Condoms

What's thoughts on using or not using condoms when playing with others.

We are NON NEGOTIABLE on there use.

Others thoughts are welcome on this subject. 

To me it is a no brainer. Use condoms. If you are both exclusively committed to the relationship, get tested and take it from there.

been in the LS for a few years now, and have seen couples who play with and without, depending on how well they know each other (doesn't really mean crap). some if not most cases, a couple would say they only play with condoms, but then when it comes to the big nasty part, they dont.

some will also say they dont mind, its up to the women to decide. some will play with a couple and go bareback exclusively with them. or so they say. but rest assured, most and i mean most people DO NOT want to play with condoms.

Well honestly we don't want to play with condoms.

Mrs loves feeling cum, so she lets the bloke after taking the condom off finish on her boobs or over her back etc, never inside but on top.....lol.  

So we use them as the risks are too high without.

Rather play safe than regret not having done so.

not really wanting to  tell people what to do...but you are putting your selves at high risk if you are having sex with strangers and even with people you know with out a condom...we would also prefer not  to use condoms....but not even going to think about doing that....

people have this idea that it cant happen to them....

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not really wanting to  tell people what to do...but you are putting your selves at high risk if you are having sex with strangers and even with people you know with out a condom...we would also prefer not  to use condoms....but not even going to think about doing that....
people have this idea that it cant happen to them....

We fully agree which is why we a condom using couple, but have had a few trying to convince us different, so just seeing what is opinion on the subject.

We do not play with condoms. We believe condoms provide people with an absolute false sense of security! If a lady gives a gent a BJ or a gent muff's a lady, their bodily fluids mix! So what is the purpose of using a condom then? In this lifestyle, it is EXTREMELY dangerous to have a false sense of security.

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We do not play with condoms. We believe condoms provide people with an absolute false sense of security! If a lady gives a gent a BJ or a gent muff's a lady, their bodily fluids mix! So what is the purpose of using a condom then? In this lifestyle, it is EXTREMELY dangerous to have a false sense of security.

 Well somehow the greater majority of HIV researchers tend to disagree with your way of seeing things, but then you are welcome to your opinion and manner of playing.

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Quote by 6BeautyBeast9
We do not play with condoms. We believe condoms provide people with an absolute false sense of security! If a lady gives a gent a BJ or a gent muff's a lady, their bodily fluids mix! So what is the purpose of using a condom then? In this lifestyle, it is EXTREMELY dangerous to have a false sense of security.

 Well somehow the greater majority of HIV researchers tend to disagree with your way of seeing things, but then you are welcome to your opinion and manner of playing.

So you reckon that if you go down on a lady or she goes down on you, then you are safe....according to research?

Nope, but as sure as hell using a condom for genital sex lessens the risk.

Each to his own. I just don't want to create a false sense of security. I would rather screen, and create a small group of play friends.

but maybe go read this and numerous medical articles............. for us as a couple biggest worry is HIV, the rest yes we worry about as well butt generally the others are treatable, but still we try lessen our chances of getting any by using condoms.

Well yes each to his own, us as a couple will not play with those who dont use condoms, as you say each to his own, screening is only as safe as the last person they slept with and the window period for antibody build up to indicate a positive read, in that window period you can unknowingly infect anyone you have sexual conduct with.

The chance an HIV-negative person will get HIV from oral sex with an HIV-positive partner is extremely low. However, it is hard to know the exact risk because a lot of people who have oral sex also have anal or vaginal sex. The type of oral sex that may be the riskiest is mouth-to-penis oral sex. But the risk is still very low, and much lower than with anal or vaginal sex.

Though the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is low, several factors may increase that risk, including sores in the mouth or vagina or on the penis, bleeding gums, oral contact with menstrual blood, and the presence of other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

This is a piece from that report..... When things are going wild, you do not have a clue as to REALLY how healthy your partners for the night are. One of them might have bitten their tongue the previous day...who thinks biting your tongue is a big thing? Very few people.

As you say each to their own........... but sorry for us no condom is no play, for you, well the worlds your oyster to do what ever you wish.

no one wants to play with condoms, plain and simple. but id rather live longer, than to give in to years of pain and regret, all for a night of pleasure.

I agree... we posted this question after a bloke at the very last second informed us despite it on our profile being a open requirement he wont use them... implying do we think he has a STD.

Well we never got together  as we play as safe as we can.

if a guy/girl/couple insists on no protection, then they can kiss our butts.

talk about trying to defend the indefenceable(sic)....

i find strange that people even need to debate the issue...no condom no play...its not even up for debate with us...

but we all have different viewpoints...but we cant have our own facts lol

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talk about trying to defend the indefenceable(sic)....
i find strange that people even need to debate the issue...no condom no play...its not even up for debate with us...
but we all have different viewpoints...but we cant have our own facts lol

 Same here, no glove = no love.

But suspect a few who have replied to our adverts, which is not run of the norm type of play as not everyone is into what we do, so when the playtime draws near they chickened out, so they pull the no condom play thing as a way to save face.

the risk is to high these day's, no glove, no love

Condoms for sex def Protects against hiv pretty much 100 percent

However you can get herpes and Warts even with condoms harmless and treatable every swinger is taking this risk and I'll bet more have it than they care to admit. As far as oral pretty much 100 percent safe , in rare cases may contract syphilis . Get tested every so often and make use of the hiv test kits at pharmacies if you and a special partner you go without and trust each other.

Remember many people are hiding secrets having weird shady sex with low rent hookers , sticking needles in their arms it happens. Also Partner was very experienced DR so this is not just talking out my ass , research personal experience and medical professional advice

Seems like you going to spam every post with your medical advice.