Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
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Quote by LoneRanger
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
Ehhhmmm maybe she could not make it, maybe her other half (aka other half of the couple) found out and nixed the whole exercise????? Take it as a lesson not to play with one half of a couple..................................
Quote by LoneRanger
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
Don't book the room until she arrives??
Sex God
Quote by LoneRanger
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
Everything that the others have said is good advice and / or a valid point. I would just add the fact that you did meet, have a drink swop contact details etc would indicate she might not have actually been a fake.
Sometimes things do really go beyond our control. If you handle it correctly you will get another chance with the person, if you react badly and negatively they are gone . . . . .
I am probably gonna get for this post but what the hell... Please ladies, no offense intended here...
Females tend to be very curious - seldom serious. I think that this girl needed her "cheat" fantasy fulfilled. She met you for a drink to test the water. Then agreed to the hotel meet. Got cold feet when the time came and gave the excuse of a meeting. I don't think she is a scammer or such, but just did not have the guts to go through with it. She did however get her kicks out of the attempt.
If had R10 for every girl here that has told me how horny she is and what all she plans to to do to me, then then the communication abruptly ends at the point of planning an actual meet - I would be a millionaire!!! I think many females want to occasionally act a bit slutty but don't have the guts to take the plunge.
Quote by hornylibra
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
Don't book the room until she arrives??
That's the best advice...and yes, what I'd decided myself!
Quote by Stamina
I am probably gonna get for this post but what the hell... Please ladies, no offense intended here...
Females tend to be very curious - seldom serious. I think that this girl needed her "cheat" fantasy fulfilled. She met you for a drink to test the water. Then agreed to the hotel meet. Got cold feet when the time came and gave the excuse of a meeting. I don't think she is a scammer or such, but just did not have the guts to go through with it. She did however get her kicks out of the attempt.
If had R10 for every girl here that has told me how horny she is and what all she plans to to do to me, then then the communication abruptly ends at the point of planning an actual meet - I would be a millionaire!!! I think many females want to occasionally act a bit slutty but don't have the guts to take the plunge.
SH needs a "Like" button, similar to Facebook. Here's a "Like" anyway... ;-)
Sexlightened
I agree with everyone's comment above.....
But wanted to know: why you were booking a hotel room in the first place? Your place not good enough??
Sex God
Quote by NawtyCat
I agree with everyone's comment above.....
But wanted to know: why you were booking a hotel room in the first place? Your place not good enough??
Remember he said that was her request.
Sexlightened
Aaah yes, I re-read....my apologies
Quote by LeeEC
Umm.... don't book a hotel?
WOW Lee!
I don't think LoneRanger is that horny that he'd book a whole hotel just to get some action.
I'm sure the room he booked would have done just fine.
The fact is that we're all different and all the hypotheses as to why she did not pitch are possible.
I tried to arrange a lady as a treat for my bi wife. It would have given us both a thrill if they could have a party for two.
She pitched for the breakfast meeting with my wife and promised to play nice and honest.
She even stayed to say hi to me when I picked up my wife.
They had some spicy chats and then abruptly, nothing...
Even her profile disappeared.
She gave us just enough info to trace her on Facebook and now we even know where her hubby works.
I so want to go and ask her hubby what she is up to but it is not worth it.
Umm... now I sound like the messed up one
Quote by kawaicouple
I agree with everyone's comment above.....
But wanted to know: why you were booking a hotel room in the first place? Your place not good enough??
I'm not sure bout other people but a neutral place is prefered. Some people get weird.
In answer to a few queries like the above, the main reason was that I had my elderly Mum visiting over the December holidays, so my home was not mine alone! But, secondly, my experience is that many ladies do prefer the security of meeting in a public place, particularly for the first encounter. A hotel thus offers a clean, discreet and secure meeting place...albeit an expensive mistake when the supposed playmate does not pitch up!
Orgasminator
Well I don't mind a black ring, but I already have a silver school ring I wear so if you see 2 on the same finger you might have found me.
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
Well I don't mind a black ring, but I already have a silver school ring I wear so if you see 2 on the same finger you might have found me.
HUH?.
Thinking about one forum post while in another
Orgasminator
Lol, that's why multiple tabs and lack of sleep should not get combined, sorry bout that.
I so enjoyed reading this forum....made me smile.
As a feminist I always insist on paying for everything on the first coffee meet. I myself also insist on paying MY half of venues if the need is there.
Now I had my fair share of people who is no shows...and yes, I am also guilty of phoning and canceling meetings on short notice.
I do have to tell you guys I had men who really dislike NOT paying.....some are REALLY surprised when I do it my way,but is gentlemanly enough to allow me my little *chip on the shoulder issue*
But that way, they KNOW I am not a we both are having fun, why should only one have to settle all the bills?If they do, I feel like I am being paid ...and I am NOT in the *paying professional business*.
