So im a big chick and ive never had a problem getting with a guy lol or girl. Been told i ooze sex appeal. I am highly sexual and im not a person that lays still i like stretching,moving,rocking,flexing etc. Anyway i have come across guys that like dont know what to do or how to handle me because im big(smaller than Noleen on 3talk). Then again Ive had amazing encounters with others as well that knew exactly what they where doing.
Is it really that difficult/awkward/different to be with a big woman? If it is whats the difference i mean if u had to compare?
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I dont know how big you are but i have had a larger lady and i was fine with her. all the bits are in the same place just some are larger than others and that makes it different and thats why we here is for something different al lthe time. enjoy and dont give a shit who says what to you.
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I enjoy having sex with both bigger and skinny woman, never had a problem
Big women/men are gorgeous in my eyes.
If you are confident and you have *OOOOOMMMP*(sex-appeal) you have it all 
I found that having sex with a thin person,versus a larger person, nothing is different, one should just remember a larger lady/gent cannot do some positions,but there are hundreds of ways to have sex so why worry about one or two positions you cannot manage? YEP , I did make love to both types of shapes and everything in between.
ON the so called *beautiful*people...they are mostly lazy lovers,I have found over the years,they think they can JUST lie back and enjoy the attention,as *they* deserve it cause they are soooooooo sexy!! and *you* should be ever so grateful for them to allow you to have sex with them...sheesh, poor sods.
I always tell people who ask me whom and what I look for when I go out...I prowl the corners of a party,there where the LARGE and *lonely* people are sitting watching everything around them, cause let me tell you guys ,it is there that you going to get the friendliest sexiest people/person ever.I can surely guarantee you will also have a whale of time with them.
Give me the heavy people,give me the geeks,give me those that other people overlook.
Sofistikitty you rock....High five to you!!!Enjoy yourself and your life.
I found that having sex with a thin person,versus a larger person, nothing is different, one should just remember a larger lady/gent cannot do some positions,but there are hundreds of ways to have sex so why worry about one or two positions you cannot manage? YEP , I did make love to both types of shapes and everything in between.
ON the so called *beautiful*people...they are mostly lazy lovers,I have found over the years,they think they can JUST lie back and enjoy the attention,as *they* deserve it cause they are soooooooo sexy!! and *you* should be ever so grateful for them to allow you to have sex with them...sheesh, poor sods.
I always tell people who ask me whom and what I look for when I go out...I prowl the corners of a party,there where the LARGE and *lonely* people are sitting watching everything around them, cause let me tell you guys ,it is there that you going to get the friendliest sexiest people/person ever.I can surely guarantee you will also have a whale of time with them.
Give me the heavy people,give me the geeks,give me those that other people overlook.
Sofistikitty you rock....High five to you!!!Enjoy yourself and your life. Lol thanks PIB and guys mwah. Anyway its like i always get asked "so how big are u?" im not all that conscious i enjoy myself and figure no ones perfect, but seems that question gets asked alot.
Had an incident where guy says "i need help here how do i do this" lol i was like what?? So i left. I like being adorned and if u dont know how to handle this then leave it rather. I want to enjoy myself not worry and feel conscious and uncomfy. I like being wanted not tried.
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when I go out...I prowl the corners of a party
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I may be rude here, slap me if i am?
I also like big ladies, there's a whole lot of love to give, always. The only downside to bigger girls, is the self image attachments ... for both the ladies and every other guy out there.
It is a very powerful force acting on both men and women around us, the bigger ladies believe they're not good enough and the guys believe they shouldn't be with big girls. Personal preferences aside, we're all surrounded by these messages, and they do bend our thinking that way. We just need to recognise them for what they are.
This is a cultural bias which hurts a lot of people, and it's a non issue. Completely doesn't matter at all, frankly there are much more important and fun qualities to be investigated, both sides.
Slapping time is now open.
Who would dare slap you BikerBoy??
You only saying it as it is.
We large ladies are made to feel un-sexy, and most of us have issues around our yeah we have many a baggage to carry around,all due to society,and the way they portray paper thin models as the norm.
It takes a lot of work and a lot of courage to overcome issues on how you *look*
Any woman who is big and love herself and allow people to see how awesome she is,will always have my vote on her being this case it is Sofistikitty.
Men are made to feel they are somehow inadequate not able to *date* a barbie doll when they in actual fact like large ladies,and there is plenty of these men out there.
So NO slaps allowed!!!
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........ is the self image attachments ... for both the ladies and every other guy out there........
Well put! I agree! We all have to go through the same issues - some obviously more than other. But we need to develop the same skills set to keep this feelings ("self image attachments", etc.) at bay all the time!
Isn't that why humans need to sexually play more? (from whatever "space" you are coming from) Acceptance / conquering lies in the act?
@PIB "So NO slaps allowed!!!"
Agree! thank you for that. Now I can hide behind it to duck a few slaps myself!
okay the question the was asked and it was answered. now the next question is......
do women like the thin man that looks like a "earth worm with a hand break" or the men that always answers "a big nail needs a big hammer"
okay there is 2 question. 
the 2 question is is the one where the men always talk about the big nail true?
now came on ladies dont say size dose not matter. we have had an in counter were the husband was smaller than me. and after the get together the man got hold of us complaining his wife does not want him to touch her. i told him they must sort out their problem before we ever meet again.
the 2 question is is the one where the men always talk about the big nail true?
now came on ladies dont say size dose not matter. we have had an in counter were the husband was smaller than me. and after the get together the man got hold of us complaining his wife does not want him to touch her. i told him they must sort out their problem before we ever meet again. Hi all.
I personally do not like to go for the skinny types. Bones can hurt you.
I love women in all shapes and sizes, except skinny. That may be a health issue that they are dealing with.
As far as supper models are concerned, show me one that is beautiful and drug free? They are forced to put their bodies under pressure due to the fashion world protraying that their dress designs are better shown on skinny ladies. Many years ago, models were never so skinny. They had good figures. What happened?
Besides that and coming back to everyday people, have you seen some of the derogitory remaks on some of the profiles such as "no fatties", etc? We know its their preference, but you don't have to be a idiot about it.
Another thing: what about a thin guy? Many women look for a thin guy, but do not realise the pleasure that you can get from a "fuller" guy.
I am not the athletic type, have a few pounds extra, but am able to enjoy a good sexual relationship with women.
One of the porn stars to date, is quite popular and he is not thin. Yet he is famous all over the world.
Its time for a serious attitude change. That is what is needed.
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@Bikerboy...erm does spanking u count?? Lol like what u said
Thank you Sofistikiity, and yes it does
Vee1, i thught "bones" were what we were all here for, or is that "boner" :wink:I don't think "bones". As I said you could get hurt. I think for the ladies, "boner" would do.
