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"Among young adults, men masturbate an average of 12 times a month, while females maturbate an average of 5 times a month."* This is apparently a fact. Lol that means I'm a man lol or something more- 12 times! That's nothing! Anyone else here disagree with this "fact"
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"Among young adults, men masturbate an average of 12 times a month, while females maturbate an average of 5 times a month."*
This is apparently a fact. Lol that means I'm a man lol or something more- 12 times! That's nothing! Anyone else here disagree with this "fact"

Do you have any idea where this info was gathered? US, Europe, Africa or combined? what is the age bracket?
@ Sofistkitty....I disagree !!! Useless info.... When I got my very first little laptop.........I as I am certain most people who is sexually inclined surfed/browsed the net, exploring anything and everything sexual. I soon had a LOT of online males *friends* who wanted to play sexual games on the computer, thus me ending up, telling them what to do when...and THAT mostly involved self pleasure...or masturbation for them. And boy did I have fun!!! THERE are so many many many ways of masturbation methods open to men, to vary their pleasure ,from just jerking off in the shower!!!or of course in front off the pc....to masturbating inside a nice cool/warmed up grapefruit....and so many many more!!!!! Now please, know that when I still played those little games, Men flocked to me, and they masturbated WAY WAY more than 12 times a month!!! rather try 2 or sometimes 3 times a night!!! men are greedy in that way , the more they like, the more they want! and if it got exciting they wanted MORE MORE and MORE..... I really had to jump to get a LOT of different ways for men to masturbate.....sometimes I wish men would teach their sons the different methods of masturbation just to show them how exciting it is to discover self pleasure. Now I did also encounter a few ladies.....WE did have fun!!! and how we enjoyed sharing different methods of masturbation....My own MB included buying a LOT of extra naughty toys to use without using my hands and yeah if you do want to know.....might be TMIF ....I could even do DP hands free , to do other things..... So who ever did that survey on masturbation most certainly have not spoken to me and all my masturbating friends....
Maybe 12 times a week ,,,and then even
How about mutual masterbation, two people just givIng eachother a hand? Masterbation is sometimes a necessity, the body can only hold so much in before it has to release or bang! Lol. I see it in almost the same way as someone drinking. Some people dont need to because they have alternatives. Others drink/do occasionally or a few with limits and then there's ones that need to join Masterbation anonimous lol. Sexual fun is like most fun things, usually better with off with more than one player.
Phew, thought I was alien cos I can do 12 a day lol
Did you note the word "average"? Apparently you're ABOVE AVERAGE! Way to go Kitty!
Well I really would be interested to know where they got their info from as most men I know masturbate at least once a day, even if they are getting regular sex and well think that woman (the ones I have spoken to) it depends on if they have a partner and also time of month, also as womans toys are becoming more accessible its now much more open and we are understanding our bodies more so yeah think they need to reinterview haha Just my little bit
I must masturbate at least 12 times a week on avaverage. Once a weekday before bed, I can't sleep without it. Weekends in indulge a bit more. Hell I even choke the chicken after a play date.
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I must masturbate at least 12 times a week on avaverage. Once a weekday before bed, I can't sleep without it. Weekends in indulge a bit more. Hell I even choke the chicken after a play date.

hmmm you do it very quietly if you dont wake anyone else in the bed
When you're good your good
So, I suppose we all knew that we all indulge in said act here and there, HOWEVER, I must say that I will never look at anyone the same ever again . . . . yet, I suppose it may help understand why most women do need need as much / frequent sex as men . . . . coz they are obviously way better at masturbating than their male counterparts . . . . wink
Someone said that when you feel intimidated by a group of people, such as going into a meeting or doing a speech, you should imagine them all naked, this will then get relax your thoughts (packs instinctively attack anything that gives of the smell of fear), well i think that should be changed, imagine them all masturbating
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Someone said that when you feel intimidated by a group of people, such as going into a meeting or doing a speech, you should imagine them all naked, this will then get relax your thoughts (packs instinctively attack anything that gives of the smell of fear), well i think that should be changed, imagine them all masturbating

Nah, what if some of them are "lookers" ?? where on earth would my focus and attention levels be then rotflmao:rotflmao:
In spite of the fact that we are in the 21st century, societal conditioning still prevails, so in general, overtly sexpositive men are considered 'studs', whereas overtly sexpositive women are regarded as 'whores'. To the extent that even in surveys, girls tend to under-estimate their diy frequency and guys tend to over-estimate. This also creates the situation where most men regard diy as a hobby and most women regard their clit as a stress-relief button. The male only needs simple visual queues, like picturing the hot new girl at work or some pics on the net, to get a hard-on and the desire to 'rub one out', female mental arousal requires more complex fantasies, as evidenced by the fact that erotic fiction readers are almost exclusively women. Time is a factor, guys can spank their monkey in the time it take to take a dump in the toilet at work, most ladies are slower and require surroundings more conducive to erotic pleasure. A horny single girl can go down to the local pub and get laid tonite if she's not too fussy, the socially awkward single guy may as well save on petrol, pop in that 'Buttman' dvd and beat himself to sleep. So that's why men, as claimed by statisticians, solo more than women. And as to the ins and outs of self-pleasure per se', that's a whole story in itself! the central scrutinizer
Just love Wolfmans summary Yip very true but sometimes if a lady is in need can also be as quick, yeah have been known to have a quick fiddle..... but ultimately woman tend to need the other stimulation as well but there are the rare breed that are just like men mwahs