Sexlightened
Why are you on this site if you dont wanna swing . Why are the lady bi if not like in knysna or Plet. We do swing and we are new and yes we wanna do it and yes she is bi .
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Orgasminator
:swingingchair: but wife not bi
Sexlightened
Quote by Ryan71My problem is the wanna be swingers who keep on sending you they wanna meet and you reply yes when and then the stories start my wife cant chat cant meet and we in the same town cant do it in the same town but they inbox you to meet
Do you have to swop partners to enjoy the openness of the lifestyle? Some people are just here for the adult and risque interaction. There is space for everyone here, those who swing and those who don't.
Orgasminator
I don't think its a swing problem, but more of fake people, example one member are busy on the site but his partner don't have a cooking glue of what he busy with.
The person start contacting other members and try and score without asked any questions, or try and get friends to see private pics.
The problem is to find out who are the real people interest in the lifestyle and those who bullshit, and sorry there are many off them.
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Sexlightened
Unfortunately is does happen way to often on the site...we even had a incident where a guy asked if he could meet Mrs Localcouple1234 alone for a meet, after we made it clear we don't play OR meet alone. It's starting to become a issue to sift through all the fake profiles and pic hunters to try and meet someone genuine who actually wants to meet and play if all parties involved feel like it. But yeah...it's part and parcel of the site, sad but true.
PS...tip for the fake profile couples...if your "wife" starts chatting, it would be great if she didn't make exactly the same spelling mistakes...idiots.
Orgasminator
Very good suggestion but how will admin knew that you have been with the couple who verify you.
But most of the time the profile not even verified as such.
Verification as it stands, can work if people use it to there benefit, because more than one person can verify you if he is verified.
We did not chat to anyone if they not verified.
Quote by Pussinboots1
Well this is a loaded gun kinda question.
Why am I here.....I do nto swing, i do in fact do not meet anymore..
GUYS it seems I am EXPECTED to cLose and delete my profile!!!!!
Nope your not! You make it clear on your profile that you don't meet. I think it's more about those who don't make it clear what they want or simply as said so many times before are the fakes...
Quote by jackd1112
how about a pic to admin with you swinging with other couples. or mmf or ffm or whatever, and admin puts a little checkmark or star next to your name, indicating that you are a swinger??
Umm... no. Just because I swing does not mean I'm ok with strangers looking at what I do behind closed doors. It take a LOT for a person to qualify to participate behind those doors. Owning a swinging site does not entitle anyone to see pictures of my person let alone me doing naughty things.
Orgasminator
I fully agree with the statement, not a pic of us playing on any site or for verifying, that's personal and private.
If the system for verifying been used right, its in the moment in time, the best way of doing it. Asked the people you played with you to verify you and all the members will see you in good standing.
It worked for us.
Well I think swinging is like FISHING. Everyone wants that perfect catch, but like fishing sometimes you use the wrong bite and sometimes there is just no fish were you are costing. And sometimes you do catch fish, but it is not the fish the right size you are looking for. So you throw it back. But you are happy you did catch a fish. So you try again and again. Only to find that the fish you had in mind just don't want to bite.
So the morale of the story is, be happy if you do land up catching a fish or pack up and move to another spot.
Am I right or wrong?
Joyrider
Still trying to catch a fish, at this point any fish will count 
Quote by joyrider
Well I think swinging is like FISHING. Everyone wants that perfect catch, but like fishing sometimes you use the wrong bite and sometimes there is just no fish were you are costing. And sometimes you do catch fish, but it is not the fish the right size you are looking for. So you throw it back. But you are happy you did catch a fish. So you try again and again. Only to find that the fish you had in mind just don't want to bite.
So the morale of the story is, be happy if you do land up catching a fish or pack up and move to another spot.
Am I right or wrong?
Joyrider
Still trying to catch a fish, at this point any fish will count
Cant agree more. Keep in mind that there are a hell of a lot of fish, and (sorry, I know we have said it many times so it is probably boring by now) after our erm many years of experience we can say that its also an odds game, the longer you at it and the more people you meet the more people/couples you will get to know that are closer to what you are looking for.
