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Female led Relationship support group

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Would like to find out if a support group for female led relatonships exist in SA, or for that matter, are there other couples who participate in this? Would love to hear from you.
sorry to sound stupid but what is a female led relatonship
Out of curiosity, does your female led relationship centre on sexual activities alone or does it cross over into every aspect of your life? Is the lady essentially a lifestyle dominatrix and the husband a full time sub? If so, sounds fascinating... Why not start your own group? Starting with members from this site who fit the bill - your relationship is unlikely to be unique.
@ joyrider Just to give a little back ground incase a few people did or might not understand what was asked here by cupidcouple. A female led relationship might sound does however happen in the BDSM community, (some call it Total Power Exchange or TPE) it can be a Female or Male led relationship. I know about some amazing couples who live TPE and it works perfectly (for them). What it means is that the gent comes home from work where he might have a HIGH ranking position or even own his own company and makes decisions all day long, coming home, he now takes a submissive role and his wife makes all the decisions. In plain words, the lady makes ALL the decisions without the gent having a say! Even on things like what car to buy or were to go for holidays, some even go as far as to decide what the gent are to wear for the day, and when he is allowed to have orgasms. Just to name a few. Some couples live it openly, some privately. They live their daily lives 24/7 with this power exchange. For me personally, I don't want that. I Never did. I prefer what is often called a *bedroom* submissive,or most kinky people do. This however does not mean that sex is literally restricted to the bedroom...it just means the POWER exchange happens during sexual play, not 24/7. And in my case, there ARE no sexual intercourse allowed in my kinky play!!! Most couples ( who is NOT into kink ) have a 50-50 power exchange in their relationship,both the gent and lady gets a say in what is good for their family and what is not acceptable. As for what cupidcouple is Asking...... if there is ANY SUPPORT groups for ladies in this situation...To my own knowledge, NO never heard of a support group for this. BUT I might say you might want to talk to your friends in the kinky world especially the Domme`s you know and ask advice if the need is there.