So I've recently connected with an ex of mine. He and I have been apart a couple of months, when we met up again he seemed so much calmer and well centered. We've always had raw attraction and mad chemistry, its still instense but now even more deep and powerful. I was curious to find out what had changed. He told me he's become a fapronaut- I was like "what did u just call me " lol anyway he explained that he's now part of the no fap community. He's more focused and to me he's more aware of everything.
He's suggested I check it out so I did - Basically its men and women that have decided on no masturbating, no porn. And to either abstain completely from sex or to "release" with a significant other. From the site No Fap I have read testimonials etc. Seems that this no fap actually seems to work for them, bettering their relationshipsm making them more focused.
Personally I've been fap free for 7days-its been hard lol excuse the pun. I like porn clips and videos and pics. I've abstained from masturbating and will do so (or atleast try) then "release" when we together again. I often have insomnia and usually opt for a masturbation induced sleep lol. So I watch some erotic and sensual vids and get my fix. But now watch non sexual movies lol(little mermaid,monsters inc and tv series like CSI) to keep me occupied, you know idol hands. This past week I've started reading more,appreciating my garden and the sun. I have so many thoughts and ideas that I have to write them down. I find myself more clear minded lol and our relationship seems even better. Maybe its really working... wonder how long I can keep this up.
So I've recently connected with an ex of mine. He and I have been apart a couple of months, when we met up again he seemed so much calmer and well centered. We've always had raw attraction and mad chemistry, its still intense but now even more deep and powerful. I was curious to find out what had changed. He told me he's become a fapronaut- I was like "what did u just call me " lol anyway he explained that he's now part of the no fap community. He's more focused and to me he's more aware of everything.
He's suggested I check it out so I did - Basically its men and women that have decided on no masturbating, no porn. And to either abstain completely from sex or to "release" with a significant other. From the site No Fap I have read testimonials etc. Seems that this no fap actually seems to work for them, bettering their relationships making them more focused.
Personally I've been fap free for 7days-its been hard lol excuse the pun. I like porn clips and videos and pics. I've abstained from masturbating and will do so (or at least try) then "release" when we together again. I often have insomnia and usually opt for a masturbation induced sleep lol. So I watch some erotic and sensual vids and get my fix. But now watch non sexual movies lol(little mermaid,monsters inc and tv series like CSI) to keep me occupied, you know idol hands. This past week I've started reading more,appreciating my garden and the sun. I have so many thoughts and ideas that I have to write them down. I find myself more clear minded lol and our relationship seems even better. Maybe its really working... wonder how long I can keep this up.
Sounds like something I should try
Love masturbating and erotic dreams and then when the real thing happens I cant cum
I am a very sexual person. Its been difficult but its super intense and so so much more when i get my release-it lasts much longer and its like because ive fasted i feel everything! Ive always had issues climaxing now lol well...hehe
So over the past couple of days I've been over thinking, I've been this new no fap (no masturbation, porn etc). Now one of the things I've realized is that I crave intimacy. I've always been a sexual person, sensual to- I often get compliments. Being single for these couple of months has been difficult anyway, before the site I've met guys online some I've met up with physically others I've known for years but only through cyberspace. They have helped and given me advice in hard times and kept me company(online) when I needed it. While I was with someone we would still chat but I made it known that I was dating and that I was true to my guy. After we split up I started noticing something, no matter how long how "close" I thought we (guys online) were, it all comes down to sex.
Since I've been "free" of sexual cravings and been trying to refrain all these guys have turned into sudden assholes. Were they always like this? They chat to me and ask what I'm doing and if I'm horny. When I tell them what I'm trying to do and that I actually need company with no sex or sex topics they suddenly get un comfy and tell me that they can't give me that or that I expect too much. One of these guys are married I've never initiated anything sexual with him but we've flirted. 3 I met when we were both single but they have gfs now. Before I was good enough to receive calls and chat all nite to no sexual behaviour. Now its like if I don't want to send pics or engage in "horny" banter I'm messed up. Making me feel like I'm less than.
Am I not good enough, was I before? Is that all I am to men. Not having baby batter on the brain really does clear your head. Think its time to spring clean my contact lists.
I understand what your trying to do been there tried it didnt work out for me wish you luck
About the online friends and chatting i enjoy that aswel and have some lady friends i chat with from time to time even thouw i have a gf. When you dont really know someone its hard to have a conversation without it turning into sex. I guess with guys if your not talking about sex what else is there mmm the weather.I guess the reason they become assholes is they dont know what else to say. I have somw long time cyber friends and after the sex chat and pics we remaind friends. With your friends it sounds like sex is what they wanted and thats all but you sound like so much more. Good luck with your quest. Smile and wave while moving on to new and better things
Hmm, sounds interesting.
Please keep us updated!
Personally, I wouldn't go no-fap.
I often use masturbation as my thinking time, or meditation....
I find that I am much more focused after a good session of self-pleasure...
But that's just me
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Dude u have no idea how intense the sex and orgasm is because of no fap. U know who and I are back together I swear its like I have an out of body experience lol.
Ja, I wouldn't last a week
Been 9days, starting to have withdrawal symptoms lol bout to kill someone. This man better come back quick before i turn into hulk!
