dogging

from time to time i click on the dogging link..just out curiosity....not my thing at all..but have noticed that there are a lot of ads but very few reply's here in cape town..i suppose it is a swingers site but is it a big activety or just a lot of talk

It's mostly a lot of talk, and adverts from folks (mostly single guys) trying to arrange a hook-up, but there ARE a few serious dogging couples out there (at least here in Gauteng), and every now and then proper dogging does happen!  And when it does, it's oh so good!!!

Totally admire your positive outlook Redbruce, but in all honesty you haveto admit that the odds on a positive dogging experience are about as good as scoring big on the lottery......

I rank the odds a fair bit better than the lottery, Wolfman!  I've still never won anything on the Lottery, but I have had a number of good dogging experiences over the past five years, and so have a number of other people I know personally, who I have met here through this site, some of whom I've seen, some I've watched closely, and some of whom I've had the real privilege of "playing" with!!...  

I think also that positive attitude delivers positive results, in so many situations...  It's about decency, patience and persistence!

I almost concur completely with you Sir Redbruce. I myself have had numerous successful meets via this site, however, to date still not had the opportunity for a Dogging scenario.

And yes, I agree patience is the key.