Me as a single male thought I might do the right thing, not voting for a new government in such, but just putting my face together with a code.
Yet in the room, I still see most of the "single" males not EXTRA'd? And I ask myself the question why?
What could you guys be scared of? Is it that you married or involved? Or you just here to troll - oh i love that term - I don't want to jump to any conclusions though.
Then I start reading the profiles - not the single males - hahaha - the couple's prolfiles, and they all mention rude and respect and I start thinking, why should those give me a bad name????????????
Scary stuff though, I am not here to be a wham bam mam kinda man, but rather a braai naai dankie baai, joke rerig!
Its just so unfair that certain honest guys must be overlooked because of some pigs, those that put their egos ahead instead of their personalities.
I would prefer to hear from all singles and couples your view on the issue, would you guys rather prefer the EXTRAS or unverified?
Personally I believe that a lot of these guys are looking for "free amateur porn" in the form of our pictures.
I KNOW that there are certainly some people who are definately doing this because I regularly get a few "show me your private pics" messages from guys who have never spoken to us before in any other context.
But I DO think decent okes like youself do yourselves a GREAT disservice by not filling in all the bits and being an EXTRAS type member.
I have on occasion found said "pearls" but they are EXTREMELY rare and more often than not far far away...
All of us started off as unverified and somewhere along the we got verified
When you become verified you are an *extra* and YES!!!!!! it helps if you are one.
People know you are then the real deal and not someone who appears to be just a a picture collector.
People can also use this as a guideline to contact the person whom verified you, to ask about you or you can ask about someone.
There is 2 ways to get verified...
See the guidelines when you log in next time.
The only thing I do not like about this site verification...you can just show your face on cam and anyone watching you can verify me this is not really commendable.
My own verifications received and given, are all people whom I personally have met and spoken to.