I am chatting to a gent who tells me He has a problem that I have not dealt with before. I need to hear what the MEN has to say and maybe give advice???
Being newly waxed as in CLEAN all over even up the shaft area, this gent says he has now found that his usual condoms he uses slides off during intercourse.
In his own words pasting in:-
I use to have plenty of hair all the way to the tip and now it is all gone and it is very smooth.
That all sounds cool but here is what is now happening,(My wife and I have a regular group of swingers) As a group We normally have all sorts of fun to eventually when it is time to roll down the *rubber man*, As I'm not wearing one until the action starts.
Penetration and the movements are usually more than good and fine,but every time lately I notice I am feeling that things feels a bit odd. Every time I pull out to inspect the odd feeling, I find that the *rubber man* has gone AWOL, nowhere to be seen.
I have to apologize to the lady who is wondering what is going on and waiting…. *excuse me* and I have to go fishing, only to find it bunched up inside the ladies vagina. NOW THIS IS NOT cool at all!
This has never been a problem before the waxing. I stay just as hard as before,I use the same condoms and other than the waxing nothing else has changed that we can think of.
We often use lots of lube for various reasons that I won't go into right now and often I don't use condoms with my wife, so I then have lube on me before I put it on.
Now I have to wipe myself down carefully with a towel before putting the condom on and yes ,I do make sure that the right side of lubed condoms are on the outside but It happens all the time!!! Condom slipping of during intercourse. We found that Durex also has less of a problem in this regard but I now have to keep on watching it.
I do believe that guys that are not as hairy do not wax all the way up the shaft so they still have finer hair to help secure the condom.
Has anyone had this problem or can they shed light on the situation?
Now guys My first thought was this gent may have a long and thin penis…but the condoms never slipped off before So it is could not be that
To much lube…yeah but he is cleaning any surplus lube off his genitals before putting on the condom.
MY conclusion is …. the ladies vaginas has grown teeth!!!!! It is my only explanation…..
So guys or anyone who can help HELP!!!! HELP!!!!!!
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Sex God
A starnge one indeed.
Maybe too much lube, maybe a different type of lube?
Maybe a different brand or size of condoms? Maybe condom manufacturer had poor batch?
I really don't know, but can imagine how frustrating it must be. Any lady who has a situation where the guys condom came off inside her would freak . . . . (the guy would too I bet)
Now believe or not, penis shape will have much to do with this. A penis with a tapered shape (wider at the base than at the tip) will definitely give such a problem. A very straight penis too as a curved one (like mine 
) will hold a condom on better than a straight one... Try pulling a latex glove finger off of a finger slightly bent, very difficult.. Then try the same thing but with the finger dead straight and the glove will slip off easily. Then also I have been told that uncircumcised men have more problems with slipping condoms than circumcised men. This is because the foreskin tends to slip back over the head inside the condom and then the rim of the head no longer helps with that extra grip.
Hope it helps.
) will hold a condom on better than a straight one... Try pulling a latex glove finger off of a finger slightly bent, very difficult.. Then try the same thing but with the finger dead straight and the glove will slip off easily. Then also I have been told that uncircumcised men have more problems with slipping condoms than circumcised men. This is because the foreskin tends to slip back over the head inside the condom and then the rim of the head no longer helps with that extra grip.
Hope it helps. Thanks SDMR seems the other men on here is to shy to make a comment.
I have also posted a very short version of the same question on another swing site I am on....
The same results...
No one has a clue as to why this is happening.
Only solution I really have at the back of my mind to suggest to the gent is..
To go buy a good sticky mikro-pore plaster at their chemist.
After wiping down the shaft of ALL oils.(as the plaster will not stick other wise)..to secure the rolled down condom by rolling and sticking a few rounds of plaster AROUND the shaft with the mikropore,that is to say. ONLY around where the OPENING of the condom meets the securing it and to be removed by pulling the palster OFF afterwards...
Now just remember THAT alone can be painfull. and to do that a few times a night OH BOY Horror on Horror....
But clueless of to anything else as I am flabbergasted by this phenomena....
@ Stamina
Thanks I hope your answer will help the gent! As I have never seen his genitals I would not know how it is *shaped*but I would think a thick base and thinner head could be a culprit of this phenomena.
