Confusing profiles

There are many different profile styles and content but there are a couple of things that confuse me. One is the listing of straight male under 'looking for' followed by a 'NO SINGLE MALES' message with a touch of admonishment!!!! Am I missing something? I've seen it so frequently it can only be my mistake. Lol . Also there are the couples who view your 'single male' profile more than once and when you reciprocate out of curiosity, same neon message!!

The other confusing one is double penetration listed on interests but no mention of anal. Am I being a purist or are both other methods of having two cocks simultaneously allowed under this heading? Maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick, as they say. Lol

I'm also sure that there is sometimes a bit of confusion about the contextual meanings of dogging and water sports, judging from some of the funny interactions I've had.

Maybe a concise glossary is needed but it it might remove those funny talking points.

Cheers

mmm We once had a guy around and he also had a lot ofthings to say, also a purist

He got nothing, a pity he looked quite good

Hmmm, so I guess the moral of the story is: The more you have to say, the less you're gonna get ?!?

What I find strange, is the number of straight men, that have their profiles as showing them as straight, that according to their profiles are looking for sex with single, married, bi or gay women, yet they spend the greater portion of their time on this site in the bi or gay men room. How can they be straight but spend all their time in the bi/gay room, and proposition guys constantly? That being said, how can they even list that they are looking for sex with a gay woman? Do they think that the moment they show her a dick pic she is going to magically turn straight, and that they have any chance of having sex with that woman?

Why can't people just be honest, and say what they mean? If you're not straight, don't state in your profile that you straight, but then spend all your time in the bi/gay guys rooms. If you don't want any contact with men, a "thanks but no thanks" in your profile.
If you're curious about playing with a guy, state that you are bi-curious.
If you have played with guys, and want to experience it again, state that you are bi.
You end up lying to others as well as yourself.

Most guys that visit this site are not true Swinging lifestylers, but are simple guys trying to cheat on their wives, girlfriends, partners or significant others,
I have been fortunate that the couples and single ladies I have met, have been in the lifestyle, and play as a couple.
There have also been lots of guys that have propositioned me, saying that they want to play with me alone, without their partners knowing.
If I wanted to be a cheat, I would not have spent years communicating with my wife about all my feelings, wants and desires,  in order to gain her consent. I could have just gone out and cheating on her.

Some of the guys get lucky, and manage to get a date with woman, but they are in the minority,

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The other confusing one is double penetration listed on interests but no mention of anal. Am I being a purist or are both other methods of having two cocks simultaneously allowed under this heading?

On my profile I ticked the "anal" check BUT in the write up states my prefered method of it. Hubby and I are into double penetration, now if I did not have "perversion" for giving anal, I too would not have the anal box ticked. See, we want dp but hubby is the only one I trust enough to recieve anal from.

Might be others feel the same way or maybe they want dp to mean two cocks both in the pussy?

Hmmmmm

Another confusing mark on profiles is the persistent ....we/I don't cross racial boundaries or whites only.....

I totally respect people wishing to play within a certain race demographic.....but get real confused when that is your preference and you still contact me....especially as I make it clear that I am not white...Caucasian .....or a confused Caucasian.....

I would almost go so far as to say people don't actually put in any effort in opening a profile and checking what they want/don't want...

And if someone contacts you although your profile states you are not interested in said checklist, it means they didn't even bother reading it first.

Zaenia I agree 100% with you. The "we dont cross the racial line" looks at your profile like in 7 times in an hour. And the next day again. Dont know if they hope that we would suddenly turn white overnight. 

I agree that everyone has their preference and we should respect that. But why confuse us by saying one thing and then appear to be interested. 

I asked one couple why they keep on looking at our profile knowing I am not white. their reponse was that they are "getting around" to change their view.

Please...

what im confused about is the racial border they dont cross. Im still trying to find this border.......

Anybody know its location?

It's found in the mind, just to the right 

so what happens when they get there they just stop and dont go further.

Also "sticking to our own race". We all part of the human race.......... nobody asked you to do another species.

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It's found in the mind, just to the right 

 Hahaha! Yes.....that's about where it's at!

We all have certain lines we're not comfortable crossing....let and let live! 

The confusion is not about why folks put that on their profile. It's about...why put it out there and then contact someone who makes it clear what their ethnicity may or may not be.

The part I have never been able to compute, is why said preferences are only an issue in one particular direction . . . . . 

its the matter of majority Mr SDM. Its also still very reflective of our society.......

Yes you will get them in both senses but its much higher from a certain demographic. 

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There are many different profile styles and content but there are a couple of things that confuse me. One is the listing of straight male under 'looking for' followed by a 'NO SINGLE MALES' message with a touch of admonishment!!!! Am I missing something? I've seen it so frequently it can only be my mistake. Lol . Also there are the couples who view your 'single male' profile more than once and when you reciprocate out of curiosity, same neon message!!
The other confusing one is double penetration listed on interests but no mention of anal. Am I being a purist or are both other methods of having two cocks simultaneously allowed under this heading? Maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick, as they say. Lol
I'm also sure that there is sometimes a bit of confusion about the contextual meanings of dogging and water sports, judging from some of the funny interactions I've had.
Maybe a concise glossary is needed but it it might remove those funny talking points.
Cheers

 Ok buddy.. clearly you misunderstand the intentions of "Interested In". When guys have a variety of interests, they are simeplh stating that they are adventurous. 

You, clearly are offended by the promiscuous way of swingers in gerneral.. 

I wouldn't qdvise prudes such as yourself here. You have said what you want to say.. now god speed.. 

lol. That's a shame, they scared each other off the site.