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Do unicorns exist and throuples

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So me and wifey have been looking for a while now to add a lady to our lifestyle regularly and let it develope into more but can not seem to find that unicorn 

Has any couple found that unicorn and could you give us advice how to locate them 

And has any couple been in a throuple please do share your experience 

Throuple meaning 3 people in a relationship 

We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 

We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 

We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 

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We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 
We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 
We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 

 If you don't mind me asking how was it been in a throuple any advice please feel free to pvt message 

Could you please if you want to share your secrets tell us which dating app 

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Quote by Farsin
We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 
We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 
We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 
 If you don't mind me asking how was it been in a throuple any advice please feel free to pvt message 

Could you please if you want to share your secrets tell us which dating app 

 No problem at all 😉 

Sent a pm 

Quote by Farsin

We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 

We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 

We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 

Which App do you use?
Quote by Farsin

We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 

We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 

We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 


We had a similar experience and ended up meeting 3 ladies that converted to the lifestyle in the end. Finding unicorns is no easy task and I have to agree that it usually happens when you stop looking and least expect it... 😋

Hi Guys!
So sorry, we only saw this post now -almost a year later. Did you have any luck in your search for a unicorn?

We have had quite a few girlfriends so far. Some more casual and also some more serious. Our most recent girlfriend lived with us since shortly after her 18th birthday for 9½ months until she got a scholarship into a master chef program.

We did everything together and it was one of the most amazing times we ever had. We also do webcam shows on Chaturbate (cee4u2nv) and she even went on cam with us. (She and some of our other girlfriends can also be seen in our profile there.)
Sadly, we had to let her take the master chef scholarship as that was the best thing for her. (Yeah we actually fell in love with her and put her needs ahead of ours.)

With regards to getting a girl, I strongly recommend you read our post from June 2019 here on the Forum titled "The hunt for the "Unicorn" (Getting a girl for a threesome) -By Cee"
https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/swingers-forum/anything-goes/the-hunt-for-the-unicorn-getting-a-girl-for-a-threesome--by-cee
The most important thing, is to remember that you should first have your own relationship and mindsets right before going for it. The second most important being, that you should not objectify her, but instead approach her as a couple the way you would if you were a single person trying to woo someone. If you can get these 2 principles right, you will have some of the most amazing experiences that you've ever had.
As for finding her, you can find her anywhere: Sports events; through friends; clubs; church/mosque; neighbor/neighbor's daughter hehe. The places you would meet a normal girl for a normal relationship is where you will find the best unicorn.
In our experience, Adult sites, dating apps, classifieds etc. usually do not render any good results, though I should mention we met our best girlfriend right here on CB. 😊

Hope that helps.

I've been part of a throuple. It's hard hey, being a unicorn is not all its expected to be. There's always jealous green eyed monsters and people developing feelings. Fighting and misunderstandings. I won't do it again and I also don't play with couples anymore

Currently moving into my first Throuple relationship. Curious to see how it pans out.