And I have never experienced this problem thus me not knowing anything about it.
Did really not know a foreskin could be a culprit aswell !!
Just a thought , is this foreskin thingie not also due to the gent going *soft*????
Now I need to ask the gent to see his *pride and joy* normal and erect,I think!!!
@ Lee , Now that is a VERY good idea, a nice stretchy silicon cock the place of my mikropore NO pain at all!!!!
Warming the Bed
superglue!!!!!!!!! :rascal:
Orgasminator
Quote by katniss
superglue!!!!!!!!! :rascal:
Warming the Bed
Condoms usually slip off because they're not the right size. Try experimenting with different brands/types within brands/etc.
If you can get your hands on some Crown Skinless Skin condoms they will change your life :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by jtrdbn
Condoms usually slip off because they're not the right size. Try experimenting with different brands/types within brands/etc.
If you can get your hands on some Crown Skinless Skin condoms they will change your life :twisted:
So how about some direction as to which kind of retailer stocks this brand?
Sex God
Just a thought, and I honestly don't know if I am even on the right track here, but if the male of the species has 'issues' wearing condoms, be it because of slipping or sensation or or or . . .. . . . wouldn't the female condom be of some benefit???????? surely in this day and age, it is not only the males responsibility to be 'responsible' . . .
@ SDMR my good sir, YOU I am sure have NO Idea on how a female condoms looks like huh??? And I think , you never had to make use of one??
It is the MOST un becoming thing ever made !!!! I am sure it does the job of preventing pregnancies and STDs.
It is like a LARGE plastic bag you have to shove up your *whahoo*......and the ladies who tried it told me it SQUEAKS worse than an Old spring mattress bed when shagging.
Soooo from my side, I am NOT EVER going to ever use One!!! Nope not ever, EVERRrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Warming the Bed
Quote by SDMR
Condoms usually slip off because they're not the right size. Try experimenting with different brands/types within brands/etc.
If you can get your hands on some Crown Skinless Skin condoms they will change your life :twisted:
So how about some direction as to which kind of retailer stocks this brand?
Crown is not sold locally. They aren't a "more snug" fit but they feel amazing (like nothing at all). You can order them through a site called WantItAll. They are really expensive though. I usually stock up when I travel abroad.
Warming the Bed
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR my good sir, YOU I am sure have NO Idea on how a female condoms looks like huh??? And I think , you never had to make use of one??
It is the MOST un becoming thing ever made !!!! I am sure it does the job of preventing pregnancies and STDs.
It is like a LARGE plastic bag you have to shove up your *whahoo*......and the ladies who tried it told me it SQUEAKS worse than an Old spring mattress bed when shagging.
Soooo from my side, I am NOT EVER going to ever use One!!! Nope not ever, EVERRrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Hahaha having tested it out I can only agree. Its a weird thing. There are 2 hardened "rings" on either side one of which goes inside and one which sits outside on the surface. It looks a bit disturbing too! Also when you're really going at it, pounding away, it sounds like you're scrunching up a checkers packet
Okay here is now the following thing I think the Government should work on.
When it comes to condoms, a man can get them for free from some places and at some places they hand them out in public for free. Not just that there is so much pressure put on the men to use condoms.
Now I saw for the first time how the female condoms looks like yesterday. My question is the following. WHY is the female condoms also not given out to the women for free? Everyone says the women are the most responsible. so don't you think if the female condoms are given for free then 90% of the problems have been eliminated?
Joyrider
Just food for thought
Hello Joyrider....thanks for the comment,
Females condoms are just as FREE as the male condoms at any Government not on display like the male condoms but you can ask for a people walk past the female condoms ,NOT realizing they are there for the taking.
But please Have YOU not read my review of it?? and the review of two other people who also confirmed that it is unpleasant using...as it is big,like a damn plastic bag.... and NOISY!!!!
And if you read the nice BIG fora that amazon has posted about the F/condom...anyone using it needs to check that the damn thing is still in place a FEW times during sex. Where male condoms are not always needed to be checked. That is why this forum was placed it is kinda abnormal for male condoms to slide off!!
Just one question WHY should women always be the responsible ones?? Men can surely take some responsibility??
