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Orgasminator
Quote by Voyer1105
I hear what you say but my wife would be very dissapointed if we invite an atracive man around and takes a piepie out instead of a cock
So that's why I never get invited over
Warming the Bed
Quote by Mike_Pta
So that's why I never get invited over
You lie!!!
The women (and some men) love you.
You're a great kisser, hung like a horse, know how to please your partner, and have the stamina necessary to please a roomfull of horny people.(So I have heard.) ;)
Forum Virgin
With the over supply of guys (cocks) on the site, competition is fierce. Fortunately most of them have no idea what woman want especially the younger guys. For the rest of us, we differentiate ourselves with intelligence, mystery and keep the woman guessing..
Ps. Most woman commented on a guys buttocks than any other part of his anatomy.
Weird... those are the shots I find most icky.... well not THE most icky... the ones with the dirty bathroom floors and never-cleaned toilet in the background... those are super icky. Guess it's true after all... we're all different and we're NOT all here for the same thing apparently..... Wait, haven't I said that before?
I wouldn't mind IF the pics were all cum shots... guys,feel free to send me cum shots
I actually don't know if anyone could quantify the different reasons people join sites like this. The obvious reason would be swinging...but we know better by now. I dont think its necessary to list a few.
I do know why me and hubby are, i know what we want, what we like, what we find sexy and what we dont, we feel so comfortable in our own SH bubble, we are on our own little adventure looking for the things we like and just passing by the things we dont. We dont throw stones at the things we dont like, we dont go out of our way to voice our dislike or disgust, we just pass by it and move on our way... knowing that even if thats not our piece of cake, it might be someone else's.
We all know those woman who wear clothes to show off their gorgeous cleavage BUT then feels so offended when people actually notice. Woman who knowingly flirt so "innocently" with hand picked guys just to shoot them down when they respond. Woman who register on sex based sites looking for romance, love, respect and then feels outraged when they get spammed with dick pics... but that wouldnt mean anything if no one else knows? We need to tell everyone! We are so outraged! How dare these men send us explicit pictures on an explicit website! How dare these men send pics of their dicks and not their hearts and kisses! These men are so out of line signing up on a sex based site and having sexual intentions
Weird... those are the shots I find most icky.... well not THE most icky... the ones with the dirty bathroom floors and never-cleaned toilet in the background... those are super icky. Guess it's true after all... we're all different and we're NOT all here for the same thing apparently..... Wait, haven't I said that before? :grin:
I actually don't know if anyone could quantify the different reasons people join sites like this. The obvious reason would be swinging...but we know better by now. I dont think its necessary to list a few.
I do know why me and hubby are, i know what we want, what we like, what we find sexy and what we dont, we feel so comfortable in our own SH bubble, we are on our own little adventure looking for the things we like and just passing by the things we dont. We dont throw stones at the things we dont like, we dont go out of our way to voice our dislike or disgust, we just pass by it and move on our way... knowing that even if thats not our piece of cake, it might be someone else's.
We all know those woman who wear clothes to show off their gorgeous cleavage BUT then feels so offended when people actually notice. Woman who knowingly flirt so "innocently" with hand picked guys just to shoot them down when they respond. Woman who register on sex based sites looking for romance, love, respect and then feels outraged when they get spammed with dick pics... but that wouldnt mean anything if no one else knows? We need to tell everyone! We are so outraged! How dare these men send us explicit pictures on an explicit website! How dare these men send pics of their dicks and not their hearts and kisses! These men are so out of line signing up on a sex based site and having sexual intentions
Warming the Bed
I think the same applies to woman sending pics of there tight, neatly shaved quimms. I by far prefer to see their faces before I see anything else at all. A pleasant looking face is much more important to me than there vagina or breasts. Those who prefer not to show their whole face ... even a set of lips exposed will do because a pair of lips gives one a very good idea of how attractive a person is.
while i have never put dick pics in public, i have done so since yesterday...to test the waters, so to speak. I am confident in articulating and forming a rapport with a woman(or man) and send my face/ body pic only. The dick pic is visible to the correspondee as an option to look at. Some woman enjoy genital pics much the same as us guys look at womens' pics and drool.
so my pic has been on for 4 days. I have a much higher view, mainly from couples..now I ask: on a significant number of couple profiles, only the woman is displayed, almost objectified. Some crude pics make me happy that im not a gaenocologist. Personally, when the mrs and i look for a guy, she will ask for xxl..and if a guy has a sample, all the better. We do meet first and if all he has is a big dick, we pass by..but we do look at dicks as one of our prerequisites.
