After taking a look at plenty pic's on the site, and we must say there are some amazing pic's, we were just curious and wondering why would some guys be using cock rings? Is it to maintain a erection? Is it not dangerous after some time being on? Take it, a erection is merely the flow of blood into the penis after a male has been aroused, sure the cock ring delays the back flow of blood to ones body, however our concern is if used for too long a period in one play session, could it not create a blood clot that could lead to a heart attack? What is your experience with such things and what would you suggest to be a safe amount of time to use one? Couldn't one also be created from a steady piece of string with a slip knot in it? Are there really any alternatives to using such a device?
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COCK RINGS. safe or not?
Oh boy, I am so gonna answer you guys on this one!!! But right now I have to go spit and polish!!!
If I can be as narcissistic/egocentric to say I am really a FUNDI in cock and ball play.
Rope and any device you can use on cocks and balls I have them all!!!!!
So just give me time until later tonight when I CAN SIT BACK at work and really answer you guys.
Orgasminator
Pib wil vir jou se madam kan nie wag dat jy weer vir ons insiggewende inligting sal gee. Sy se dit is altyd lekker om jou inligting te probeer en moet se ons begin die kinky speel geniet
Sexlightened
Waiting in antisipation PIB
You get all sorts of cock rings, from silicone to stainless steel/aluminium .
I would advice anyone who wants to go buy one, who does not know anything about cock rings to buy silicone and rubber as it can be easily removed.
Stainless steel/aluminium may feel nice and look sexy, but if you are not sure about the size you need, you may buy one to small and cause damage to you penis and testicles/scrotum.
Why would one want to use a cock ring?
They're pretty! Cock rings present the genitals as an attractive *package* by making them more physically pronounced, as well as having a sexy, aesthetic effect.
A cock ring is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger(temporarily) to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. Cock rings work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come, and because the penis is filled with additional blood.
Since cock rings constrict the veins that would allow blood to drain out of an erection, some men find that wearing them can make their erections firmer, or even give them a little extra girth.
Some men (not all) find they cannot ejaculate while wearing a ring, this can give more *staying power*or a lovely,frustrating tease.
Safety
For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly.
Keep on touching the penis and testicles/scrotum(feeling for coldness) and watch for a pronounced swelling,if both are present, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold or the gents complain of his penis feeling *numb* take of the cock restraint/ring.
It is also dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are normal. Leave a cock or ball restraint on for ONLY about 20 to 30 minutes (and still keep a close watch for safety sake) and then give the cock and testicles/scrotum some relief.
An erection DUE TO RESTRAINT of several hours can cause blood coagulation(blood clot) in the penis,this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage.
Metal or rubber cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit. For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely.
Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rope or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable.
Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.(only if you know what you are doing can you use the above)
Experienced cock ring fans can delight in more complicated leather rings that include multiple straps, testicle separators, or weights, as well as rings made of inflexible materials like aluminium/stainless steel.
For beginners, I would advice buying silicone cock ringS or using a rope or leather thongS (keep handy a BLUNT edged scissors that you can buy at any chemist if you need to cut the restraint off with safety.
Also good to remember that you can apply ice that will help take down a stubborn erection.
You do get a Durex vibrating cock ring. But people this is a WASTE of money!!! It only vibrates a certain time then has to be thrown do, how ever get a battery operated one at sex stores,with different kinds of nubs and thingies,This kind of cock ring heightens the sexual play for the male and female.
How to put on a cock ring.
Lube up if it is a solid ring needed if you using rope or a leather by 2mm in diameter). rope or thong,nothing thinner as it might cut into the flesh,and it may become difficult to remove.
Cock rings typically are worn around the base of the cock and the balls. You can just wear it on the shaft (and by all means experiment), but cock rings function the most effectively when secured around both the scrotum and penis.
If you've got a solid cock ring, first pull the loose skin of your scrotum through, then drop one testicle through, then the other, and finally push your penis through. If you're using a strip of material that fastens, just gently lift your balls and fasten the strip around the penis and the balls, so it's resting between your genitals and the rest of your body.
As for rope or leather thong restraints
You can use a slip knot, sure and even tie it off with a little bow....but we Kinky types goes a little further.
The first is knot is at the base of the cock (where the cock ring normally goes). This need not be too tight, the next then goes around just the cock with a knot at the top of the balls/base of the cock.
Keeping the two laces together thread then under the lace that circles the bottom of the balls (where a gauche might go.
With care pull the lace through as this will cause friction burns on the skin otherwise.
Pull this tight enough to cause the balls to be separated.
Then tie a knot in the front in the front and repeat with another knot at the base of the cock and top of the balls.
The lace can then be passed down between the separated balls looping around to the front where it can be tied off.
This allows the balls to be further separated.
Then tie of and if you like with a nice bow.
Now your gent is ready for play!!!
All safety rules also applies here!!!
Hope this answers all questions about cock rings./or cock and ball restraints.