Male condoms are so versatile.....it can even be used as a glove..it stretches that nicely (only in an emergency)
Male condoms make great balloons!!!
Male condoms *only in emergencies* be cut and used as a dam if needed.
Male condoms make GREAT ice dildo`s
Lastly but a GREAT thing for male condoms (said with tongue in cheek) one can REFUSE sex, if male is not wearing one!!!.
No need to fake a headache anymore!!
Sorry just had to bring in a little humor....
Orgasminator
I'm kinda shocked at you PiB. Here we have a perfectly safe contraceptive method and here you are discouraging safe sex.
Personally I think from a gender equality standpoint it's massive for woman. Now I've never tried it so I can't say how bad it is but safe sex is the same regardless of how it's done.
Sorry if this came out harsh.
Hi there all,
Well let me give you guys some feed back on the female condom.
Well let me say this, damn, why did i not find it sooner. Okay when you see the condom in place it is lets say it is quite intimedading. But boy o boy it is way better then the male condom. You feels better than with the male condom and not just that, you can pull out of the lady and let her suck a bit and then push straight back in, o it is great. Where with the male condom when you pull out of the lady and she sucks, you don't feel it as the condom blocks the feeling. And when pushing in and out of the lady the feeling is way, way better than using the male condom.
Joyrider
This is Rider i am now a new man, female condoms rule
@ Mike_pta.....I am so laughing at you buddy!!!! No offense taken from my side.
Now where am I discouraging safe sexy HUH?? I am only saying men have to wear the condoms.
OTHER ladies might like a female condom...ME NO WAY!!!!!!!
@ Joyrider now Why did I not think of the pleasure men has,when ladies are the ones having to insert that GIANT plastic condom....?? (again said with my tongue in the cheek)..... ermmm does it not feel like you are having sex with a blow up doll?? That plastic feeling and SQUEAKING when thrusting ??
What does your lovey say,How does she like the feeling of using a female condom??
NOW guys remember I know what a that offending female condom looks like,and I know how it feels in my hands, I HAVE never used one and never will...so I am could be talking sh*t, but the few ladies whom I know who used it ,REALLY says it is NOT so kosher.
As well as jtrdbn says they have tested the offending *thing* and gives the following feed back...pasting in
Hahaha having tested it out I can only agree. Its a weird thing. There are 2 hardened "rings" on either side one of which goes inside and one which sits outside on the surface. It looks a bit disturbing too! Also when you're really going at it, pounding away, it sounds like you're scrunching up a checkers packet
Please note the *disturbing* and the *sounds*....
LOL I like this fora, it has some nice feed backs.....Thanks guys!!!!
Even if we are from male condoms to lady condoms.
Orgasminator
Ok, so long as we are in the same boat. Too me it's just the way you keep saying no. Imo if it's safe and effective then it should be included in any swingers toolbox.
Maybe I should find someone to try it with.
@ Lee as far as I am concerned, I am respecting everyone`s preferences.
And I do not think we are fighting in this fora, well I might be a little dof, but I did not pick up on a fight or even a start of a fight or anything.
Were we fighting guys????? We were debating for sure, that I know.
I was also teasing Joyrider a bit hence me saying I am saying things with my tongue in my cheek.....
To anyone who read my comments as NEGATIVE ...
I think if everyone re-read my comments correctly, I was Speaking about ME and MYSELF not likely to ever use a female condom,I was most certainly not telling anyone NOT to use Female condoms.
Sex God
Quote by joyrider
Okay here is now the following thing I think the Government should work on.
When it comes to condoms, a man can get them for free from some places and at some places they hand them out in public for free. Not just that there is so much pressure put on the men to use condoms.
Now I saw for the first time how the female condoms looks like yesterday. My question is the following. WHY is the female condoms also not given out to the women for free? Everyone says the women are the most responsible. so don't you think if the female condoms are given for free then 90% of the problems have been eliminated?
Joyrider
Just food for thought
In some provinces the government has to supply more female than male condoms.
Research that the government does around HIV etc has also revealed that some women even wear the condoms in fear of to protect themselves from disease and pregnancy.
Males moan (not all) about using condoms, now here in this forum after the suggestion is made that women could possibly use them, women moan about using condoms . . . . . .
