We been swinging almost 20 years we believe it should be sexy and tasteful ,who else feels this site now debases all we hold we thought it should be ,no classy shots of loved ones instead a steady stream of gyno shots and dick pics?
Agree, not much joy for us on here.
Yeah it's quite sickening. I am pretty sure it's porn addiction which is pushing us down this road though.
Men have too much access to porn. It's messing with guys' minds. I'm in a few "friend" or "acquaintance" groups and if it's a bit of a boys club there is a constant stream of porn from 6am to 6am the next day. Why do guys have this much porn on their devices? The problem is very pronounced amongst middle aged afrikaans dudes (as a side observation). Like why do you have 650 porn pics and vids to share per day Kobus?
There is no longer any desire to please your partner, to tease, to drop a few naughty comments, to entice. This porn thing is devolving men into Neanderthals with low iq who crudely demand sex from any women they encounter (me want fuck) and plaster the planet with their dick pics (gross).
I agree that a swingers site should be sexy and tasteful but those are subjective standards , what I see as sexy may not be what others see as sexy. By normal societal standards my obesity is not considered sexy at all so if we allowed only the sexy people on , I would not be allowed on the site. The same can be said for taste. What I see as a positive of the site is that it allows all shapes forms and races on and provided you comply with the rules you are allowed to remain a part of the site. Being part of the site means you get to find those people in and amongst the masses that you feel are sexy and interact with those who share the same tastes as you do. Yes it can be frustrating searching through the masses of "tasteless" and "unsexy" profiles but it makes finding those precious gems worth it when you do. So when I am frustrated by profiles or posts or media on the site I try and focus on the great people I have met from here.
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I agree that a swingers site should be sexy and tasteful but those are subjective standards , what I see as sexy may not be what others see as sexy. By normal societal standards my obesity is not considered sexy at all so if we allowed only the sexy people on , I would not be allowed on the site. The same can be said for taste. What I see as a positive of the site is that it allows all shapes forms and races on and provided you comply with the rules you are allowed to remain a part of the site. Being part of the site means you get to find those people in and amongst the masses that you feel are sexy and interact with those who share the same tastes as you do. Yes it can be frustrating searching through the masses of "tasteless" and "unsexy" profiles but it makes finding those precious gems worth it when you do. So when I am frustrated by profiles or posts or media on the site I try and focus on the great people I have met from here.
And you are one of the better group of people that I have met from this site, sometimes you meet great people that become good friends and other times you unfortunatly meet people that you are glad that you never see again.
