This lifestyle has the wheels turning. Since joining here and a while before, when my curiosity started to overflow, I look at people differently. 5years ago, if I walked through a mall, I would not look twice at people around me. I would just go about my business. Lately, I look at everybody - at people in their cars by the traffic lights, at people walking in and out of shops, people in the line at the ATM, etc... I try to deduce (visually) if they are or could be swingers. After all, swingers are normal everyday people. I always wonder - "could she have had a mmf last night and now she is on her way to work for another "standard" day". The hottie in front of me at the cigarette counter could have had a five man gang bang 30 minutes ago! I wait for the day that I am "chatting up" a girl in a club and turning up the charm, and get asked if I am ok with boyfriend joining in... He he he.. That would be something!
Just thoughts running through my head...
Once bitten twice shy........... damn why did I get to choose the romantic guy. Jaw dropped, face turned into beetroot and he stuttered " I h h have a girlfriend" A week later obviously after some thought he approached me. Sorry pal you snooze you lose!
seems I have done this a little backwards . . .
It was my constant need to look at people and "wonder" that got me into this "lifestyle" in the first place
Damn, now your gonna have me thinking that way next time I go out
Ahhhhhn True , I always sit and wonder who is who...
The best times is when you recognize someone from a face photo on some site or other........but I would never be as forward to go to them and say something, I would not like to embarrass them in anyway.
Sometimes I like to watch the surprise on someone`s face ,of what they are obviously thinking in meeting me for the first time Just by looking at their face tells me they are thinking.*THIS Is PiB1* No way.....can not be!!!
Wife and I were sandwiched between a couple on the left and one on the right, in a crowded restaurant on Friday (Valentine's evening)...
It was lovely to watch these youngsters wooing their maidens. The singers girlfriend was fawning over him and mouthing every word he was singing, with a look of absolute adoration in her eyes and continued applauding after every number even long after the clapping from the rest of the patrons had died down.
We can truly say "Love was in the air" that evening.
But what really attracted my attention was the (older) couple beyond the one to my right, who struck up a conversation with our neighbours and were laughing and joking before very long. They looked to me for all the world, like a swinging couple, full of joir de vivre (ok, spelling sucks).
So yes, I agree, I look at fellow humans in a different light too while in a crowd. Its sooo enjoyable.
So if it was you in that rustic little restaurant in Boksburg, sitting 2 tables away from us, on Friday night............. own up and make yourself known, tell me if I was right or wrong........... LOL