What's with "Very openminded" guys who want some fun but need to specify they're not gay or bi and just not into guys? How open-minded are you....or not? Getting a hand on your ass, handjob, rim job or bj from another guy while you're licking or doing his gal, doesnt make you gay or bi in my opinion, but simply sexually fluid. You're horny, does it matter who you get pleasure from? And why would straight guys want to get with bi females? What am I missing here?
People don't know what they want
We want bi girls to join our bi wifes easy.
We dont want to interact with men in any way, dont touch me, dont give me a BJ, dont rim me, again easy
But willing to share a girl with another guy, but no male to mal contact..... EASY
:) :)
I think it boils down to limits...personal limits. The guy you mentioned might be open minded from his perspective...sharing his partner, having a threesome, or whatever...but still has his own set boundaries and limits. I don't think that makes him less open minded than someone else...or does it? Sexual preference is just that...preference, and thank Thor that differs from person to person. We've had a few MMf threesomes, but the need never presented itself with me to pleasure the other guy-cause I'm straight, lol. I think it really is as simple as that. As far as why a guy would want to get with a bi girl...why the hell not, if she has no set preference between a guy or a girl?
OK guys, let's formalize this a little, in the spirit of making ole swinginheavnin a better place for all of us, see?! Maybe the powers that be is payin attenshun an' gonna incorporate this here feature in the grander scheme of things, as in your profile. As in one of those neat little multiple choice tick-box things so beholden to all of us not familiar with the english language. It would go something like this: ........OPENMINDED, and the choices would be something along the following lines:
NOT ... openminded: This would be the domain of all those (mostly single) guys who think that they will hook up with a hottie for some nsa cavortment, or a deprived milf who'se hubby is just not capable or willing to give her that hot rodding she so desperately wants and needs....
JUST ...openminded: Here we have all of our members who specify in minute detail the exact encounter they are after, from tea to drinks to soft to sameroom to 2room(?) to cleanshaven (don't ask me why nobody ever specifies "hairy") etc etc etc etc etc .......
VERY .. openminded: Now we're getting somewhere, this may just be the easiest category to define: Anything that involves dicks in pussies is your game, NOT AT ALL BI-CURIOUS though, in spite of the fact that you'd love to watch your missus being fucked by a severely tattooed with an extremely large purple strap-on (and big titties, of course)! You're way beyond the above and too timid for what follows below ......
HIGHLY ...openminded: Let's just say that his is where gender starts taking a back seat (or door, for that matter), when erotic pleasure becomes the focus and egos fade into irrelevance. 3somes become moresomes and all that matters is that everyone is getting off on it, even if it means enthusiastically licking the somewhat weatherbeaten pussy of the lady you recognise as your schoolfriend's mom....
EXTREMELY openminded: Now this one's reserved for the 'graduates' of this site, done all of the above and moved beyond, prostate Os for the guys and gangbangs for the girls, spanking and bondage sessions that last all night, machine sex and even the odd pet (domestic or otherwise) thrown into the mix, you have arrived ......
Love it!
Yeah...lets lump everything into categories...seeing as though it's been working out great.
Sigh.
I love the thought and practice of a MMF threesome. I have labelled myself "straight" meaning that I will not go out and look for another male. I do realise however (and a little turned on but the fact) in the heat of battle of satisfiying a woman, two guys are bound to "cross swords" if I can express it that way. How would you get through some DP without touching another male? I just know that in the heat of battle, I don't think I will mind who is doing what to who ?. Does this make me bi, bi-curious or even gay??? I don't know and I don't care. Its all about the satisfaction achieved by all that counts.
No, it simply makes you honest!!!! 
Thats what Id call being open-minded Wonderkund
