Can you please enlighten me on the basics of dogging?
1. Does it still happen (where there are girls involved)?
2. Is there some sign that someone is at a spot for dogging? (blue towel in the back of car... whatever)
3. How do a guy approach, or what do you do not just to look like a weirdo?
OK gentlebull, let me straighten you out on this one, take it as you may. Dogging is something that use to take place (in the old days before the "immigrant crisis") in the UK, Holland, Germany and all over northern Europe, where you could walk in a park without the constant fear of being mugged, robbed, , or worse (can you picture that?). So in the old there days lots of people that got tired of fuckin' on the balcony (you know, the exhibitionists among us) felt it would be cool (and kinda accommodating for the voyeours, just doing our civil duty, you know) to go out into their well-manicured parks and "civic spaces" and get it on there. There's also a vague connection to the late 60's "summer of love" San Francisco scene which those euro-dweebs where trying to emulate. To cut a long story short, it's an outdated concept, 'specially here in SA where you need security guards for your grannie's birthday party! Try to imagine maintaining a hard-on while keeping your finger on the trigger of your 9mil, anticipating un-invited participants who your partner may not be entirely willing to share her pleasures with ........
Wolfman, it's not quite as bad a picture as you are painting it!!! 
Just three weeks ago there were three of us (two guys, one lady) enjoying some good proper dogging fun at Rothdene just down the road from you. And we've (that's me with some couples and single guy mates I know) also had some good fun out at President Park, and at Brakpan Dam, and at Phoenix Park, and at Golden Harvest park, and at Coronation Park...
One has to be selective about where and when you go to do it, be aware of security issues at all times and keep a lookout for what's going on. Personal security has to be the primary concern. There are places to go that are safer than others. And "making an arrangement" with folks here through this site means that it is likely to be even safer. I would be extremely wary of trying to randomly meet up with any passing stranger in a carpark, like used to be the case in the UK (seems even that is not happening like that any more, due to the security concerns). But the fact remains that there are a few (unfortunately very few) brave couples on here who DO indulge in dogging, and it DOES take place, and quite a few people I know personally have had a lot of enjoyment out of it!! If you read my stories (mostly, but not all, posted as redbruce - search the stories using "dogging" as keyword), ALL of which are 100% factual, I think I've shown that it DOES happen (now and then!)....
@ Thegentlebull - yes, dogging does happen from time to time. There are unfortunately very few ladies who are involved, and you are most unlikely to come across single ladies brave enough to announce to everyone that they are interested (although there ARE some out there!). More likely it will be a couple with an adventurous lady and a big tough hubby!!!.. Gents meeting up in a carpark for a mutual m2m wank session, in my view, is not dogging!...
There is no "universal" sign that is used by folks who are out there for dogging, although the use of red items on the dashboard or interior mirror, sitting around with park-lights left on, door open and wanking, interior light flashed and left on (at night), etc. seem to be the most frequently used means of recognition. Many different folks have made lots of different suggestions here on this site over the years. Search the threads...
How do you know when it is dogging, and when the couple is just there for a "skelmpie"? If they are obviously uncomfortable with the presence of another person nearby (they shut up shop and move away, they point a finger or a gun at you, they show you the bird as they drive off in a huff...!) then you know that they weren't there for dogging, and just wanted some private space to have their fun. When it is dogging, there is usually some kind of "come on over" indication after a period of checking each other out, either a hand gesture, door strategically opened, headlights flicked, interior light flicked and left on, etc, showing you that you are welcome to join them. But just barging over and saying "I'm here for the dogging" (like I did once!) is a sure-fire way to put a stop to anything happening....
If the couple seem interested, and didn't drive off immediately when you arrived and parked nearby (NOT TOO nearby!), you might want to open your door and wank and let them see that you are busy (kinda like advertising your wares!)..., and hopefully they would invite you over to watch / join them. Otherwise, sometimes you have to be brave enough to take a gentle stroll over towards them (this might also chase them away, of course!), and ask for a light or the time of day, and have they ever heard of Swinging Heaven?....