Quote by bodyheat
im sure that this subject has been broached before but here goes..
why is it sexy, a turn on, when a woman states that she is bi-curious but when a man shows the same preferences, it is unclean, unsexy, an abomination almost?
Well - I would venture that to those who are looking for a bi guy, it would be ideal, but only wouldn't appeal to those that aren't looking for a bi guy - and in that case - do you care that he has a problem with you being bi? He isn't interested in meeting you anyway so why would you care?
hi leec,
its not that i care, his loss anyway..its when people reply and the tone of it demonstrates disgust, shock...my bisexuality does not negate my hetero side. All it is , is a different sexual experience. I like my prostate massaged and many women dont get that. I also enjoy an erect phallus in my mouth.
Quote by bodyheat
hi leec,
its not that i care, his loss anyway..its when people reply and the tone of it demonstrates disgust, shock...my bisexuality does not negate my hetero side. All it is , is a different sexual experience. I like my prostate massaged and many women dont get that. I also enjoy an erect phallus in my mouth.
I think the fear of Bi guys is similar to the fear of gay guys.
It's the same homophobia, that a guy who like other guys, wants to have sex with All of them.
"Oh, you like cock? You must want to jump every man you see?"
I think it might be helpful for bi guys who are looking for "straight" sex here, to specify that if no MM touching is wanted by the couple, then that would be respected.
Good idea KC_, being really blunt and explicit about what you're open to is a REALLY good idea in this lifestyle <gawd I hate this new stupid bouncy smilies>
Also I like to point out to scaredy-cat hetero guys that they don't want to shag ALL women just because they are straight... So it obviously follows that gay people and bi people are actually the same in that way... in that they actually only want to shag people they are actually attracted to... and that ... well... probably doesn't include you.. especially because you're acting like a douche, which is super unattractive on any person of any sexual orientation... 
Quote by LeeEC
Also I like to point out to scaredy-cat hetero guys that they don't want to shag ALL women just because they are straight... So it obviously follows that gay people and bi people are actually the same in that way... in that they actually only want to shag people they are actually attracted to... and that ... well... probably doesn't include you.. especially because you're acting like a douche, which is super unattractive on any person of any sexual orientation...
I was trying to think of a way to say that, but that is perfect!
Orgasminator
Quote by LeeEC
hehehe... I am gifted in the bluntness department, even if I do say so myself...
The call a spade a spade approach is always remarkably effective.
Forum Virgin
Basically, don't make a cock-up.
Forum Virgin
well there's mine. no stamina or erectile problems yet.
Orgasminator
i think you forgot to read the thread wantcouples. However you have reinforced a good point, guys flashing before reading and making themselves look like a tool. Well played.
This is a broad-reaching website which offers something for everyone which is why it includes bi-curious, bi-sexual and gay besides straight. If someone wants to look at gallery pics then they will see a mixture of penis pics and pussy pics put out by members wishing to boast of their genitals. This should not offend anyone. Dick pics will appeal to all the bi and gay men out there, and believe you me, there are tons of bi men. Maybe they will appeal less to the ladies, but this is not a straight-only website.
Warming the Bed
wantcouples , why all the bands and rings if u don't have problems?lol.
Please explain, just for the fun of it, why would bands & rings mean he has a problem? If you think that way, why not just come out and say it: Do you need all that shit to keep your dick up, dude? ...... is all of that an automatic and currently politically correct conclusion? ..... maybe he just likes it, who are we to judge? You don't know me, you don't know me at all...........
