Well as it says on the tin..........
SDMR :
I always respected posts that SDMR has made - I know it appears periodically we get into a debacle but isn't that what a Forum is for ? but he appears a great guy
Adonis
Contraversail but in a nice way
LeeEC
Impartial like the rest of the Admin Crew on here.
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Orgasminator
Controversial yes and thanks that people see it in that way, but unfortunate some people see it in another way because they have a degree to criticize.
Yes and my decision is the same as many before me, i will not delete my profile as people would like, but that is my last input to the forum, till some people recognize the forum are a place to play the ball and not the man.
Thanks to the people who mail me in the past and give me credit for my partnership, but its time to say goodby for the moment, I had enough.
:swingingchair::swingingchair::swingingchair::swingingchair::swingingchair::swingingchair::swingingchair:
Warming the Bed
I'm still here - like me or lump me I shall still continue to post complete and utter bollocks and annoy the heck out of certain people 
I do feel my days may be numbered though - I have had mail from a member who seems to be incensed by the fact i'm not based in SA and to quote their words "you shouldn't be here" - i found it quite amusing as their profiles states they are on the UK site under another nick!!!
Does my presence here on the SA site offend anyone else coz if it does then TUFF - im going nowhere 
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I do feel my days may be numbered though - I have had mail from a member who seems to be incensed by the fact i'm not based in SA and to quote their words "you shouldn't be here" - i found it quite amusing as their profiles states they are on the UK site under another nick!!!
Does my presence here on the SA site offend anyone else coz if it does then TUFF - im going nowhere
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: You are more than welcome here.
I hope you enjoy your visits.
I suspect the issue here is not actually the thing people are discussing: issues of regular drama, complaint or distress are usually easily solved with some site features.
For example:
If the search page allowed you to filter matches by marital status and by ethic group or by "interracial accepted" then no one would be bitching about stuff in any of those categories.
If the site allowed you to block communication or to 'ignore' profiles by those same fields, no one would be bitching about a lot of this stuff.
If the forum feed or the chatroom pool allowed you to 'ignore' certain members - you would simply never see their posts unless someone quoted them. Yet again, no whining.
If the forum allowed you to have 'child threads' in discussions. No more bitching about off topic posts...
It's all in the little things really
Orgasminator
I say fuck em. I don't tell people I'm here because I know someone will have same stupid reason to get me to quit, if someone here is gonna start making rules about who can and can't take part then I'd rather they leave. Face it if you are mature enough to be a real swinger then you should be mature enough to let people be themselves.
Can't be part of an adult lifestyle and crying like a baby
Quote by LeeEC
Oh yes! Good idea!
I miss NawtyCat! Where are you guys?
And where are my friends KC_, Funwithcouples, Ash, georgeous.... You've been gone so long. .. I miss you.
I still pop in from time to time, but more often then not I have nothing to add to the conversation....
I continue to enjoy everyone else's conversations as a lurker, just watching.
;)
C
Warming the Bed
Quote by Irish
Oh Lord.
I forgot Katnis - great to see you here and adding to the forum. xxx
thanks Irish
now when are you heading over for a bit of nookiestuff - i'm bored and increasingly horny for a glimpse of you in those budgie smugglers :bounce:
Warming the Bed
Quote by LeeEC
You are more than welcome here.
I hope you enjoy your visits.
I suspect the issue here is not actually the thing people are discussing: issues of regular drama, complaint or distress are usually easily solved with some site features.
For example:
If the search page allowed you to filter matches by marital status and by ethic group or by "interracial accepted" then no one would be bitching about stuff in any of those categories.
If the site allowed you to block communication or to 'ignore' profiles by those same fields, no one would be bitching about a lot of this stuff.
If the forum feed or the chatroom pool allowed you to 'ignore' certain members - you would simply never see their posts unless someone quoted them. Yet again, no whining.
If the forum allowed you to have 'child threads' in discussions. No more bitching about off topic posts...
It's all in the little things really
We have the new block function on the UK site which has proved very successful - basically if you choose to ignore mail, or block in chat it stops that blocked member from viewing your profile and hassling you. cuts down on the stalker element too which is a particular issue for us single females
I think it might be a bit too technical to block forum posters or people from viewing your cam in chat but time will tell - I have had an apology from the member who had a gripe - for which I am grateful!!!!!
Orgasminator
Quote by katniss
I think it might be a bit too technical to block forum posters or people from viewing your cam in chat but time will tell - I have had an apology from the member who had a gripe - for which I am grateful!!!!!
I doubt, on most forums you can hide the messages from certain members so i don't see why it couldn't work here.
Glad to hear you got an apology.
:lol: Warming the Bed
i got stood up for a lunchtime meet - but on a positive note i was working at Gatwick and i put an extra couple of hours in - all going towards the twins birthday festivities in november 
Possible meet tomorrow but im not holding my breath
Possible meet tomorrow but im not holding my breath So apparently we're really bad at this swinging thing.... or maybe it's just the threesome thing.
I have had 6 fails at setting up a playdate this weekend!
Seriously? Why do we live so far a friggin way from everyone???!
This is so frustrating.
Matt's birthday surprise was a bust (another 3 fails) - and it's been more than a month since his bday and still no dice!
It's like there's a secret celibacy plot... everyone's so busy they don't have time for a shag!
WTF?!
Maybe the problem is our old and sad pictures.... I realised today that they are REALLY old... not that we look much different... probably why I hadn't noticed til now... but maybe it's time for new bait...
So how to get the man to agree...... 
I have had 6 fails at setting up a playdate this weekend!
Seriously? Why do we live so far a friggin way from everyone???!
This is so frustrating.
Matt's birthday surprise was a bust (another 3 fails) - and it's been more than a month since his bday and still no dice!
It's like there's a secret celibacy plot... everyone's so busy they don't have time for a shag!
WTF?!
Maybe the problem is our old and sad pictures.... I realised today that they are REALLY old... not that we look much different... probably why I hadn't noticed til now... but maybe it's time for new bait...
So how to get the man to agree...... Orgasminator
Wow, that really sucks. Still I'm sure taking some new photos can be fun if you play around during the photo shoot. Maybe things will pick up in summer.
It's also been quiet on my side lately, I've had one successful meet in the last 6 months. Last night I went to a very fun meet and greet night so I'll keep my fingers crossed I get some contact once the profiles are sent out.
Quote by LeeEC
So apparently we're really bad at this swinging thing.... or maybe it's just the threesome thing.
I have had 6 fails at setting up a playdate this weekend!
Seriously? Why do we live so far a friggin way from everyone???!
This is so frustrating.
Matt's birthday surprise was a bust (another 3 fails) - and it's been more than a month since his bday and still no dice!
It's like there's a secret celibacy plot... everyone's so busy they don't have time for a shag!
WTF?!
Maybe the problem is our old and sad pictures.... I realised today that they are REALLY old... not that we look much different... probably why I hadn't noticed til now... but maybe it's time for new bait...
So how to get the man to agree......
Lee, as long as you have your sexy underwear on in your new photos
