but it is, yes it grand and lovely to connect blah blah fishpaste but it can’t compare to a good hard fucking session. Had a ex lover tell me recently I made him feel like a piece of meat. Was unintentional but when the sex is that good who fucking cares what cut of meat it is.

I’ll take a good hard fuck over making love any day. 🥵

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Making love is overrated. Sorry but it is, yes it grand and lovely to connect blah blah fishpaste but it can’t compare to a good hard fucking session. Had a ex lover tell me recently I made him feel like a piece of meat. Was unintentional but when the sex is that good who fucking cares what cut of meat it is.

I’ll take a good hard fuck over making love any day. 🥵

I have to disagree if you have that emotional and physical connection with your partner a love making session can be very intense and can also involve fucking

A love making session does not always have to be slow it can be a hard fuck but still love making with all the passion

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I have to disagree if you have that emotional and physical connection with your partner a love making session can be very intense and can also involve fucking

A love making session does not always have to be slow it can be a hard fuck but still love making with all the passion

It’s been awhile 😅 I may have forgotten the difference.

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It’s been awhile 😅 I may have forgotten the difference.

We would love to remind you 😜