Warming the Bed
How fare are you guys prepared to travel to go meet new couples?
Or go play for that matter distance
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Sex God
Quote by stoutgatte2013
How fare are you guys prepared to travel to go meet new couples?
Or go play for that matter distance
I would say that while my general "rule" is less than 100km's, I suppose it would depend on the circumstances. Once I know that the person / couple is genuine, or if I was going to be in the area for other reasons, then I would travel just about any distance if time etc permitted.
Forum Virgin
I will let you know. Our furthest has been to Cape Town. And we live in Johannesburg. Actually we have been down there twice now to meet new friends.
We are strange that way 
We have a 250km radius... but in practice it's more like about 150kms.
We have traveled much further before and it's ALWAYS a screw up so no more travelling 'just' for play.
Plus we are of the "friends with benefits" school of thought and well it's a lot easier to be real friends, and meet regularly with people who are physically closer. So most of the time if people are further than 200kms I say no thanks unless there's something REALLY freekin' awesome about them/their profile.
I'm not a fan of one night stands, once-off or once-a-year meets. So I don't really accept offers from people travelling very far to HERE either. IT's complicated anyway - we don't play on first dates so how to you 'check each other out' and then decide and then meet again if they live so far from you?
So no out-of-towner visitors either...except my few select friends; I have two single guy friends from up Gauteng way who I would happily have visit anytime they would like! With whom I also try to visit when I go there. But those guys are special.
I can only say I concur with what Lee has said.....could not have said it any better.
One night stands is not for me, I never sleep out anymore these days anyway.
My meets is mostly social or for Kinky play in a dungeon and that is for only a few hours anyway.
My Kinky play DOES not include sex per se.
Orgasminator
Wow, I'm much shorter. I normally try to keep it within 60k's because I don't want to spend that much time travelling home in the middle of the night. I'm happy to travel though, since I can't host any dates, plus I don't mind since it's just me in the car.
Sexpert
I jumped a flight to meet a lady in person for the first time .all the way to cpt .figured if she stood me up i would still get to see Cape Town .this was last lady had an awesome time and went back a few weeks ago .sometimes you must just take a chance
Warming the Bed
Well we prefer keeping it in the province. Gauteng is small enough for us to use it as the radius of our play. Not willing to travel to really lengthy periods without our own accommodation sorted out (which would be a hotel and not the couple we playing with unless we really trust them). If by any chance it was something out of the ordinary that brought us together as couples then we cannot say we aren't willing to travel. I guess its all about whats in store and the connection but Gauteng is our regular cut off...
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
I check the distance, calculate the travelling cost (fuel etc) then I phone all the massage parlors (rub n tugs) in my area for prices and choose the most cost effective solution accordingly... Bwaa haaaa ha haaa!!!:lol:
Maybe next time you should check out the comparison pricing of Sack, Back and Crack waxing . . . . :doh:
Warming the Bed
When we have our house parties (close to harties) people regularly travel from a far as Nelspruit, Ellisras, Secunda and Vereeniging.... Would not do it if it was boring parties i'd say... :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: Quote by 2ForFun
When we have our house parties (close to harties) people regularly travel from a far as Nelspruit, Ellisras, Secunda and Vereeniging.... Would not do it if it was boring parties i'd say...
Just had a look at your pics... I can see that those parties are well worth the distance and effort.
For me, travelling to meet someone is not a distance issue but a convenience issue. One can't always drop everything and head on a road trip for some fun. But on the other hand, nothing ventured - nothing gained. So I guess if time and situation allow, I will travel just about anywhere.
For example: If I ever get an invite from Lee, I would be there in a heartbeat! *nudge nudge, wink wink*... :lol:
Just for meet and / or play, not more than 50/60 km, tried the longer distance and was total f***up, once we had to cancel last minute (luckily before anyone had left) and each couple would have had to travel better part of 500km, few other times we have traveled and the others have traveled and mostly when meeting ended up not being compatible at all.
Nowadays shorter travel so regular get together (friends with benefits etc as Lee said). Must add though that if we in an area we would be quite happy to meet and play with people in that area.
@ Stamina
I think that you would put something with a large girth in my bum..
Yes and No....I will do so only after asking permission....and then do so VERY gently!!!! I will even cut my nails short ,as in very short!!!!! I do NOT have large hands if that is a comfort.....thick little fingers though.....:2fingers:
