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Porn is a TERRIBLE yardstick to measure any sexual act by.
Porn is ENTERTAINMENT for boys.
it is NOT REAL LIFE!
Porn is like cartoons - you can recognise the characters, but it has VERY LITTLE common with reality.
90% of real-life actual women who will be willing to shag you will not want you to cum on her, on her face or hair .
On the issue of mouth - this is the one exception, here about half the women you are with will like /enjoy /want to taste/swallow cum, but be careful what you eat if you want that to keep happening. Usually not as the 'end product' of sex but rather more likely in a blow job context, and few might only do it coz you want to, and will not swallow.
In terms Ass, very few real actual women (maybe about 20%, I'm guessing from my info) are 'into' anal sex or have even tried it. In real life it's no where near as 'normal' or 'acceptable' as porn makes it out to be, however most women who are into it will LOVE it.
But for me mostly, as long as I'm cumming, I really don't care where you put your cum as long as it doesn't inconvenience me after the fact... which means you had better NOT bring that stuff anywhere near my face or hair.
Master of Sex
Firstly i think me being kinda OCD doesnt allow me to be er sticky. Lol I need to bath/shower asap if we(long term lover) dont do the safe sex thing. Also i am allergic to semen, no i am not joking.
But i think women in porn only do that cos they getting paid for it. I have had a "moment" with someone i loved and didnt mind it inside felt good. But havent done it again.
Quote by LeeEC
Porn is a TERRIBLE yardstick to measure any sexual act by.
Porn is ENTERTAINMENT for boys.
it is NOT REAL LIFE!
Porn is like cartoons - you can recognise the characters, but it has VERY LITTLE common with reality.
90% of real-life actual women who will be willing to shag you will not want you to cum on her, on her face or hair .
On the issue of mouth - this is the one exception, here about half the women you are with will like /enjoy /want to taste/swallow cum, but be careful what you eat if you want that to keep happening. Usually not as the 'end product' of sex but rather more likely in a blow job context, and few might only do it coz you want to, and will not swallow.
In terms Ass, very few real actual women (maybe about 20%, I'm guessing from my info) are 'into' anal sex or have even tried it. In real life it's no where near as 'normal' or 'acceptable' as porn makes it out to be, however most women who are into it will LOVE it.
But for me mostly, as long as I'm cumming, I really don't care where you put your cum as long as it doesn't inconvenience me after the fact... which means you had better NOT bring that stuff anywhere near my face or hair.
Good summation and on the money! Especially the part about porn - terrible, terrible yardstick!!
Have to agree with the other ladies here.
In my head, cumming inside your condom would be ideal for all parties involved:
I get stimulation until the very end... and you get to cum while fucking. I have always been under the assumption that for men orgasm during sex is better than pulling out, taking the condom off and jerking yourself off onto a body part of mine?
However, I get that everyone is different, and people want different things...
So, I am OK with cum on my tits, tummy or lower back, but definitely not on my face!
The only person who gets to cum in my mouth, or any other body cavity for that matter is K. And no, I don't swallow, I spit it straight back onto him. I LOVE the taste of his precum, but not his cum.
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C
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C Something on porn.....sometimes it is really not always*CUM* one sees being flung around like a fountain....
there is little squirt bottles of fluids the *actors* have and that is what is flung around at the crucial moments.
Most of those manly men is so doped up with *erection pills* they cannot cum on demand.
But of course there are the real Cumming shots as well.
Sex God
Right, MooPoo gang, is it not time we hijacked this post? with the exception of @Gerrie 
we have all been very well behaved.
@1NCswinger may we please have permission to hijack your forum now and take it to a new level of discussion (staying on topic of course) . . . .
we have all been very well behaved.
@1NCswinger may we please have permission to hijack your forum now and take it to a new level of discussion (staying on topic of course) . . . . Quote by KC_
Have to agree with the other ladies here.
In my head, cumming inside your condom would be ideal for all parties involved:
I get stimulation until the very end... and you get to cum while fucking. I have always been under the assumption that for men orgasm during sex is better than pulling out, taking the condom off and jerking yourself off onto a body part of mine?
However, I get that everyone is different, and people want different things...
So, I am OK with cum on my tits, tummy or lower back, but definitely not on my face!
The only person who gets to cum in my mouth, or any other body cavity for that matter is K. And no, I don't swallow, I spit it straight back onto him. I LOVE the taste of his precum, but not his cum.
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C
For me, cumming while shagging is not near as as good as pulling out... Mine gets extremely sensitive at the end, so direct stimulation of the head results in "painful pleasure", this ruins the end result for me. I love to pull out and the lady finishes me by hand not going to high over the head. And seeing it go on a sexy belly - OMG!!! Out of this world for me!! One draw back, cowgirl! This means I cum on my own stomach - not as appealing!!
So sad Stamina.... What you have just described means you go to the bottom of the list for me....
UNLESS you have superior tongue skills.... this might initiate a reassessment of your suitability.... :razz:
Mind you... guys - is it true that condoms reduce the "pain" of extremely sensitive heads? Coz for me - like C, I am very clear on the only really non-negotiable aspect of swing-play: no condom = no play
One question - please tell me, in the senario of the guy pulling out - at what point is HER pleasure and desire and enjoyment appearing in this equation? (When is she cumming in this plan?)
On a more serious note - it is a very BAD idea to assume that a woman will WANT or even be ok with the idea that YOU WANT to spray your cum anywhere in particular, on her or in her.
The RULE is, whether in a vanilla relationship or in swing play ASK her what she is ok with and what she wants -
ASK HER - the ONE YOU ACTUALLY HAVING SEX WITH - not a bunch of other people -
there is NO CORRECT (or widely applicable) answer to the question.
EVERY WOMEN is different, and though the vast majority will not like you spraying your stuff all over - you could be one of those lucky porn-lovers, who finds a girl who loves to be your personal porn star too! BUT THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW is to ask HER! 
Casanova
With any couples or singles I always ask how they want me to cum and where. I have been with a couple where they wanted you to cum in glass and after you and her husband finished in the glass she would take it and throw it over her boobs. A little weird for me but I was following what they wanted.
I would wait until she has climaxed and satisfied before I would pull out, unless she doesnt want you inside her at that time. The favourite for me is muffing her when she climaxes.
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
UNLESS you have superior tongue skills.... this might initiate a reassessment of your suitability.... :razz:
Mind you... guys - is it true that condoms reduce the "pain" of extremely sensitive heads? Coz for me - like C, I am very clear on the only really non-negotiable aspect of swing-play: no condom = no play
One question - please tell me, in the senario of the guy pulling out - at what point is HER pleasure and desire and enjoyment appearing in this equation? (When is she cumming in this plan?)
On a more serious note - it is a very BAD idea to assume that a woman will WANT or even be ok with the idea that YOU WANT to spray your cum anywhere in particular, on her or in her.
The RULE is, whether in a vanilla relationship or in swing play ASK her what she is ok with and what she wants -
ASK HER - the ONE YOU ACTUALLY HAVING SEX WITH - not a bunch of other people -
there is NO CORRECT (or widely applicable) answer to the question.
EVERY WOMEN is different, and though the vast majority will not like you spraying your stuff all over - you could be one of those lucky porn-lovers, who finds a girl who loves to be your personal porn star too! BUT THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW is to ask HER!
@Stamina, that's four by my count :doh:
Condom's reducing the pain of extremely sensitive heads I cannot comment on, and unless nature gets in the way, ladies cum first (and hopefully repeatedly)
Now surely the men have learnt that the secret to so called "better / wow" sex is to talk with the lady? If it is a meet, greet put in, pull out & say goodbye situation, then "standard behavior" is what is required, if you (and your lady friend) are wanting a little more excitement, then talking is a no brainer . . . or am I just weird?
Say for example, you actually meet someone on SH, you chat for a while and eventually decide to meet. You get down to the reason for the meet, when you are ready you pull out and try put the result of your efforts on some or other part of her body . . . . . 99% chance you are never going to meet this lady again and have the opportunity to take your sessions to higher levels, but if you had been talking about what you both enjoy and had set some ground rule, surely the sky then becomes the limit for future endeavors?
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...ladies cum first (and hopefully repeatedly)
Now surely the men have learnt that the secret to so called "better / wow" sex is to talk with the lady? If it is a meet, greet put in, pull out & say goodbye situation, then "standard behavior" is what is required, if you (and your lady friend) are wanting a little more excitement, then talking is a no brainer . . . or am I just weird?
Say for example, you actually meet someone on SH, you chat for a while and eventually decide to meet. You get down to the reason for the meet, when you are ready you pull out and try put the result of your efforts on some or other part of her body . . . . . 99% chance you are never going to meet this lady again and have the opportunity to take your sessions to higher levels, but if you had been talking about what you both enjoy and had set some ground rule, surely the sky then becomes the limit for future endeavors?
*AND SDMR pulls into the lead with his superior swinging skills and it's quite obvious this rider has a trick or two up his... um... pants leg*
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
The favourite for me is muffing her when she climaxes.
*Georgeous comes up from behind snatching pole position, surprising Stamina by sneaking past him on the inside lane* :twisted:
It's a bloody good thing I don't have people around me, they would have me committed to a mental institution for rolling on the floor laughing uncontrollably . . ..
@Stamina, it is becoming very apparent that despite any and all efforts from me to "pull rank" be it with age or experience, or even to highlight how often your short and curlies are being handed to you by a girl, that @LeeEC has made it clear that you are the favourite.
Watch this space :censored:
Sex God
*AND SDMR pulls into the lead with his superior swinging skills and it's quite obvious this rider has a trick or two up his... um... pants leg*
Like I said, watch this space . . . .
Like I said, watch this space . . . .
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
that @LeeEC has made it clear that you are the favourite.
Watch this space :censored:
Favourite? For? Flogging? :twisted:
Go on then, tell us . . .
Casanova
@Lee. You know exactly what to say and when to put such a smile on a person's face that makes them look like they a ..........
:haha:
:haha: Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
Go on then, tell us . . .
I can't tell you all my secrets....
That is a matter of opinion, and just so you know, your opinion is inaccurate . . . . . . . .
Casanova
Quote by LeeEC
Ok, let me re-phrase:
I can't tell you all my secrets.... on a PUBLIC FORUM! :haha:
Now you've got me intrigued :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by LeeEC
Yes well.... mystery is one of my BEST qualities.... that and ma whippin' skills
Mystery?? or simply blatant refusal to share info? :giveup:
Quote by LeeEC
The favourite for me is muffing her when she climaxes.
*Georgeous comes up from behind snatching pole position, surprising Stamina by sneaking past him on the inside lane* :twisted:
Ladies pleasure before mine... I have always made it my mission to never finish unless she has had atleast two climaxes. I said in a different post under a different topic a while back - A lady climaxing is my pleasure! That is what does it for me. I have often (very often) not finished but the lady did... I have control and I am able to go a while (nickname for a reason). If for some reason the lady gets me to the end faster (and some know how!!), then I will stop and wait a few seconds and kinda "resets", then I can go for a while again. I can do this over and over. I despise quickies!!!
This is not bragging - I promise, it is the honest truth. If "ejaculating" was the the main reason for me to have sex, well then I can just yank it and get the same end result. If a lady allows you access to the forbidden fruit, show your appreciation - pleasure her, then you!
Quote by LeeEC
UNLESS you have superior tongue skills.... this might initiate a reassessment of your suitability.... :razz:
Mind you... guys - is it true that condoms reduce the "pain" of extremely sensitive heads? Coz for me - like C, I am very clear on the only really non-negotiable aspect of swing-play: no condom = no play
One question - please tell me, in the senario of the guy pulling out - at what point is HER pleasure and desire and enjoyment appearing in this equation? (When is she cumming in this plan?)
On a more serious note - it is a very BAD idea to assume that a woman will WANT or even be ok with the idea that YOU WANT to spray your cum anywhere in particular, on her or in her.
The RULE is, whether in a vanilla relationship or in swing play ASK her what she is ok with and what she wants -
ASK HER - the ONE YOU ACTUALLY HAVING SEX WITH - not a bunch of other people -
there is NO CORRECT (or widely applicable) answer to the question.
EVERY WOMEN is different, and though the vast majority will not like you spraying your stuff all over - you could be one of those lucky porn-lovers, who finds a girl who loves to be your personal porn star too! BUT THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW is to ask HER!
Lee, I am always at the bottom of the list anyway - nice guys finish last!
