Hey sexy people. So I'm wondering have you ever needed to escape a swingers party or left a club. Tell us your reasons and tips on escaping if we ever need to.
Have never had to escape a party or club, but having said that we have had issues at a private party and we spoke to the hosts explaining the problem and they sorted it out. We still attend said parties. The best tip is be honest and upfront on why you have to leave if there is an issue with the club/party.
A reason would be in the case of seeing people there that you don't wish to party with, just leave, one does not have to explain themselves to anyone. Well that's my personal opinion at least.
So I have a truthful honest to God story that sounds like its right out of a Hollywood action movie...
If you venture into the story section and read my stories you will see i have been in the lifestyle for quite some time...
This encounter was not with the couple from the story but happenned roughly during that newbie lifestyle era...
I met them at their place... Had my drink spiked... and when i came to... found myself locked in a bedroom...
Well jokes on them as their fancy "bedkassie" found its way through their big glass window... and i made my escape... i still have the scars as proof where some of the shattered glass that ricocheted cutt me
I never had to *escape* any party or club. I just leave when I want to, No need to explain yourself to anyone when you leave. Just say NO THANK YOU, when you need to say that, or report any *issues* to the host of a party if there is any.
@ SwingerPTA OH MY WORD....I know that the danger of roofies (spiked drinks) happens at clubs but in a couples HOME????? THAT is so for the police to investigate!!!!!! I would have left and reported them so fast, even if It was all over social media in minutes.
That is why I always try and tell *newbies* to try and get mentors for the first few times. And we all KNOW by now to ask for closed bottles of water or beer or tinned drinks, well as for wine...just decline untill you feel safe enough. If anything taste funny do not drink it or eat it.
@pussinboots1 Yes indeed. I was not expecting it to happen there either.
Needless to say my own I have become much more vigilant over the years.
I have met a stunning lady from cape town. I have seen her a couple of times already... and planning on seeing her again end June. We normally share a beeeeg wineglass with our drinks...