Maybe some men would like to give feed back on how they enjoy their cock rings?? And if I missed add.
I'm very keen now to try the separator type
Warming the Bed
I recently got myself some stainless steel cock rings.
The package had 3 rings in it, of varying sizes.
Inside diameter of the three is , 6cm and After some experimentation, I found that the largest ring fits best around the cock and balls, although it is still a snug fit.
Choose whichever fits you best.
To put it on, simply pulls your balls through the ring, then slightly squishing the penis, pull it through head first.
Be very careful not to pinch the loose skin, as it can easily tear or get a small cut or abrasion.
Just sitting with the cock ring on, gives a heightened sense of pleasure.
I am constantly aware that I have it on, and there is a gentle buzzing/throbbing in the nether regions.
My cock and balls are a bit more pronounced, sitting a bit further "out" than normal when flaccid.
When erect, the penis is quite a bit thicker, and appears to have a bit more protruding veins, which I am told heighten sensitivity and feeling.
To get the cock ring off can be quite tricky. It is best to use a bit of lube, or you could end up hurting yourself.
If you still have an erection, it is going to be nearly impossible to get off. Wait till your penis is flaccid before attempting to remove it.
Gently take hold of the penis close to the base, and start pulling it through the ring. Once the penis is about half way through, it becomes easier, and you can simply pull the rest through, taking care when you get to the head of the penis that you don't pinch or nick it between fingers and the ring.
Once the penis is out, it is a simple matter of removing your balls.
If I had known then what I know now, I would have got myself a cock ring years ago.
@ KC_
I would gladly introduce you both to some nice gentle tricks if you ask, if you guys are down here in more harsher ones if so desired.
@ Pez
Nice to read your experience.
I know most cock rings can not be fitted which is a pity as aluminium/stainless steel cock rings are I also know if you can use your own fingers to determine the proximity of your penis girth by adding fingers or subtracting them to see what the penis girth a slightly loose ring than one that is too tight.
I think it very dangerous to use a too small cock I explained oil/lube up and use ice if need be to reduce an erection. but you can also go to the nearest Emergency room for it to be removed,if it becomes a problem.I can tell you guys most doctors and nurses have seen funny stuff so you need not feel to embarrassed.
Also most people do not understand that testicles can be put through a very small space/hole/ring...by pulling the testicle skin through first, you just push on the *egg shaped testicle* to pop down into its original skin,then you do the second one, I,myself, prefer pushing the penis through first then the REMOVAL I do pull the penis out first.
Also If you do not have a thick enough rope or leather thong, a LONG shoe lace works very well!!!
Warming the Bed
Bringing a cock ring into our sex life has certainly spiced things up a bit.
Having experimented with cock rings since I got some recently, I decided to take the bull by the horns, and show my wife what I had acquired.
At first she thought it was unnecessary, and a hassle to put on and take off.
After our first bout of lovemaking with one on however, she is hooked on them.
According to her the cock ring makes my dick "bigger and thicker with more veins that give more stimulation" and that she also feels more filled up than without the cock ring.
I think my next purchase is going to be a slightly larger ring, as the rings feels a bit snug, and I am hesitant to allow any position that puts pressure on my dick and balls, other than in either missionary or doggy positions.
We still have some experimentation to do, and we are looking forward to it. 
@ Pez.
Do try the *rope* method for restricting your cock,and separating your balls, you will soon find yourself loving that.
As an alternative for a rope/shoestring/ cock ring you can buy this *devise*or even if you are creative enough make one which is very easy to make.
At a sex shop you will find a little device made of rubber with 2 beads.
The rubber will be looped both points through the beads...to form loop or *ring*
Then a second bead will be looped through to make a secondary loop or *ring*.
The working of this little cock and ball devise is the same as a rope or a stainless steel ring.
You just pull the beads down to enlarge the loops in the rubber which through the penis/testicles fit separately or you can only use one loop around both the penis and testicles ,before pushing the beads closed, to form a snug restriction.
Thus .....either together or separately....... cock in one loop and the balls in one loop , or together in one loop
Once again safety measures should be constantly be observed. coldness and severe swelling.
Balls ca actually turn nice and blue without it being in danger, but be careful.!!!!
Warming the Bed
Blue balls just feels wrong on so many levels....
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@ Voyeur50 I f I do a *fitting* I only use rope or leather and sometimes a shoestring.... I prefer them cause I CAN DO MUCH MORE THAN just binding the family jewels...
Shees I know how difficult it can be to take knots out of shoe strings, but I am curious about the more?
Love my cock rings and so do those I play with.
Definitely makes for a heightened sensation in the penis, I have one massive vein on top and it really sticks out. Also love feeling my balls part of the action.
My favourite ring is actually just a regular medium (too tight, but it's okay) silicone ring. My metal one is also good, but limits positions I can fuck in comfortably as it's quite thick.
All in, love a cock ring, and my fuckbuddy loves it too, if we use poppers too, my dick literally swells right up to monster size. LOL
